tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post2759543007213102053..comments2023-08-04T15:01:15.087+01:00Comments on close encounters: how to say no ?close encountershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-64206426347290541802007-08-24T20:24:00.000+01:002007-08-24T20:24:00.000+01:00Being silent adds to the tension since you're not ...Being silent adds to the tension since you're not actually "saying" no. Tension adds to the excitement and encourages them.<BR/><BR/>Doesn't take much to say "please put that away."Sir Wobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-20513031054900720132007-07-11T14:21:00.000+01:002007-07-11T14:21:00.000+01:00don't think i felt dirty, just a bit uncomfortable...don't think i felt dirty, just a bit uncomfortable ... i'm definitely not going to report a guy for doing that - it might put off the more attractive guys from doing something similar !close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-45618114500338013422007-07-10T13:32:00.000+01:002007-07-10T13:32:00.000+01:00yuk.. did you feel dirty? Its times like that tha...yuk.. did you feel dirty? Its times like that that I am tempted to report that person to front desk... then I remember that sometimes its not all that bad - especially if they are eye candy. :-) (clearly in my past life).Tales of the Cityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13182054767759882522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-39592132355496370872007-07-10T11:57:00.000+01:002007-07-10T11:57:00.000+01:00cuteCTguy not making eye contact was the first th...<A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/13182054767759882522" REL="nofollow">cuteCTguy </A> not making eye contact was the first thing i did - even to the extent of looking in the corner, far away from him ... but he just kept on stroking !close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-2403504524468734272007-07-10T08:55:00.000+01:002007-07-10T08:55:00.000+01:00I would say - Dont make eye contact!!I would say - Dont make eye contact!!Tales of the Cityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13182054767759882522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-24351049342959624912007-07-07T19:53:00.000+01:002007-07-07T19:53:00.000+01:00GB i waited until he had calmed down before i left...<A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759" REL="nofollow">GB</A> i waited until he had <I>calmed down</I> before i left, and even then he looked up in expectation ... but i'll defer to your greater experience of such situations !close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-17238025007821873122007-07-07T18:34:00.000+01:002007-07-07T18:34:00.000+01:00Actually m8, I think that if you make a point of l...Actually m8, I think that if you make a point of leaving, he's unlikely to follow. I reckon that's another way of saying "not interested".<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36588714.post-54048473926220049462007-07-06T03:45:00.000+01:002007-07-06T03:45:00.000+01:00Sometimes, if you turning away and showing your in...Sometimes, if you turning away and showing your indifference doesn't work, you may have to just say, "sorry mate, I'm not interested".Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.com