close encounters

minty mouth ...

2011-08-31T11:12:00.000Z

i had been chatting to this guy on gaydar and we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

in one of his pics on gaydar he had sunglasses, but when he arrived it turned out that he actually wore glasses for sight correction ! other than that, his pics were reasonably accurate ...

he seemed a bit nervous, and didn't talk very much ... and he was chewing gum (probably to hide the taste of smoke) ... but the gum had a strange effect when he started sucking me ... i got a strange tingling feel ...

it was a reasonably pleasurable session - the tingling feel was a new and bizarre experience !

getting head ...

2011-08-29T17:36:00.000Z

i don't often meet guys just for a quick blow job ... but i was recently feeling horny, and this bloke on gaydar was looking for a guy to blow ...

his pics were good, so i decided to head over to his place and see what happened ...

in the flesh he wasn't quite as good looking as his pics, but not bad ... he was also a bit hot and sweaty, which i wasn't expecting ! after some pleasantries, we got down to it ... and he was quite good at his chosen profession ...

he wanted me to cum in his mouth, so after enjoying the build up ... i obliged !

after disposing of the evidence, we had a bit of a chat, before i headed off into the afternoon ...

i don't plan on making a habit of it, but it was reasonably enjoyable.

another encounter with an asian guy ...

2011-08-08T20:08:00.003Z

i was on grindr recently and was chatting to a guy who i'd met a couple of times previously ...

it was fairly late, but i was keen for him to come over, and he agreed ...

we had already agreed to have a quick shower together, which was great - what can be better than soaping up another guy, and being soaped up by him ... we were both hard before long !

once we got into the bedroom and had warmed up, things started to get steamy ! as well as the usual stuff, this guy seemed keen on rimming, which i wasn't about to turn down ! but somehow it didn't have quite the same amazing feeling that other guys have achieved - i wonder if he wasn't delving as deep with his tongue as others ...

eventually after enjoying each other for some time, he produced a seriously impressive ejaculation ... and i followed suit moments later ...

after getting back our breath, we cleaned up, and cuddled under the duvet ... after falling asleep together we woke up after an hour, and he left. it was a great session with a lovely guy ...

the best and the worst ...

2011-07-25T09:56:00.000Z

after a great session, the following day i was contacted by a guy that i had chatted to a number of times over the last year, but never manged to meet up.

he lives centrally, so it was easy enough to stop by on my way home ...

the warning sign was that he looked really different to his pictures - not nearly as attractive. he had decided that the action should happen in the sitting room, which wasn't exactly the most comfortable, but has been enjoyable before ...

however, this bloke (who was quite possibly high) was not looking for an intimate encounter, he seemed to be more interested in the mechanical motions ... it was really quite unpleasant, but it did end in both of us ejaculating ...

usually these sessions end with suggestions of keeping in touch - this time i didn't both pretending, and neither did he !

four years later ...

2011-07-19T06:51:00.000Z

i was chatting to this guy on grindr recently, and he looked quite familiar ... after exchanging more pics, and checking the gaydar profile he gave me, he agreed that we had met a long time ago and seemed keen to meet again ...

recently we managed to meet up - it was fairly late, and he had an early start the next day, so it wasn't the longest ever session ... but it was good fun ... he was a good kisser, had a great body, and a lovely dick !

after both of us produced a reasonable amount of ejaculate, we lay in a heap on top of each other - it was lovely !

he couldn't hang around for long, but it was long enough ...

we tried to work out how long it had been since we had previously met ... and concluded that it must have been about four and a half years. having found the post from our original meet - it turns out that our conclusion was about right !

another afternoon with ...

2011-07-13T11:05:00.003Z

part of the reason i write this blog is so that i can go back and remind myself of previous encounters ... so i was surprised to see that it was way back in february that i last messed around with a guy who has become more of a friend than fuck buddy ...

the scenario was amusingly similar to last time ... we were supposed to be going to see a exhibition, and i went over to his place to collect him. i've done the same thing a couple of times since february, but on those occasions, we had a bit of a cuddle, and then went out and did our pre-planned activity ...

but on this most recent encounter, he seemed a bit more frisky, and wanted more cuddle time ... so we ended up in his bed ... naked ! and whilst we both fiddled around a bit, the primary activity seemed to be cuddling ...

after a few hours, i had an appointment to go to ... so we finished off without a climax !

places ...

2011-07-07T07:07:00.000Z

when i was a teenager, i used to collect places where i'd had a wank - restaurant toilets, back of an empty bus ... it was a long list ...

one of the places that i used to enjoy was aeroplane toilets ... and i recently had an opportunity for a repeat encounter !

i was on a flight with lots of hot guys, and one particularly fit guy in shorts headed off to the toilets ... which put the thought in my mind that i could do with relieving myself ...

so after a few minutes i headed down to the back of the plane ... but the guy in shorts took a long time in the toilet ... which made me think that maybe he was pulling himself off !

when he came out he looked a bit sheepish ... so i replaced him, and enjoyed pleasuring myself, thinking of him masturbating !

encounter with a fellow countryman ...

2011-06-26T19:28:00.003Z

i've lived in london for a long time, but i don't think that i've ever had an encounter with a fellow countryman ... not that i've consciously avoided it, just that the opportunity hadn't come up ...

so i was recently online chatting to a guy who seemed keen to come over ... after checking that we had similar interests, we agreed to meet up ...

when he arrived he looked ok, but quite different to his pics - quite a bit heavier, and not so youthful !

he seemed a nice enough guy, and it was only when we were almost in my bedroom that we realised that we hailed from the same country ...

the sex was reasonable - he was very keen and eager, but he was a bit too hot and sweaty for my liking ! he wasn't very well endowed, which i don't mind at all, but he seemed a bit anxious at times ...

we had a bit of an accidental insertion - only marginally, momentarily ... but it reminds me that i haven't been to the clap clinic for well over a year ...

it all ended happily enough ... with a couple of decent sized loads ...

he didn't stay around for too long afterwards ... but we were both so hot, that cuddling wasn't really on the cards anyway !

a strange night ...

2011-06-18T13:33:00.003Z

i was on Grindr recently, and saw a asian cute guy nearby, so started to chat to him ...

he seemed keen to come over, but it was late, and since i have trouble sleeping with the temptation of a hot guy next to me, i made sure that he would be able to get home afterwards ...

he arrived at my place, a little drunk, not quite as cute as his Grindr pic, but still a nice guy ...

he seemed a bit shy ... i wasn't sure if he was interested in me ... he seemed to be relaxing and engaging with me, but then our conversation went in a strange direction ...

after discussing what country he was from, i mentioned that i had met another guy from his country a few months beforehand ...

London being as big as it is, i've never met somebody who knew somebody else that i've had sex with ... but this was a first! he realised he knew who i had met, and seemed a bit upset, as it's a good friend of his! later he said that he wished i had met him before his friend - he couldn't have sex with me as i'd previously had sex with his friend !

i consider myself reasonable picky, but that seems like a very restrictive approach to life !!

it really was a strange evening ... he seemed up for some good cuddling ... and then became interested in my horniness ... up to the point of my climaxing ! but strenuously kept his horniness wrapped up !!

in the end, i let him stay the night ... which as usual, meant that i kept waking up and cuddling/playing with him ... which meant the next day i was dog tired !

i just about managed to do a day's work ...

date outside a pub ...

2011-06-10T13:34:00.000Z

i recently went on a date with a friend of a mutual friend ... really nice guy, and easy conversation ... but i'm not sure that he's really potential bf material ...

whilst he is a little bit older than me, it seems like his attitude is that of an older person ...

also, there wasn't any real spark for me (even after a couple of pints) ... but you never know what might come with time ...

a one pint date ...

2011-05-31T13:41:00.000Z

i recently met a guy from grindr outside a tube station ... i wasn't quite sure if we were going on a date, or meeting for an encounter ...

he suggested going to a pub, so i was happy to agree, and we headed for a local pub that i know ...

his pics on grindr were quite different - a couple were really attractive, and a couple weren't so hot ... in the flesh, he was unfortunately closer to the latter ... and he had a strangely shaped nose, that i wondered might be due to excess ingestion ...

when we met, it was obvious that he was a bit camp, but after a while in the pub, it became clear that he was extremely camp ... to the point where after we had both finished our first drinks, i made my excuses and left ... i just couldn't stand it any more ...

he seemed a bit shocked ... but i made sure that i had bought the first pint, so that i could leave with a clear conscience !

another encounter with an asian guy ...

2011-05-25T13:53:00.000Z

eight months ago, i had met up with an asian guy, who was very sweet and quite sexy ...

i noticed him on grindr recently, as he has moved into a flat nearby ... we had chatted a few times, but we finally managed to meet up recently ...

he is just as sweet and sexy as he was back in September ... and it was a really enjoyable evening ... good sex and plenty of cuddles afterwards ...

manroulette

2011-05-20T14:07:00.000Z

i used to engage in phone sex from time to time, especially with a guy that i met on gaydar ...

however, my new laptop has a built-in webcam ... and so i've been using manroulette a bit recently ...

it can be quite hot, but it does take a while to find a guy that is compatible (and who actually has a webcam) ... and they never seem to have sound ...

still, quite useful if you're tired and just want to tug one out !

encounter with a musician ...

2011-05-15T14:02:00.000Z

i was chatting to a guy on gayromeo who was visiting london, and seemed keen on meeting up ...

i had given him directions, and he arrived at my local tube station, and after some confusion, i went and met him, and we came back to my place ...

he was reasonably attractive - particularly without his glasses - and we had a enjoyable time ...

afterwards there was plenty of cuddling, and plenty of chat - he seems like an interesting guy ...

going to a gay bar ...

2011-04-30T14:18:00.000Z

whilst on holiday in eastern europe i met a guy from grindr ... and he was keen to go to a gay bar ...

we headed over to the local gay bar, and it was quite a shock ...

first the front door was locked, so we had to be buzz to get let in ... then we discovered that the place was empty ... apart from the barman, and the topless pole dancer ...

we sat down for a drink and a chat ... and after a while the pole dancer came over to talk to us ... i was a bit worried that we would be charged for his attention ... but we weren't !

after a while, a couple of other guys arrived ... and eventually one of them headed off to the dark room out the back with the pole dancer ... whilst his mate sat right outside the dark room ...

it all seemed rather sad and guilt laden !

cruising in eastern europe ...

2011-04-27T14:13:00.002Z

i was on holiday recently in eastern europe ... and obviously horny ... so looking for sex ...

gaydar isn't very popular over there, and grindr isn't very big either ... however gayromeo has a huge following ...

the only problem is that guys don't seem quite so keen on meeting up, just for sex ... and since i was only there for a few days, i didn't want to pretend that i was looking for anything more !

i left eastern europe sexually frustrated, after the temptation of so many hot guys !

another encounter with a local bloke ... after a long break

2011-04-22T09:40:00.000Z

i hadn't met the guy who lives locally for some time ... but he contacted me on Grindr recently and suggested that we meet up ...

on the designated day, he came over to mine, and it was great to see him again - he has such a lovely body, and i love having fun with him. the only downside was that his breath wasn't the freshest, so kissing wasn't as enjoyable as it could have been !

bedroom activities were good, and afterwards we had a bit of cuddling time - he fell asleep in my arms, and started gently snoring ! however, he couldn't stay for very long, but at least i got a reasonable amount of cuddle time ...

i guess it must have been a good session, as my hamstrings were sore for the following few days !

llgff

2011-04-07T11:49:00.001Z

i always enjoy going to the london lesbian and gay film festival ... but this year it was disappointing ...

usually the festival lasts about two weeks, and includes a range of british, european, north & south american and asian films ... this year is was a mere six days, with the obvious lack of diversity ...

apparently the funding from the BFI was halved - a depressing way to celebrate 25 years of the festival.

sounds like it's time to Save the London Lesbian and Gay Film Festival

another encounter with the bloke from the pub ...

2011-03-31T11:44:00.000Z

about a week after getting it on with the guy from the pub ... we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

it was a strange encounter - he seemed a bit stressed, or a bit rushed ... i suspect that he is looking for more than i am out of it ...

anyway, the sex wasn't brilliant, but i still like being in bed with him !

he didn't stay long afterwards ...

encounter with the guy from the pub ...

2011-03-30T10:02:00.000Z

I'd been in contact with the guy that I'd been on a date with, but we hadn't been able to meet up ... eventually we agreed on an evening, and he wanted me to stay over ...

He is a really nice guy, but his negativity was obvious again !

He has a great body though, and is a reasonably good kisser, and we had a nice time in the bedroom ...

The only trouble was that he snored like an express train ! I had a serious lack of sleep - even after rolling him onto his front ... and I never sleep a huge amount lying next to a hot guy, as I just can't keep my hands off them !

a date in a pub ...

2011-03-29T09:56:00.002Z

i went for a date with a guy that i had chatted to on Grindr recently ... his written english wasn't that great, but he seemed like a nice guy, and his pics looked good !

in the pub he seemed a bit too camp for my liking, but he was a really nice guy ...

the other downside was that he was a bit negative - which seemed over the top for the first date !

so, after walking him home, we had a quick kiss in the street, and agreed to meet again ...

encounter with an asian guy ...

2011-02-28T20:43:00.002Z

i had chatted to this bloke on grindr a few weeks before - he didn't live in london, and we hadn't managed to meet up before he left ...

next time he was in town, he messaged me on grindr, and i agreed to go over to his hotel ... i still don't feel hugely comfortable walking past reception and heading straight up to a hotel room ... but maybe that's part of the thrill !

he wasn't as young as his pics, but he seemed like a nice enough guy ... so we started to get down to it ...

it was pleasant enough, but it seemed to be over too quickly ...

i'm struggling to remember any of the details ... so i guess it wasn't amazingly good !

short encounter with an "Indian" guy

2011-02-21T12:24:00.001Z

the other day i was on grindr, and was contacted by a guy ... he was closeby, and he sent a nice facepic ... and said that he was looking for "cuddles" ...

well, i'm never one to turn down cuddles ... so i agreed for him to cover over to my place ...

i was going out to meet a friend that evening, so wouldn't have long with this guy ... but he turned up fairly quickly ... and once we got inside my flat he was keen to get on with things ...

he was a nice enough guy, but his breath wasn't very fresh, and he smelled a little bit ... i didn't find him hugely attractive ...

he was ethnically south asian, and whilst naked, asked me if i liked "Indian" guys ... seemed like a stupid question - i obviously didn't object to them, or he wouldn't be naked in my bed ! he also had an annoying habit of calling me "baby" !

but, one thing led to another, and soon he said that he wanted to come on me ... i was expecting him to wank off by hand on me ... but in fact he rubbed himself against me until he came ! it meant that i didn't get to actually see his cumshot (i love seeing them), but it was a new experience, and relatively pleasant ! it didn't take long for me to join him in climaxing ...

an afternoon with ...

2011-02-13T14:30:00.000Z

i hadn't met this guy since before christmas - he's always so damn busy ! we were supposed to go and see an exhibition, but i arranged to meet him at his place first ... partly in the hopes of getting some cuddles in before we left !

i arrived over to his place, and after he finished off some work he was doing, we started to leave ... but a pre-departure cuddle got him horny ... and so we ended up in his bedroom !

i made it clear that i wasn't happy with a repeat of the previous encounter ... and he seemed to accept that he couldn't just push me away after 5 minutes ... he was much less hot & cold compared to the previous occasion. it was quite an enjoyable few hours ... lots of cuddling, lots of intimacy, and a good climactic ending !

a french encounter ...

2011-02-07T12:57:00.000Z

sometimes on grindr my gps location gets screwed up, and so i start chatting by accident to guys who are further away ... the other day it happened again ... but the guy seemed quite nice (if a little older than i normally go for) and was keen to meet up ...

a few days later we eventually sorted it out, and i went over to his place ... he was indeed a nice bloke, and was wearing shorts which allowed easy access to his ample assets !

before too long we were in the bedroom enjoying each other ... it was good, and he seemed to really enjoy the male body, which was great ! he did though seem keener on the rougher side of sex, so i had to tell him a few times to cool it !!

we both seemed to enjoy the sex, but he never actually climaxed ... and afterwards he had a post coital cigarette, which seemed ironic !

after some time in the bed together, i was ready to cum again ... but he still failed to ejaculate !

it was an enjoyable encounter ... but after he got dressed, he looked much camper than when in either shorts, or naked !!

encounter with an arab guy ...

2011-01-29T12:39:00.000Z

a bloke contacted me on grindr whose english was not great ... but he seemed like a nice enough guy, and had a cute pic ... so i agreed to meet up ... but it took us a while to arrange ...

eventually it happened, and he was indeed a nice bloke ... but his english was really quite poor - but i'm used to communicating with people without great english, so i managed to deal with it !

the sex was not that great, but we still enjoyed ourselves. but afterwards we had a couple of hours of awesome cuddling !

he was a really chatty guy, and asked loads and loads of questions - he'd only been in london for a couple of months, and had only met a few guys before, so his knowledge of gay sex / safe sex / STDs was shockingly poor !

the rather sad side of our discussions, was that he could not imagine ever coming out to his parents or having a boyfriend ...

it was quite late when he was leaving, and he kept saying that it was going to take him a long time to get home on the bus, as he didn't have enough money to pay for the tube. it almost felt like he was asking me to pay for a travelcard - but i felt uncomfortable about giving him money, almost as if i would have paid him for sex !

just say no (2) ...

2011-01-20T12:16:00.000Z

some time ago i wrote about finding it hard to say no ... well four years later, and i still don't find it much easier - i occasionally still end up in encounters with guys that i don't really fancy !

after chatting on grindr, i recently met a guy at the tube station, with a view to going back to my place ... but i didn't really find him very attractive ... so after chatting for a while (he was a nice enough guy, but i just didn't fancy him), when he suggested heading to my place, i declined ...

he was very disappointed, and asked me to reconsider ... but i held my ground ...

it's not fun upsetting a nice guy ... but it was strangely liberating ...

a proper date ...

2011-01-15T12:09:00.000Z

i was chatting to a guy on grindr recently ... he seemed like a nice bloke, and fairly quickly he suggested meeting up for a beer. most guys on grindr suggest meeting up for sex, so this was a pleasant surprise ...

we met up near his place, and he turned out to be a lovely guy - we got on really well, and enjoyed a couple of drinks ... but i was meeting a friend for dinner ... so he suggested going back to his place later that evening !

i finally made it there quite late, but he was just about still awake ... and we started to enjoy each other ... we were having a good time ... and eventually he climaxed ... but before i had a chance to follow suit, he turned a bit strange ... said he was really tired, and more or less asked me to leave!

this wouldn't be surprising if we had just met up for a shag ... but it seemed odd for a bloke who had seemed like such a nice guy ! ah well, another experience of humanity i guess ...

a guy with old pics ...

2011-01-10T12:52:00.003Z

i had chatted to a bloke on gaydar who seemed keen to have some fun ... his pics looked good, if a bit grainy ...

he came over to my place, and it was clear that his pics had been quite old - he was significantly older and heavier than his pics ...

we got down to having fun ... but it was not that great - it was somehow not very intimate (maybe neither of us fancied each other) ... and after climaxing, he didn't want to cuddle :-(

not an encounter that will be repeated !

foreign encounter ...

2011-01-03T15:10:00.000Z

after my abortive hotel encounter ... it was after midnight, but there was another guy who was interested in meeting up, so i went over to his place ...

he had given me the address, but when i got to the location, there was an alleyway, but no sign of the bloke ... after the exchange of a few more messages on grindr ... i opened the gate, and nervously went down the alleyway, expecting the bloke to appear in one of the doorways ...

the first door i came to was being buzzed open, so i assumed that it was him, so i entered ...

there was clearly somebody at the top of the narrow staircase waiting for me ... so i climbed upwards ...

he had already warned me that his "brother" was asleep in the apartment, so our encounter would take place in the corridor outside ! luckily it was the very top of the building, so we wouldn't be disturbed ...

the bloke was lovely - he was only wearing a towel dressing gown, and he had a great body, and sizeable equipment. i was nervous about taking off my clothes in the corridor, in case i needed to make a rapid escape, but i gradually relaxed, and started undressing ...

he was a reasonable kisser, and wasn't too bad at sucking - but seemed keener of receiving rather than giving on that score ! he seemed genuinely to enjoy being with a man - rather than some blokes who just want sex, and don't actually like being with a man !!

we had an enjoyable encounter - especially considering the amount of cum that we both produced !

foreign hotel encounter ...

2011-01-03T14:33:00.000Z

i was abroad for new year ... and was using the usual channels to search for a bloke for some fun ...

grindr seemed to be the most useful, with the exact distance displayed ... and so after quite a while trying to find a man, agreed to meet up with a guy ...

he came over to my hotel ... he was younger than i normally go for ... and he seemed a bit out of it - i suspect that he was a bit drugged up ... and when we got to my room, he said he was really tired, and that i was the third bloke that he had met that evening !

it all felt a bit weird - i'm not sure if he was trying to get money from me, or if he was just screwed up. anyway, it wasn't happening, so he left without either of us climaxing !

hotel encounter (part ii)

2010-12-30T14:27:00.001Z

in what turned out to be my final encounter of 2010, i noticed the bloke who i'd visited in a hotel a few days previously on grindr again ... and so we agreed to meet up again ...

it was a reasonably enjoyable encounter ... nothing too notable really !

hopefully 2011 will result in more meaningful sex ...

hotel encounter

2010-12-16T23:28:00.003Z

i was recently on my way home, and checked for any local guys on grindr ... and there was a nice enough looking guy ...

he was in a hotel, and after swapping pics, asked me to drop by ... which i was a bit nervous about in case i got questioned by the hotel staff, but he reckoned i would be ok !

after heading straight up to his bedroom, he let me in ... he was a bit older looking than his pic, but nice enough ... and we got down to enjoying each other ... he was using poppers, but i didn't partake ...

he was very keen on getting a mouthful, so i thought i better oblige ! despite enjoying himself, he didn't come to a conclusion ...

a shy guy ...

2010-12-14T23:14:00.002Z

i recently met up with a guy i'd been chatting to on gayromeo ... he wanted to meet up for a drink, so i suggested he come over to my place !

he seemed like a nice guy ... but after a quick swig of wine ... he was soon burying himself in my embrace ! he wasn't a bad kisser, but nothing special ... partly because he kept snuggling when he should have been kissing !

eventually we moved into my bedroom and enjoyed ourselves to a natural conclusion. afterwards he was keen to clean up very thoroughly - which isn't always a huge compliment !

later we managed a bit of cuddling ... but unfortunately he had to head off ...

a drunken encounter ...

2010-12-12T22:44:00.001Z

recently, i arrived home a bit drunk after an enjoyable night out ... and had a quick look on Grindr to see if there were any nice guys around !

a bloke contacted me who looked good ... and he lived really closeby, so he agreed to come over ...

when he arrived, he was a lot less attractive than his pics, and really quite strange looking and acting ... but i was a bit drunk, and he wanted to give me a bj ... so it seemed rude not to let it happen !

as always in these instances, i didn't feel good about it afterwards. a few days later, he contacted me on Grindr again - but i wasn't drunk, so i was strong minded and said no !

steam room hogs ...

2010-11-30T22:36:00.000Z

i've written before about fun i've had in the steam room ... but recently, i visited, and it was packed out with fat blokes !

nothing really happened, and they just kept coming back in, spoiling the fun for the rest of us !

the bisexual bloke ...

2010-11-25T19:24:00.000Z

a bloke recently contacted me on gayromeo ... his pics looked like they had been taken some time beforehand, but he seemed a nice guy ... so i thought it was worth meeting him in the flesh ...

he came round to mine, and he was quite a bit older and heavier than his pics ... but i was really horny, so i thought it was worth a go ...

the sex itself was ok ... he was quite a good kisser, and for a bisexual bloke, he seemed really into the male body ! but he was a bit sweaty, so he offered to take a quick shower ... which improved matters considerably !

after we had finished ... we chatted for quite a while about his life as a bisexual ... which seemed a bit tragic ...

an evening with ...

2010-11-23T14:53:00.000Z

this bloke has become more of a mate, and we probably hadn't had sex since may ... but i recently met him for the first time since the summer ...

as always, he is an interesting bloke to spend an evening with ... and he asked if i wanted to stay over, but made it clear that sex wasn't on offer ...

however after a while in bed together, we both got horny, and things started to happen ...

it was one of the strangest experiences i've ever had in the bedroom ... he kept going from excited, to disinterested ... and whilst i always enjoy getting my hands on him ... it was not an experience i would like to replicate !

fun with a european guy ...

2010-11-21T14:22:00.002Z

i recently hooked up with a guy who i'd been chatting with on grindr for a few weeks ...

he looked a bit different to his pics, but quite attractive ...

once we got back to my place he seemed quite keen to get on with the matter in hand ... but i slowed it down, and we made out for while ... which probably made him even hornier !

once we got to the bedroom i discovered that he was soaking with precum - awesome ! he also had one of the most impressive foreskins i've ever seen ... and he had a great body !

the sex was a bit strange though, as he didn't seem to be fully into it ... and it was ages before he finally climaxed ... where as i had been on the brink for a while.

afterwards he cleaned up, and i persuaded him to come back to bed for hugging ... and we chatted for ages, as he seemed to enjoy the hugging !

date in the cold ...

2010-11-20T13:42:00.002Z

i'd been chatting to this bloke on grindr a while ago ... we hadn't met up then ... but i'd kept him as a favourite ... and i recently started chatting to him again ... and we agreed to meet up for a coffee ...

we ended up going for a walk in the cold ! it went ok and he seemed like nice enough guy, but i didn't think he was too interested ... so after an hour or so, when we were heading back to the tube station ... i didn't expect him to come back to my place ... but he did !

i hadn't had sex for quite a while before for that ... and it was a good to get back in the groove !

coffee and ...

2010-11-19T13:34:00.001Z

a couple of weeks ago, i arranged to meet a guy who lived locally for coffee ... he made it clear that nothing else was on offer !

so he came over to my place, after some difficulty finding it ... but he looked completely different to his photo on gaydar ... not just a bit older, but a lot older !

he was a nice enough guy, but a bit negative and he just seemed a bit old !

despite making clear that he was only coming over for coffee ... he then seemed more interested in other activities ... but he just wasn't doing it for me, so I declined his offer ...

encounter with an arab guy ...

2010-10-14T19:29:00.002Z

i had chatted to this bloke on gaydar for a few days ... and we recently agreed to meet up ...

he came over to my place ... but seemed nervous ... and seemed to keen to get on with it ...

we moved to the bedroom, and we enjoyed ourselves ... he didn't seem to be hugely experienced, but we both climaxed ! afterwards he was out of bed, and cleaning up without delay ...

he stayed a while afterwards and we had a chat ... he seems like a nice guy ... but too deeply closeted to enjoy himself properly ...

late night encounter ...

2010-09-30T23:36:00.001Z

i had been chatting to this guy on grindr for about a week ... he seemed very keen, but we found it difficult to arrange a time to meet up ...

the other day he contacted me around midnight and asked to come over ... i had work the next morning, but he looked very hot, so i agreed !

when he arrived he wasn't quite as handsome as his pic, but still very attractive ... and just as keen as his messages ... which was just as well, as i was a bit knackered ...

we had a good time - not the longest session ever, but not bad considering it was so late ... and we even managed some cuddling time after the deed ... so overall, a good encounter !

bizarrely, just like a recent encounter, it wasn't entirely obvious that he was cumming - he said something, but there was no obvious pleasure in his face - very strange !

gym steam room snob ...

2010-09-15T15:42:00.000Z

i wrote a post a couple of years ago about an unattractive bloke who was inhibiting activities in the steam room ... but there is currently a problem with a bloke who hangs out a lot, but doesn't get involved ...

the amount of time he spends in the steam room would suggest that he is gay, and he does look at other blokes, but usually in condescending way ... and he never plays with himself, or partakes in the fun ...

which makes me wonder if he is a gay snob - only wanting to engage with the most attractive blokes !

but then the other day, a bloke left a track on my gaydar profile ... and when i looked at the pics, it was indeed the steam room snob !

so i reckon my theory is correct !!

a proper date in a gay bar ...

2010-09-13T14:46:00.000Z

i'm not a regular in gay bars ... i like women, and i meet blokes online, so i don't really have a need for men only bars ...

but i was meeting a bloke from gaydar for a proper date recently, and he suggested having a drink in a bar in soho ...

it really did feel a bit strange, being surrounded exclusively by well groomed, slim men ! it wasn't unpleasant, and they seemed a reasonably friendly crowd, but just not what i'm used to ...

the date went reasonably well ... and while he isn't potential boyfriend material, he is very attractive ... but i doubt he's interested in a fuck buddy arrangement !

the anxious bloke ...

2010-09-11T14:30:00.000Z

i was communicating with this bloke recently in Gaydar Chat, who was keen to meet up ... and since he seemed like a decent guy, we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

whilst he was in his late twenties, his eagerness felt more like that of a teenager ... his kissing was particularly inept and teethy - it really wasn't a pleasant experience !

in the bedroom things improved ... he was quite a skilled operator, but again, he was sometimes overeager, and i kept having to slow him down ...

we did enjoy ourselves, but the crowning moment came when he didn't even let me know that he was about to come ... not very considerate !

whilst the sex was reasonably enjoyable, i won't be looking for a repeat encounter ... especially since he complained about me being hot and sweaty after sex !!

phone sex ...

2010-09-07T14:25:00.000Z

i used to partake in phone sex regularly ... especially just before going to bed ... and especially with a really nice guy that i got in contact through gaydar ...

however, i hadn't used it for ages, until last week ... when i was online, and was contacted by the same guy that i used to wank off with ...

we had a really good session - it seems to work really well for both of us ...

obviously it's nothing like the real thing, but for a late night wank, it really is great !

quick session with a nervous bloke ...

2010-08-25T23:57:00.002Z

the other day i was on grindr looking for some fun ... it was late, and i was only looking for a quick session ... again !

i started chatting to this bloke who seemed keen to come over ... and his pic looked ok, so he braved the rain, and made the short walk to my place ...

he seemed a nice enough guy, but his english wasn't brilliant, and he said that he was a bit nervous - I'm not sure how much experience he had previously had with blokes ...

he didn't seem keen to kiss, but i didn't push the point ! he did seem really turned on, and it didn't take too long before he was shooting a load ... i followed soon after !

a brief encounter ... finally ...

2010-08-17T08:24:00.000Z

i had chatted online to this bloke months ago, but he seemed a bit flaky, so whenever we got close to arranging to meet up, he would back out ... but i always wondered what he was actually like ...

the other day he was online again, and was looking to provide quick BJs, so i thought i would help him out ! i don't normally go for brief encounters, but i was feeling a bit tired, so a BJ sounded like an ideal solution ...

after lots more messing around, i finally went over to his place ... and he wasn't a surprise - a bit older, a bit heavier and with a bit less hair than his pic, but then most people are ...

he seemed keen to get down to it straight away ... and it was very pleasurable !

another encounter with the local bloke ...

2010-08-15T02:10:00.000Z

i had met a bloke a couple of times last month ... and he contacted me on grindr the other day asking if i was up for some fun ...

i couldn't accomm, but luckily he could, so i went over to his place ...

his flatmates were out, which was just as well, as his bedroom was quite small, so they would have heard what was going on !

his bed was quite a lot higher than mine, so it offered different opportunities for positions than mine afforded ! however it was a single, so it was a bit short of space, but that was sort of fun too !

we tried some different stuff, and he ended up coming using a rather unconventional technique ... but whatever works i guess !

as usual, we had some good cuddling time afterwards ... the only trouble was that by this time, one of his flatmates was using the bathroom, so we couldn't have a shower together !

i wonder how many encounters it takes before you can call a bloke a fuck buddy ?!

encounter in a foreign land ...

2010-07-26T11:17:00.000Z

i was on holiday recently and was looking online for some fun ...

a nice looking bloke chatted to me with really good english, so i agreed to visit him for some fun ...

things didn't start out well, when the taxi driver (or friend of the hotel receptionist more likely) spent about 10 minutes trying to understand where i wanted to go - i pointed out on the map exactly where, but i don't think map reading is one of his core skills !

the taxi itself felt like it was about to fall to bits any second, and we travelled at about 20 miles an hour, but luckily it wasn't too far away ... but the driver hadn't a clue where we were going, so i was using my iPhone maps application and GPS to navigate !!

i did wonder if i had bitten off more than i could chew ...

when we got there, the bloke i had arranged to meet came down and let me in ... and we went up to his appartment ... he was a nice guy, but his apartment was really hot, so it was a very sweaty encounter ...

we had fun though, and we finished off with some good cuddling !

it was definitely worth the trip, and it was interesting chatting to him afterwards about life in his country as a gay man ...

a couple of encounters with a local bloke ...

2010-07-24T11:13:00.000Z

i had a couple of encounters recently with a bloke who lives very closeby ...

he wasn't the greatest of kissers ... and the first encounter was a bit of a wham bam thank you mam ... but they weren't bad ...

he does like cuddling afterwards, so that's good ...

a proper date !

2010-06-28T02:45:00.000Z

it seems like ages since i was on a proper date, so when a guy who i had contacted through gaydar asked if i wanted to meet up for a drink, it seemed like a good idea ...

he was a great guy, a good sense of humour, really easy to chat with, and really attractive - a bit older and different than his pics, but really nice ! after a couple of drinks, we both seemed to get a bit frisky, and he turned out to be a really good kisser ...

since we weren't too far from my place, we decided to go back ... and after another drink we ended up in the bedroom ...

he had a fantastic body, and we had a really enjoyable time ...

a teenage-style encounter ...

2010-06-27T14:38:00.001Z

i was recently visiting some friends in another part of the city, and when i was leaving i checked out Grindr to see if there were any local guys up for fun ...

it turned out there was, but he shared a flat, and didn't want to accommodate ... but left with the option of not being able to meet up, he decided to risk it ...

so when we got to his place, i had to wait at the front door for him to check whether the coast was clear ... it really did feel like being a teenager and sneaking around ...

it started to get annoying when we had to keep really quiet in his bedroom ... we both climaxed before long, and i escaped without being spotted !

note to self: don't try that again !

Unexpected steam room encounter ...

2010-06-26T14:33:00.002Z

a few days ago i was in the gym steam room, and a bloke arrived in wearing long swim shorts ... in my experience, if a guy is wearing shorts, then he isn't interested in man-on-man activities ...

but this guy looked over my direction a couple of times, and there seemed to be some potential ... and once he saw my towel start to tent ... he started to tent too !

i moved over his direction, and he got his dick out, and a beautiful one it was too !!

before long he indicated he was about to shoot ... and a great cumshot it was too !

how to put on a condom ...

2010-06-05T13:29:00.005Z

thought this was worth sharing ...

encounter with the tired guy ...

2010-05-29T14:16:00.004Z

i was on Grindr late one night last weekend ... and was contacted by a really nice looking guy ... he seemed like a decent bloke, and was keen to meet up ... so we arranged for him to come over ...

when he arrived he seemed a bit nervous ... or perhaps he was a bit drunk ...

anyway, he was a lovely looking guy, and we soon got down to having some fun ...

he wanted to kiss constantly - which was great, but he didn't seem to be into deep kissing so much .... but he was a reasonably good kisser, so i wasn't complaining ...

we pleasured each other for some time, and then, without warning he started climaxing - it was quite amusing that he wasn't even able to give a warning !

afterwards we cuddled - he must have been really tired, as he started snoring within two minutes !

i didn't want him to stay over, as he was so gorgeous, i knew i wouldn't get any sleep (kids in a sweet shop and all that) ... so after an hour of fantastic fondling ... he headed off into the night to catch his bus home ...

busy steam room ...

2010-05-22T12:57:00.002Z

yesterday i went to my gym for the first time in a while ... and it was good to see some of the hot guys that used to keep me entertained ...

after my workout i went to the steam room in the men's changing room ... and it was quite busy for a friday evening ...

after one bloke left, it became obvious why ... most of the blokes there were interested in cock ! it was great - about half a dozen blokes all pulling on their equipment ...

glad to see that the clear glass door hasn't worked !

finally meeting a bloke ...

2010-05-14T21:48:00.001Z

i had been communicating with this bloke on manhunt on and off for around a year ... he lives some distance away so we had struggled to meet up ...

we finally met up a few days ago, and it was a bit of a shock - he was considerably older than his pics, and he looked a lot less confident in real life - in fact i guess he looked a bit pathetic !

i thought that after so long communicating, we should at least sit down and talk face to face ... but it turned out that his chat wasn't any better than his looks !

we did indulge in some mutual pleasuring, but it felt a bit like going through the motions ...

a 4th time with "fourth time lucky" ...

2010-05-12T21:37:00.001Z

i recently spent a night with the bloke that i'd seen a few times before ...

it was great to be able to get my hands on him at regular times during the night ... but it wasn't conducive to a good night's sleep !

the next morning, we didn't have quite as much cuddling as i would have liked ... and later on we had some quick sex which wasn't very satisfying, but was still quite acceptable ...

still hoping for better next time !

going weak at the knees ...

2010-05-04T01:01:00.000Z

the other day i was on gaydar, and a bloke was online who was nearby ... it turned out that all he wanted to do was give oral ...

the encounters that i enjoy most are the fully committed heart and soul affairs where both parties are giving and receiving as much as possible ... so i was unsure about whether to meet this guy ... but he seemed nice enough, and i was feeling horny ... so we arranged for him to come over ...

unsurprisingly, we got down to it straight away, whilst still in the hallway ... and he was truly and expert and his preferred activity ! he was a bit older, but had a great body and dick, so i was able to enjoy them whilst he went about his business ...

eventually, after put off the inevitable for as long as possible, i climaxed ... and straight after, i felt my legs go weak. whilst this doesn't really matter if you're both horizontal - it can be dangerous if you're both vertical !

i had to lie down to recover, whilst he continued to go about his business ... and eventually i came around ... and shortly afterwards (back in the hallway), he got another helping !

by that stage i was seriously weak at the knees and had to sit down ... and write this ...

encounter with the rubbish kisser ...

2010-04-30T14:47:00.001Z

a few days ago i was chatting to this bloke on gayromeo - he seemed decent enough, but i didn't have much time before going out ... however, he seemed keen to come over for a quick session ...

i really should remember that quick sessions aren't very satisfying (as i write this i'm currently arranging another - when will i learn) ... so he came over, and we got down to it straight away ...

he was quite good, and we both climaxed very quickly - too quickly - but the real problem is that he was a rubbish kisser ! mouth all over the place, really slobbery (and i'm not exactly a dry kisser) ... just rubbish !

he has contacted me a few times since, asking to meet again, but i'm not keen ...

a 3rd time with "fourth time lucky" ...

2010-04-29T14:36:00.000Z

i recently had another session with the bloke i'd met twice before ...

it was definitely the least fun of the three encounters ... neither of us seemed to be feeling very imaginative or patient ... and after some cuddling, it all happened rather quickly ...

hopefully this isn't a sign of things to come, as the previous encounters were much better !

a quick session with a brazilian bloke ...

2010-04-17T16:10:00.001Z

i had started chatting to a bloke on Grindr a week ago, and a few days ago, he was online again, and he seemed keen to meet up ...

he came over to my place, and he seemed like a great bloke ... we got into the bedroom straight away !

the only trouble was that he was one of those blokes who want to be pleasured more than they want to return the favour - i can't stand that ...

he had a great body, and it wasn't long before we both climaxed ... but it was definitely one of those encounters that left me feeling unsatisfied !

afterwards we had a bit of a chat, and he seemed like a nice guy ... shame he isn't better in bed ...

long session with a french guy

2010-04-04T04:04:00.000Z

i was on grindr recently and exchanged a few messages with a nice looking guy ... despite it being a bit late, i agreed to head over to his place ...

as soon as i got in the door, we started kissing ... and that continued for the next 12 hours ...

he almost smelt french, in a good way ... he loved kissing, which was great ... and he had a great body - which was even better ! after the initial rush of excitement, we took it easy, and really enjoyed the occasion ...

he asked if i wanted to stay the night - can't remember the last time i stayed at somebody else's place ... and since he seemed such a nice guy, and i didn't have work the next day ... i agreed !

i didn't get a huge amount of sleep - i was so turned on by the bloke that i kept rubbing against him ... and eventually we had some more fun in the morning ...

another time with "fourth time lucky" ...

2010-03-31T15:54:00.000Z

i recently had another session with the bloke that i'd taken a while to get together with ...

it was another excellent time - a long slow session ... where both of us climaxed at different times ... and again resulted in one of the biggest ejaculations i have ever witnessed !

"i'm negative"

2010-03-17T12:15:00.001Z

i was chatting to this guy on Grindr ... and i should have seen the warning signs - but i guess i was just too horny ...

first warning - he asked if i was into chems ... it's really not my thing, so i should just steer clear of guys who are into it in a big way ...

second warning - he said he was negative, asked if i was, and then asked if i was into bareback ! what sort of crazy person would take a stranger's word for their hiv status ...

so i thought we had established that i was in no way interested in bb ... and decided to go to his place ... but when i got there, he started talking about it again ! and the other thing that freaked me out was that he had condoms already unwrapped - call me paranoid, but i prefer to see the condoms in their wrappers before use ! i know that if he was completely mental, he could puncture a condom inside the wrapper ... but i guess you have to draw a line somewhere ...

anyway, the whole thing made me really uneasy ... so after some hesitation (and whilst completely naked) ... i told him it wasn't going to happen ! he took it really well ... and after a quick eruption (mutually pre-agreed) ... i got dressed, and left ...

moral of the story - if he sounds dodgy, he probably is dodgy !

fourth time lucky ...

2010-03-15T12:06:00.000Z

i'd been on a few dates with this bloke, but nothing had happened ... but the fourth time i met him, we made it to the bedroom !

it was probably some of the best sex that i've ever had - he really knew his stuff !

i had been worried about the fact that he was a smoker - but it was fine ... his dick hardly tasted of smoke at all (a previous encounter with a smoker was awful) ... and his body didn't really taste of smoke ... just a faint aura of barbecue ! maybe i should reconsider my no-smoking bias ...

it ended with the biggest cumshot i have ever seen - it even beat all the porn i've watched !!

encounter with a lapsed bloke ...

2010-03-13T11:47:00.000Z

i had been chatting to this bloke on gaydar - he seemed nice enough, and we had chatted ages before and never met up ... but this time it was looking hopeful ...

he arrived around, and he looked good ... so we got down to it straight away ... and it turned out that he had a great body and excellent equipment !

we had a lovely time ... and ended up with some great cuddling !! he said it was the first time he'd had sex in months, and the first time he had been cuddled in ages - what a waste of a lovely guy !

a bloke's first time ...

2010-02-28T23:10:00.001Z

i was on Grindr late one evening, and started chatting to this guy ... he seemed keen, and before too long, he arrived over at mine ...

he seemed a bit nervous, and said that it was his first time to meet a bloke just for sex ... he seemed a bit worried that i might turn out to be a psycho ...

we chatted for a bit, and things gradually moved to the bedroom ... his body was quite large, but we had a good time, and he knew how to handle himself ... and after quite a lot of fun ... he shot an enormous load - always a good sign !

he seemed quite keen on me, but not sure that he's really my type ...

older bloke ...

2010-02-20T12:38:00.005Z

i was recently chatting to a bloke on Grindr, who seemed keen to hook up without even exchanging proper facepics ... he seemed a bit older than i normally go for ... but after a bit of thought (and seeing his pics), i decided to go for it !

so he came over, and he was a bit older than i had expected ... but after a bit of thought, i decided to go for it !!

the encounter didn't start off well, as he seemed to be into pain a bit more than i am (which is not at all) ... but it did improve ...

however, sometimes i think you can judge how good a session is by how much ejaculate is produced ... and by that score, this one did not rank up there in the pantheon of encounters (for either of us) ...

having recently had an encounter with a bloke who had incredible post ejaculatory jerking - this bloke also experienced less violent, but seriously pronounced full body shakes ... these ones were much better than the previous guy's !

however, it really wasn't a great encounter, and he was a bit too camp for me, so don't think i'll be hooking up with him again ...

encounter in the sitting room ...

2010-02-10T01:10:00.000Z

the other day i was chatting to this guy on Grindr, and he suggested coming over to mine, but said that he didn't normally do hookups !

well, he came over ... and he was quite full on - nosing around my flat a bit ! he looked better than his profile pic ... but as conversation developed, i realised that he was one of those overly groomed party boys - which is so the opposite of me ! in this case i'm not sure it was a case of opposites attract from my point of view ...

he was a nice guy though, and quite attractive - but he clearly smoked a lot, because even though he had been chewing gum, the taste of nicotine was quite strong ...

we had a bit of fun together ... and he does seem like a fun guy ... but i don't think i really want to have anything to do with that media luvvy gay world ...

fun in the gym ...

2010-02-08T01:06:00.001Z

my gym recently changed the glass door to the steam room from frosted to clear glass, in a blatant attempt to reduce the amount of man-on-man action ...

unfortunately it seems to have had quite a large impact, as there is definitely less activity in the steam room than there used to be ... however, the other day, i noticed a young guy getting horny ... and after a 3rd bloke left, he got out his dick and started wanking off ... which he did to completion !

glad to see that the steam room hasn't died completely !

the fat bloke ...

2010-02-02T00:19:00.002Z

i'd been chatting to this bloke on gaydar for a good few weeks ... we nearly met a while ago, but he didn't seem that keen, and i wasn't about to beg !

anyway, he contacted me again the other day, so i thought we should just get on and meet up ... so he came over to mine ...

his pics had been of his face - and i reckon they were quite old ... and his pics didn't show the large stomach he had ! i only realised once he'd come inside into the light ...

i nearly called it off, but thought that it might get better - i've had some great times with larger blokes ... but this wasn't going to be one of them !

so we go naked, and i'm guessing he had been hot and sweaty earlier in the day, because he wasn't the sweetest smelling bloke i've ever met ! in fact, it was a bit unpleasant !!

anyway, we quickly got it over and done with ...

2nd encounter with the bi buy ...

2010-01-30T15:37:00.002Z

a couple of weeks ago, i had a good time with a bi guy ... and we had been trying to meet again for a while ...

we finally managed it a few days ago ... and he came around to my place again ...

he looks so different to his pic on Grindr - i had forgotten how much better looking he is in real life ...

we got down to it fairly quickly ... and it was reasonably good fun - technically it was very good ! but there was something lacking ... not quite sure what - excitement, intimacy, not sure ...

we both obviously enjoyed the encounter ... and we had a good cuddle afterwards !

he didn't stay over this time, so i was able to get a good night's sleep afterwards !!

you wait ages, and then two come along ...

2010-01-19T23:39:00.002Z

having mentioned recently that i hadn't actually had a bloke stay over in ages, a couple of days ago i was chatting to this guy on Grindr ... he looked really nice, and seemed quite friendly !

we met up and he looked younger in the flesh than his pic ... and he was very friendly ... so we headed back to mine !

this bloke was into kissing in a really big way, which was great ... and since was so lovely and smooth, i just wanted to run my hands all over him - which thankfully he didn't seem to mind ...

after a while of pleasuring each other, we both came in a sweaty mess ... and instead of pulling away to clean up, he seemed happy to collapse in my arms, which was fantastic ! a position he didn't move from for ages ...

unsurprisingly, he started dozing in my arms ... and later announced that we should sleep ! most blokes ask if they can stay, but he just stated it as if it was obvious ... not that i objected ...

the next morning we both enjoyed each other again ... but i did pay for my lack of sleep that day at work ...

encounter with a bi guy ...

2010-01-17T21:17:00.004Z

i'd been chatting to a bloke on Grindr for a few days, and late one evening we agreed to meet up ... and after a bit of messing around (not that sort) we finally ended up back at mine ...

he was a nice guy, better looking than his pic, and he had a lovely smooth body. it had been some time since my last encounter, and i was probably a bit too horny ... but we ended up coming within seconds of each other, so i guess he was fairly horny too !

i'd noticed when we were doing the deed, that he didn't seem too keen on kissing (but he didn't completely avoid it, thank goodness) ... so whilst we were snuggling up together in post coital bliss, i asked him if he was bi ... and he confirmed my suspicions ...

i hadn't had anybody stay overnight for ages ... but this guy was so warm and cuddly, that despite knowing my sleep would be disturbed, i asked if he wanted to stay, and he agreed ...

at least it meant i got another ejaculation the next morning !

a new meaning to jerking off ...

2009-12-01T23:56:00.003Z

a few days ago i was contacted by a guy i'd met up with a few times before ... they hadn't been the best hook ups ever, but weren't bad either ... so i thought i might as well give it another go ...

he came over to my place, and we got down to it fairly quickly ... i put some porn on, as he seemed to like it the previous time ...

i wasn't sure if he was really getting into it ... he didn't really seem very relaxed (but then he wasn't the previous times either) ... and it didn't seem like he actually wanted to be there - which isn't exactly good for other other person !

anyway, after a while we were ready to climax ... and to my surprise he started shooting enormous spurts of cum ... but what was really shocking was the body jerks that they produced in him ! i like to see a guy jerk a bit when he ejaculates, but this was something else - his whole body seemed to convulse, not just once, but almost half a dozen times ...

seeing another guy shoot a big load usually makes me cum buckets too - but the contortions that this guy was going through actually put me off my stroke !

anyway, it was an interesting encounter ... but things just don't feel good with this guy, so i don't think i'll meet him again ...

action or more ...

2009-11-24T14:14:00.000Z

the other day at the gym i was enjoying watching a hot guy going through his routine - he's a regular and we'd had plenty of eye contact in the past, so i was fairly sure he was gay !

this time he was making loads of eye contact, so i assumed that he was up for some action ... and as we finished around the same time ... i found myself in the shower stall opposite him !

since he was a hot guy, it wasn't long before i was showing my appreciation ... but he wasn't responding ...

afterwards he seemed a bit shocked ... which made me wonder whether he was actually after more than just a bit of fun in the showers ...

another complication to consider when eyeing up blokes in the gym !

public displays of affection ...

2009-11-23T14:08:00.001Z

i've never had a problem with PDAs - either straight couple of gay guys ... maybe it is the voyeur in me coming out !

but the other day i was in a busy tube carriage and a lesbian couple were getting it on beside me ... hugging each other, and nuzzling each other's necks ... and a bit of light kissing ...

whilst i'd happily watch straight couples/porn, lesbians have (unsurprisingly) never done it for me ... and i even found it slightly uncomfortable having the women beside me getting off ...

it gave me a new found appreciation for all those people who find every form of PDA uncomfortable !

watching porn during sex ...

2009-11-22T13:56:00.004Z

i started using grindr a few weeks ago - a straight friend told me about Stephen Fry mentioning it on Top Gear ... so i thought i should check it out ...

the main advantage is that it shows how close other users are, and it has a really simple profile, so less distractions that most websites. i had chatted to a few guys, and i contacted a nice looking guy who was nearby ... and after checking that we seemed compatible, we agreed to meet up the next day ...

when he arrived over he looked a bit different to his profile pic (or maybe he just looked different to what i had expected) - but he was a really good looking guy. he seemed a bit shy, but as soon as we got into the bedroom, it became clear he knew what to do !

he wanted to watch porn whilst having sex ... which seems like a good idea if you're a couple that have been together for years, and want to mix things up ... but seems a bit odd for a first encounter ...

anyway, it was a really good session ... and we both seemed to enjoy it ! afterwards he didn't hang around for long, so i missed out a bit on the post-coital cuddling ...

more Hep B vaccine jabs ...

2009-11-17T00:44:00.003Z

when i recently went to my local Sexual Health Clinic, i agreed to get vaccinated against Hep B ... but i didn't realise that i would need an extra 2 jabs to finish off the vaccination ...

however the injections weren't bad, so it wasn't such an ordeal ! although on both my follow up visits the reception staff were again unpleasant ... but on my final trip, the doctor giving my the jab was asking me about my experience of the clinic - so i got to tell her about her miserable and surly colleagues !

the good news is that my well protected sex life has paid off - and i don't have any sexually transmitted diseases ...

another visit to the clap clinic ...

2009-10-11T14:59:00.003Z

since it was well over a year since my last sexual health checkup ... i thought i should go and get seen again ...

i did wonder about going private, but there is an NHS clinic near me, and since i don't really consume many public services, it seemed like a waste not to use the NHS ...

my appointment confirmation did say that it might take 2 hours, so i brought plenty of reading material with me ... and i needed it all !

the first impression wasn't great - the receptionist told me to wait (standing right in front of her) as she seemed to be busy with somebody else's file. the other receptionist studiously ignored me. finally a 3rd receptionist arrived, a miserable bloke who seemed annoyed to be there, and told me to fill in a form detailing why i was there. eventually, after a bit of confusion when i handed back the form to a different receptionist i made it into the waiting room ...

about 40 minutes after my appointment time, i was called by a doctor - she was really nice, although seemed a bit rushed, but was really helpful, and discussed again whether i should have a Hepatitis B vaccination ... pointing out that most of Europe vaccinates against it automatically (I already knew the US did), and that the UK is unusual in not doing so. she also suggested that there is a much higher incidence amongst gay men, than in the general population, which is why they offer it - and she suggested that she would want her children to have the vaccine. having declined the vaccine on my previous two visits, i decided to take it this time ...

so after about 5 minutes with the doctor, it was back to the waiting room, and about half an hour later, i got called in by the (rather camp) health advisor. his job was to check that i wasn't going to have a breakdown if any of my tests came back positive - so just a few minutes later i was back to the waiting room ...

my third wait wasn't quite so bad, about 20 minutes later i was called by the very pleasant female nurse, who gave me my first vaccine shot (i have to go back in a week's time for my 2nd, and a couple of months later for my 3rd) ... took 3 vials of my blood ... and 2 swabs from my ass ... and gave me a specimen bottle to piss into ...

so having gone to the bathroom and produced some urine ... and having made an appointment for my 2nd vaccine shot using the surly male receptionist who wasn't impressed that i was interrupting his mobile phone call ... i was finally out of there about an hour and three quarters after arriving ...

another time with the bloke with the big nipple ...

2009-10-10T14:51:00.000Z

since the first time with this bloke was fairly good ... and he seemed keen for another encounter ... it seemed like a good idea to meet again ...

he came over to my place again, and he had asked beforehand for me to have some porn - so i made sure i had some playing in the bedroom when he arrived ... and it really seemed to help him - previously he had been nervous but this time he was a bit more relaxed ...

he was fixated by the porn - even after we had both shot our loads, and were cleaning up ... he was still watching it ...

he stayed afterwards for some cuddling ... but i'm not sure if he just isn't into it, or whether he is not yet comfortable with it ... but at least he just about went along with it !

the bloke who passed out ...

2009-09-30T23:39:00.003Z

a few days ago i was online and this bloke contacted me, asking to come over ... i was very dubious - it was late, and i wondered if he just wanted somewhere to crash !

eventually i managed to get a photo from him ... and his profile had obviously been around for a long time, so i reckoned he was worth a try ...

i knew that he was theoretically straight, and was drunk and horny ... but i didn't realise just how drunk and straight he was ! after we got back to mine, we got down to it straight away ... and it was reasonably good, but at one point, he just stopped moving ...

i couldn't work out whether he was faking, and just wanting to sleep ... or whether he really had passed out ! after a few seconds shaking him to wake up, i realised that it was latter !!

after that, his guilt overwhelmed him ... and he decided to leave ...

whilst this could have upset me ... i just felt a bit sorry for the poor confused lad, as i was once a bit like him !!

still, i shouldn't meet these types too often, or it will effect me ...

a bloke with a huge nipple ...

2009-09-29T22:28:00.000Z

i was online a while ago, and was chatting to this guy who had asked me for pics ... we were going to meet, but then he got delayed, and we missed each other ...

later that day we managed to sort out meeting up ... and for once he wasn't older looking than his pics ! he seemed like a nice guy, so we headed back to mine for some fun ...

he was a bit painfully closeted, but such a nice guy, that i really enjoyed it ... and he had such a nice smooth body, it wasn't too long before we both exploded in satisfaction ...

and he even managed to stay afterwards for some quality cuddle time !

gay bashing on tv ...

2009-09-03T06:10:00.001Z

a few nights ago channel 4 had a repeat of Clapham Junction - which included various scenes of gay bashing ... which reminded me of a random episode of Eastenders (a depressing programme i try to avoid) a few weeks ago which also included a gay bashing ...

i've been meeting blokes for years without any sort of violent incident, nor have i ever been mugged - despite having lived in london for years (unlike quite a few of my straight friends) ... but i find violence against gays on tv quite disturbing ...

maybe it's some sort of deep seated insecurity coming through - for years i was scared to meet up with blokes, partly due to a fear of violence ...

whatever it is, i really don't like how it makes me feel ...

a quick session ...

2009-08-31T23:45:00.000Z

a couple of days ago, i had been online for a while, but was getting bored, and just wanted a quick session ...

there was a bloke who was nearby, but he was a smoker, and i really don't like the taste of smoke ... but he seemed to be up for a quick oral session ... so i went over, and we both seemed to enjoy our rapid eruptions ...

another excellent session ...

2009-08-27T22:21:00.001Z

i was recently online, and saw that a bloke i'd met for a previous session was logged in ... so i contacted him, and he was up for a meet ...

he came over to my place shortly afterwards, and he was just as sensuous as the last time we'd met - he had an incredible way with his hands ... and we had an excellent time together ...

but at the end, after a reasonably long session, he didn't actually cum ! i felt guilty, but he assured me that he had enjoyed himself ...

encounter with an orally obsessed bloke ...

2009-08-16T10:30:00.003Z

a couple of weeks ago i was chatting to bloke online ... he turned out to live quite a distance away from me, and since i didn't want to travel that evening, it didn't go any further ...

the following weekend i was in his area, and we agreed to meet up ...

he was a bit older than his pics (probably the most used phrase on this blog) ... but seemed ok, and after a bit of encouragement, he seemed up for it ... so we moved to the bedroom ...

he had earlier mentioned that he had a bloke who came round and sucked him off ... and it seemed that he had become a bit obsessed with being sucked off ! i don't have anything against oral sex, but to me it's just one part of the whole event, but for this bloke it seemed to be to the most important part. eventually i got him to expand his activities ... but the other problem was that he was a lousy kisser ! i even asked him to stop using his teeth - but he went back to it before long ...

i'm not sure if the bloke had issues, or just was a bit strange ... whatever the case, whilst it was pleasant enough in some respects, it didn't leave me feeling good about myself ... especially when i saw the love bites on my chest afterwards !

swine flu risk in the steam room ?

2009-08-06T23:10:00.003Z

i was recently in the gym for the first time in a couple of weeks ... and was relaxing in the steam room ... when one of the blokes coughed ...

and a thought suddenly struck me ... would the flu virus be more communicable in a steam room ?

perhaps the virus would live longer in the heat ... or perhaps it would carry further ??

i watched a drama about the spanish flu the other day, so perhaps i'm over reacting ...

a gay mecca in london ...

2009-07-31T10:30:00.001Z

i've often heard about Columbia Road Flower Market, but until a couple of weeks ago, had never been there ... so after a tube and a bus, i finally made it ...

there was a great buzz about the place, and it's much more than just a flower market - lots of hippy-like businesses have sprung up around it, offering furniture, crafts, breads, and of course lots of coffee and cakes !

the flower market itself isn't enormous, but there's still plenty to look at, and they are seriously impressive ! and not surprisingly, it seems to attract quite a lot of gay men - especially couples ...

strange couples ...

2009-07-30T10:00:00.005Z

i've always thought the "don't piss on your own porch" advice makes sense ... but my gym attracts some people who clearly don't live by this rule ...

the first is hetro couple (i'm assuming from their contact in the gym that they are a couple - they certainly don't look like family) ... where the bloke regularly enjoys the company of other men in the steam room ! surely you'd keep your missus away from the gym where lots of the bloke know that you like blokes ? it didn't appear that they are the sort of couple where she allows him to explore outside ...

the other is a gay couple where the better looking bloke spends a lot of time in the steam room looking for fun ... but the less attractive bloke doesn't seem to be interested in other men. this doesn't sound so bad, but the worst part is that i often see the less attractive partner waiting in the reception area for his pretty boyfriend - who is presumably delayed because he's having fun with another bloke ! the patient boyfriend doesn't seem very happy when he's waiting - so it doesn't look like he's enjoying the experience of his boyfriend enjoying another bloke !

i know it takes all sorts, and i shouldn't judge, but these two couples seemed a bit extreme to me ...

fun with a mediterranean bloke ...

2009-06-27T13:39:00.002Z

a few days ago i was logged into gayromeo.com and was contacted by a local bloke who looked good, and seemed decent ...

so we agreed to meet up, and he came over ... if anything he looked better in the flesh - unlike most of the guys that i seem to meet !

before we even got to my flat he was obviously up for it ... and after shedding our clothes, we were soon having fun ...

he obviously knew what he wanted, but was quite generous, and really good at it - he clearly knew how to please his partner ...

it wasn't too long before we had both climaxed - he had a slightly strange dribbling cum method, but there was plenty of it, so i'm guessing he enjoyed it !

we chatted for quite a while afterwards, but it was quite humid, and he didn't seem to be a cuddling kind of bloke !

the smoker !

2009-06-16T21:28:00.003Z

i had chatted to this bloke online months ago, but for some reason, we'd never managed to meet up ...

so a few days ago, we were both online, and he suggested finally meeting up that afternoon ... which we did. he looked a bit different to his photos - don't know exactly how, but just different ...

i'm always worried that blokes who smoke will taste of nicotine - apparently he hadn't had a cigarette that day, so he didn't taste too much like a smoker, but he did a bit !

we had a really enjoyable time together, and had a good chat afterwards ... but he really lives the london gay lifestyle - not something that i'm into ...

don't judge by the cover ...

2009-06-13T12:51:00.002Z

i had been chatting to a guy online for a while ... his body pics were great, but he only sent really small facepics, and they weren't very clear ...

we decided to meet up, and he wasn't a great looking guy - which explains why he only sent the tiny pics ! however, i thought about his amazing body pics, and decided to go ahead and have some fun ...

he had seemed quite a chilled guy when we met in public, but once we were in private he changed completely - amazingly eager and energetic - like a guy 20 years younger ! it was great !!

he loved kissing and body contact and lots more ... and after climaxing, we hugged and kissing for ages, until it was time for more fun ...

it was one of my best sessions ever, and a few hours later, neither of us could believe how long we'd been having fun for ...

using a different website

2009-05-29T16:27:00.002Z

most of my encounters come from my use of gaydar ... but i also use a couple of other websites, but have never met a bloke from them ... however a couple of weeks ago, i was contacted by a bloke on manhunt - i created a profile here when i was abroad a couple of years ago, in a country where gaydar is not used much ...

the trouble with manhunt is that, unlike gaydar, you can't easily see how close blokes are to you - so you could waste your time chatting with somebody who is miles and miles away !

however, the bloke who contacted me turned out to live nearby ... so he came round, and we had a quick but enjoyable session ...

silent cumming ...

2009-05-28T15:08:00.000Z

a couple of weeks ago, i was in the gym steam room ... two guys were pleasuring each other, and i was enjoying the show ...

i watched one guy shoot his load - but his face didn't even flicker, and he didn't make a noise as he ejaculated ...

i didn't even notice the other bloke shoot, he was so quiet - but apparently he did !

i'm not a screamer or anything, but i'm definitely not into silent cumming ...

"don't come"

2009-05-27T23:08:00.003Z

a few weeks ago, i'd met this guy online ... as usual he was a bit older and heavier than his pics suggested ... but we got down to having fun fair quickly ...

we both seem to be working up to a logical conclusion ... but he says, don't come yet - and made sure that i didn't ! but, barely a couple of minutes later, he was saying that he couldn't stop himself and that he was about to climax !!

i followed him shortly afterwards ... enjoyable, but a bit frustrating !

"i'll be out in 2 minutes"

2009-05-08T21:46:00.002Z

the other day i was in the gym steam room ... and there were 3 lads in there ... real london geezers - couldn't understand half of what they were chatting about ! i was careful to avoid eye contact - didn't want to get into any trouble ... and after a while they left for the showers ...

there wasn't any action in the steam room, so i went off to cool down in the shower ... and noticed that one of the lads had his cubicle door open and was shouting at another ...

after a while i went back into the steam room again ... and one of the lads is back in there ... and he is making lots of eye contact ... and before long is showing off his dick ... and we're having some fun ...

his mates are obviously keen to leave ... so he opens the door and shouts "i'll be out in 2 minutes" ... and he's true to his word ! he had shot his load, and was out the door, leaving me with a dripping cock in about 90 seconds !