another time with "fourth time lucky" ...

i recently had another session with the bloke that i'd taken a while to get together with ...

it was another excellent time - a long slow session ... where both of us climaxed at different times ... and again resulted in one of the biggest ejaculations i have ever witnessed !

"i'm negative"

i was chatting to this guy on Grindr ... and i should have seen the warning signs - but i guess i was just too horny ...

first warning - he asked if i was into chems ... it's really not my thing, so i should just steer clear of guys who are into it in a big way ...

second warning - he said he was negative, asked if i was, and then asked if i was into bareback ! what sort of crazy person would take a stranger's word for their hiv status ...

so i thought we had established that i was in no way interested in bb ... and decided to go to his place ... but when i got there, he started talking about it again ! and the other thing that freaked me out was that he had condoms already unwrapped - call me paranoid, but i prefer to see the condoms in their wrappers before use ! i know that if he was completely mental, he could puncture a condom inside the wrapper ... but i guess you have to draw a line somewhere ...

anyway, the whole thing made me really uneasy ... so after some hesitation (and whilst completely naked) ... i told him it wasn't going to happen ! he took it really well ... and after a quick eruption (mutually pre-agreed) ... i got dressed, and left ...

moral of the story - if he sounds dodgy, he probably is dodgy !

fourth time lucky ...

i'd been on a few dates with this bloke, but nothing had happened ... but the fourth time i met him, we made it to the bedroom !

it was probably some of the best sex that i've ever had - he really knew his stuff !

i had been worried about the fact that he was a smoker - but it was fine ... his dick hardly tasted of smoke at all (a previous encounter with a smoker was awful) ... and his body didn't really taste of smoke ... just a faint aura of barbecue ! maybe i should reconsider my no-smoking bias ...

it ended with the biggest cumshot i have ever seen - it even beat all the porn i've watched !!

encounter with a lapsed bloke ...

i had been chatting to this bloke on gaydar - he seemed nice enough, and we had chatted ages before and never met up ... but this time it was looking hopeful ...

he arrived around, and he looked good ... so we got down to it straight away ... and it turned out that he had a great body and excellent equipment !

we had a lovely time ... and ended up with some great cuddling !! he said it was the first time he'd had sex in months, and the first time he had been cuddled in ages - what a waste of a lovely guy !

a bloke's first time ...

i was on Grindr late one evening, and started chatting to this guy ... he seemed keen, and before too long, he arrived over at mine ...

he seemed a bit nervous, and said that it was his first time to meet a bloke just for sex ... he seemed a bit worried that i might turn out to be a psycho ...

we chatted for a bit, and things gradually moved to the bedroom ... his body was quite large, but we had a good time, and he knew how to handle himself ... and after quite a lot of fun ... he shot an enormous load - always a good sign !

he seemed quite keen on me, but not sure that he's really my type ...

older bloke ...

i was recently chatting to a bloke on Grindr, who seemed keen to hook up without even exchanging proper facepics ... he seemed a bit older than i normally go for ... but after a bit of thought (and seeing his pics), i decided to go for it !

so he came over, and he was a bit older than i had expected ... but after a bit of thought, i decided to go for it !!

the encounter didn't start off well, as he seemed to be into pain a bit more than i am (which is not at all) ... but it did improve ...

however, sometimes i think you can judge how good a session is by how much ejaculate is produced ... and by that score, this one did not rank up there in the pantheon of encounters (for either of us) ...

having recently had an encounter with a bloke who had incredible post ejaculatory jerking - this bloke also experienced less violent, but seriously pronounced full body shakes ... these ones were much better than the previous guy's !

however, it really wasn't a great encounter, and he was a bit too camp for me, so don't think i'll be hooking up with him again ...

encounter in the sitting room ...

the other day i was chatting to this guy on Grindr, and he suggested coming over to mine, but said that he didn't normally do hookups !

well, he came over ... and he was quite full on - nosing around my flat a bit ! he looked better than his profile pic ... but as conversation developed, i realised that he was one of those overly groomed party boys - which is so the opposite of me ! in this case i'm not sure it was a case of opposites attract from my point of view ...

he was a nice guy though, and quite attractive - but he clearly smoked a lot, because even though he had been chewing gum, the taste of nicotine was quite strong ...

we had a bit of fun together ... and he does seem like a fun guy ... but i don't think i really want to have anything to do with that media luvvy gay world ...

fun in the gym ...

my gym recently changed the glass door to the steam room from frosted to clear glass, in a blatant attempt to reduce the amount of man-on-man action ...

unfortunately it seems to have had quite a large impact, as there is definitely less activity in the steam room than there used to be ... however, the other day, i noticed a young guy getting horny ... and after a 3rd bloke left, he got out his dick and started wanking off ... which he did to completion !

glad to see that the steam room hasn't died completely !

the fat bloke ...

i'd been chatting to this bloke on gaydar for a good few weeks ... we nearly met a while ago, but he didn't seem that keen, and i wasn't about to beg !

anyway, he contacted me again the other day, so i thought we should just get on and meet up ... so he came over to mine ...

his pics had been of his face - and i reckon they were quite old ... and his pics didn't show the large stomach he had ! i only realised once he'd come inside into the light ...

i nearly called it off, but thought that it might get better - i've had some great times with larger blokes ... but this wasn't going to be one of them !

so we go naked, and i'm guessing he had been hot and sweaty earlier in the day, because he wasn't the sweetest smelling bloke i've ever met ! in fact, it was a bit unpleasant !!

anyway, we quickly got it over and done with ...

2nd encounter with the bi buy ...

a couple of weeks ago, i had a good time with a bi guy ... and we had been trying to meet again for a while ...

we finally managed it a few days ago ... and he came around to my place again ...

he looks so different to his pic on Grindr - i had forgotten how much better looking he is in real life ...

we got down to it fairly quickly ... and it was reasonably good fun - technically it was very good ! but there was something lacking ... not quite sure what - excitement, intimacy, not sure ...

we both obviously enjoyed the encounter ... and we had a good cuddle afterwards !

he didn't stay over this time, so i was able to get a good night's sleep afterwards !!

you wait ages, and then two come along ...

having mentioned recently that i hadn't actually had a bloke stay over in ages, a couple of days ago i was chatting to this guy on Grindr ... he looked really nice, and seemed quite friendly !

we met up and he looked younger in the flesh than his pic ... and he was very friendly ... so we headed back to mine !

this bloke was into kissing in a really big way, which was great ... and since was so lovely and smooth, i just wanted to run my hands all over him - which thankfully he didn't seem to mind ...

after a while of pleasuring each other, we both came in a sweaty mess ... and instead of pulling away to clean up, he seemed happy to collapse in my arms, which was fantastic ! a position he didn't move from for ages ...

unsurprisingly, he started dozing in my arms ... and later announced that we should sleep ! most blokes ask if they can stay, but he just stated it as if it was obvious ... not that i objected ...

the next morning we both enjoyed each other again ... but i did pay for my lack of sleep that day at work ...

encounter with a bi guy ...

i'd been chatting to a bloke on Grindr for a few days, and late one evening we agreed to meet up ... and after a bit of messing around (not that sort) we finally ended up back at mine ...

he was a nice guy, better looking than his pic, and he had a lovely smooth body. it had been some time since my last encounter, and i was probably a bit too horny ... but we ended up coming within seconds of each other, so i guess he was fairly horny too !

i'd noticed when we were doing the deed, that he didn't seem too keen on kissing (but he didn't completely avoid it, thank goodness) ... so whilst we were snuggling up together in post coital bliss, i asked him if he was bi ... and he confirmed my suspicions ...

i hadn't had anybody stay overnight for ages ... but this guy was so warm and cuddly, that despite knowing my sleep would be disturbed, i asked if he wanted to stay, and he agreed ...

at least it meant i got another ejaculation the next morning !

a new meaning to jerking off ...

a few days ago i was contacted by a guy i'd met up with a few times before ... they hadn't been the best hook ups ever, but weren't bad either ... so i thought i might as well give it another go ...

he came over to my place, and we got down to it fairly quickly ... i put some porn on, as he seemed to like it the previous time ...

i wasn't sure if he was really getting into it ... he didn't really seem very relaxed (but then he wasn't the previous times either) ... and it didn't seem like he actually wanted to be there - which isn't exactly good for other other person !

anyway, after a while we were ready to climax ... and to my surprise he started shooting enormous spurts of cum ... but what was really shocking was the body jerks that they produced in him ! i like to see a guy jerk a bit when he ejaculates, but this was something else - his whole body seemed to convulse, not just once, but almost half a dozen times ...

seeing another guy shoot a big load usually makes me cum buckets too - but the contortions that this guy was going through actually put me off my stroke !

anyway, it was an interesting encounter ... but things just don't feel good with this guy, so i don't think i'll meet him again ...

action or more ...

the other day at the gym i was enjoying watching a hot guy going through his routine - he's a regular and we'd had plenty of eye contact in the past, so i was fairly sure he was gay !

this time he was making loads of eye contact, so i assumed that he was up for some action ... and as we finished around the same time ... i found myself in the shower stall opposite him !

since he was a hot guy, it wasn't long before i was showing my appreciation ... but he wasn't responding ...

afterwards he seemed a bit shocked ... which made me wonder whether he was actually after more than just a bit of fun in the showers ...

another complication to consider when eyeing up blokes in the gym !

public displays of affection ...

i've never had a problem with PDAs - either straight couple of gay guys ... maybe it is the voyeur in me coming out !

but the other day i was in a busy tube carriage and a lesbian couple were getting it on beside me ... hugging each other, and nuzzling each other's necks ... and a bit of light kissing ...

whilst i'd happily watch straight couples/porn, lesbians have (unsurprisingly) never done it for me ... and i even found it slightly uncomfortable having the women beside me getting off ...

it gave me a new found appreciation for all those people who find every form of PDA uncomfortable !