gym steam room snob ...

i wrote a post a couple of years ago about an unattractive bloke who was inhibiting activities in the steam room ... but there is currently a problem with a bloke who hangs out a lot, but doesn't get involved ...

the amount of time he spends in the steam room would suggest that he is gay, and he does look at other blokes, but usually in condescending way ... and he never plays with himself, or partakes in the fun ...

which makes me wonder if he is a gay snob - only wanting to engage with the most attractive blokes !

but then the other day, a bloke left a track on my gaydar profile ... and when i looked at the pics, it was indeed the steam room snob !

so i reckon my theory is correct !!

a proper date in a gay bar ...

i'm not a regular in gay bars ... i like women, and i meet blokes online, so i don't really have a need for men only bars ...

but i was meeting a bloke from gaydar for a proper date recently, and he suggested having a drink in a bar in soho ...

it really did feel a bit strange, being surrounded exclusively by well groomed, slim men ! it wasn't unpleasant, and they seemed a reasonably friendly crowd, but just not what i'm used to ...

the date went reasonably well ... and while he isn't potential boyfriend material, he is very attractive ... but i doubt he's interested in a fuck buddy arrangement !

the anxious bloke ...

i was communicating with this bloke recently in Gaydar Chat, who was keen to meet up ... and since he seemed like a decent guy, we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

whilst he was in his late twenties, his eagerness felt more like that of a teenager ... his kissing was particularly inept and teethy - it really wasn't a pleasant experience !

in the bedroom things improved ... he was quite a skilled operator, but again, he was sometimes overeager, and i kept having to slow him down ...

we did enjoy ourselves, but the crowning moment came when he didn't even let me know that he was about to come ... not very considerate !

whilst the sex was reasonably enjoyable, i won't be looking for a repeat encounter ... especially since he complained about me being hot and sweaty after sex !!

phone sex ...

i used to partake in phone sex regularly ... especially just before going to bed ... and especially with a really nice guy that i got in contact through gaydar ...

however, i hadn't used it for ages, until last week ... when i was online, and was contacted by the same guy that i used to wank off with ...

we had a really good session - it seems to work really well for both of us ...

obviously it's nothing like the real thing, but for a late night wank, it really is great !

quick session with a nervous bloke ...

the other day i was on grindr looking for some fun ... it was late, and i was only looking for a quick session ... again !

i started chatting to this bloke who seemed keen to come over ... and his pic looked ok, so he braved the rain, and made the short walk to my place ...

he seemed a nice enough guy, but his english wasn't brilliant, and he said that he was a bit nervous - I'm not sure how much experience he had previously had with blokes ...

he didn't seem keen to kiss, but i didn't push the point ! he did seem really turned on, and it didn't take too long before he was shooting a load ... i followed soon after !

a brief encounter ... finally ...

i had chatted online to this bloke months ago, but he seemed a bit flaky, so whenever we got close to arranging to meet up, he would back out ... but i always wondered what he was actually like ...

the other day he was online again, and was looking to provide quick BJs, so i thought i would help him out ! i don't normally go for brief encounters, but i was feeling a bit tired, so a BJ sounded like an ideal solution ...

after lots more messing around, i finally went over to his place ... and he wasn't a surprise - a bit older, a bit heavier and with a bit less hair than his pic, but then most people are ...

he seemed keen to get down to it straight away ... and it was very pleasurable !

another encounter with the local bloke ...

i had met a bloke a couple of times last month ... and he contacted me on grindr the other day asking if i was up for some fun ...

i couldn't accomm, but luckily he could, so i went over to his place ...

his flatmates were out, which was just as well, as his bedroom was quite small, so they would have heard what was going on !

his bed was quite a lot higher than mine, so it offered different opportunities for positions than mine afforded ! however it was a single, so it was a bit short of space, but that was sort of fun too !

we tried some different stuff, and he ended up coming using a rather unconventional technique ... but whatever works i guess !

as usual, we had some good cuddling time afterwards ... the only trouble was that by this time, one of his flatmates was using the bathroom, so we couldn't have a shower together !

i wonder how many encounters it takes before you can call a bloke a fuck buddy ?!

encounter in a foreign land ...

i was on holiday recently and was looking online for some fun ...

a nice looking bloke chatted to me with really good english, so i agreed to visit him for some fun ...

things didn't start out well, when the taxi driver (or friend of the hotel receptionist more likely) spent about 10 minutes trying to understand where i wanted to go - i pointed out on the map exactly where, but i don't think map reading is one of his core skills !

the taxi itself felt like it was about to fall to bits any second, and we travelled at about 20 miles an hour, but luckily it wasn't too far away ... but the driver hadn't a clue where we were going, so i was using my iPhone maps application and GPS to navigate !!

i did wonder if i had bitten off more than i could chew ...

when we got there, the bloke i had arranged to meet came down and let me in ... and we went up to his appartment ... he was a nice guy, but his apartment was really hot, so it was a very sweaty encounter ...

we had fun though, and we finished off with some good cuddling !

it was definitely worth the trip, and it was interesting chatting to him afterwards about life in his country as a gay man ...

a couple of encounters with a local bloke ...

i had a couple of encounters recently with a bloke who lives very closeby ...

he wasn't the greatest of kissers ... and the first encounter was a bit of a wham bam thank you mam ... but they weren't bad ...

he does like cuddling afterwards, so that's good ...

a proper date !

it seems like ages since i was on a proper date, so when a guy who i had contacted through gaydar asked if i wanted to meet up for a drink, it seemed like a good idea ...

he was a great guy, a good sense of humour, really easy to chat with, and really attractive - a bit older and different than his pics, but really nice ! after a couple of drinks, we both seemed to get a bit frisky, and he turned out to be a really good kisser ...

since we weren't too far from my place, we decided to go back ... and after another drink we ended up in the bedroom ...

he had a fantastic body, and we had a really enjoyable time ...

a teenage-style encounter ...

i was recently visiting some friends in another part of the city, and when i was leaving i checked out Grindr to see if there were any local guys up for fun ...

it turned out there was, but he shared a flat, and didn't want to accommodate ... but left with the option of not being able to meet up, he decided to risk it ...

so when we got to his place, i had to wait at the front door for him to check whether the coast was clear ... it really did feel like being a teenager and sneaking around ...

it started to get annoying when we had to keep really quiet in his bedroom ... we both climaxed before long, and i escaped without being spotted !

note to self: don't try that again !

Unexpected steam room encounter ...

a few days ago i was in the gym steam room, and a bloke arrived in wearing long swim shorts ... in my experience, if a guy is wearing shorts, then he isn't interested in man-on-man activities ...

but this guy looked over my direction a couple of times, and there seemed to be some potential ... and once he saw my towel start to tent ... he started to tent too !

i moved over his direction, and he got his dick out, and a beautiful one it was too !!

before long he indicated he was about to shoot ... and a great cumshot it was too !

how to put on a condom ...

thought this was worth sharing ...

encounter with the tired guy ...

i was on Grindr late one night last weekend ... and was contacted by a really nice looking guy ... he seemed like a decent bloke, and was keen to meet up ... so we arranged for him to come over ...

when he arrived he seemed a bit nervous ... or perhaps he was a bit drunk ...

anyway, he was a lovely looking guy, and we soon got down to having some fun ...

he wanted to kiss constantly - which was great, but he didn't seem to be into deep kissing so much .... but he was a reasonably good kisser, so i wasn't complaining ...

we pleasured each other for some time, and then, without warning he started climaxing - it was quite amusing that he wasn't even able to give a warning !

afterwards we cuddled - he must have been really tired, as he started snoring within two minutes !

i didn't want him to stay over, as he was so gorgeous, i knew i wouldn't get any sleep (kids in a sweet shop and all that) ... so after an hour of fantastic fondling ... he headed off into the night to catch his bus home ...

busy steam room ...

yesterday i went to my gym for the first time in a while ... and it was good to see some of the hot guys that used to keep me entertained ...

after my workout i went to the steam room in the men's changing room ... and it was quite busy for a friday evening ...

after one bloke left, it became obvious why ... most of the blokes there were interested in cock ! it was great - about half a dozen blokes all pulling on their equipment ...

glad to see that the clear glass door hasn't worked !