steam room hogs ...

i've written before about fun i've had in the steam room ... but recently, i visited, and it was packed out with fat blokes !

nothing really happened, and they just kept coming back in, spoiling the fun for the rest of us !

the bisexual bloke ...

a bloke recently contacted me on gayromeo ... his pics looked like they had been taken some time beforehand, but he seemed a nice guy ... so i thought it was worth meeting him in the flesh ...

he came round to mine, and he was quite a bit older and heavier than his pics ... but i was really horny, so i thought it was worth a go ...

the sex itself was ok ... he was quite a good kisser, and for a bisexual bloke, he seemed really into the male body ! but he was a bit sweaty, so he offered to take a quick shower ... which improved matters considerably !

after we had finished ... we chatted for quite a while about his life as a bisexual ... which seemed a bit tragic ...

an evening with ...

this bloke has become more of a mate, and we probably hadn't had sex since may ... but i recently met him for the first time since the summer ...

as always, he is an interesting bloke to spend an evening with ... and he asked if i wanted to stay over, but made it clear that sex wasn't on offer ...

however after a while in bed together, we both got horny, and things started to happen ...

it was one of the strangest experiences i've ever had in the bedroom ... he kept going from excited, to disinterested ... and whilst i always enjoy getting my hands on him ... it was not an experience i would like to replicate !

fun with a european guy ...

i recently hooked up with a guy who i'd been chatting with on grindr for a few weeks ...

he looked a bit different to his pics, but quite attractive ...

once we got back to my place he seemed quite keen to get on with the matter in hand ... but i slowed it down, and we made out for while ... which probably made him even hornier !

once we got to the bedroom i discovered that he was soaking with precum - awesome ! he also had one of the most impressive foreskins i've ever seen ... and he had a great body !

the sex was a bit strange though, as he didn't seem to be fully into it ... and it was ages before he finally climaxed ... where as i had been on the brink for a while.

afterwards he cleaned up, and i persuaded him to come back to bed for hugging ... and we chatted for ages, as he seemed to enjoy the hugging !

date in the cold ...

i'd been chatting to this bloke on grindr a while ago ... we hadn't met up then ... but i'd kept him as a favourite ... and i recently started chatting to him again ... and we agreed to meet up for a coffee ...

we ended up going for a walk in the cold ! it went ok and he seemed like nice enough guy, but i didn't think he was too interested ... so after an hour or so, when we were heading back to the tube station ... i didn't expect him to come back to my place ... but he did !

i hadn't had sex for quite a while before for that ... and it was a good to get back in the groove !

coffee and ...

a couple of weeks ago, i arranged to meet a guy who lived locally for coffee ... he made it clear that nothing else was on offer !

so he came over to my place, after some difficulty finding it ... but he looked completely different to his photo on gaydar ... not just a bit older, but a lot older !

he was a nice enough guy, but a bit negative and he just seemed a bit old !

despite making clear that he was only coming over for coffee ... he then seemed more interested in other activities ... but he just wasn't doing it for me, so I declined his offer ...

encounter with an arab guy ...

i had chatted to this bloke on gaydar for a few days ... and we recently agreed to meet up ...

he came over to my place ... but seemed nervous ... and seemed to keen to get on with it ...

we moved to the bedroom, and we enjoyed ourselves ... he didn't seem to be hugely experienced, but we both climaxed ! afterwards he was out of bed, and cleaning up without delay ...

he stayed a while afterwards and we had a chat ... he seems like a nice guy ... but too deeply closeted to enjoy himself properly ...

late night encounter ...

i had been chatting to this guy on grindr for about a week ... he seemed very keen, but we found it difficult to arrange a time to meet up ...

the other day he contacted me around midnight and asked to come over ... i had work the next morning, but he looked very hot, so i agreed !

when he arrived he wasn't quite as handsome as his pic, but still very attractive ... and just as keen as his messages ... which was just as well, as i was a bit knackered ...

we had a good time - not the longest session ever, but not bad considering it was so late ... and we even managed some cuddling time after the deed ... so overall, a good encounter !

bizarrely, just like a recent encounter, it wasn't entirely obvious that he was cumming - he said something, but there was no obvious pleasure in his face - very strange !

gym steam room snob ...

i wrote a post a couple of years ago about an unattractive bloke who was inhibiting activities in the steam room ... but there is currently a problem with a bloke who hangs out a lot, but doesn't get involved ...

the amount of time he spends in the steam room would suggest that he is gay, and he does look at other blokes, but usually in condescending way ... and he never plays with himself, or partakes in the fun ...

which makes me wonder if he is a gay snob - only wanting to engage with the most attractive blokes !

but then the other day, a bloke left a track on my gaydar profile ... and when i looked at the pics, it was indeed the steam room snob !

so i reckon my theory is correct !!

a proper date in a gay bar ...

i'm not a regular in gay bars ... i like women, and i meet blokes online, so i don't really have a need for men only bars ...

but i was meeting a bloke from gaydar for a proper date recently, and he suggested having a drink in a bar in soho ...

it really did feel a bit strange, being surrounded exclusively by well groomed, slim men ! it wasn't unpleasant, and they seemed a reasonably friendly crowd, but just not what i'm used to ...

the date went reasonably well ... and while he isn't potential boyfriend material, he is very attractive ... but i doubt he's interested in a fuck buddy arrangement !

the anxious bloke ...

i was communicating with this bloke recently in Gaydar Chat, who was keen to meet up ... and since he seemed like a decent guy, we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

whilst he was in his late twenties, his eagerness felt more like that of a teenager ... his kissing was particularly inept and teethy - it really wasn't a pleasant experience !

in the bedroom things improved ... he was quite a skilled operator, but again, he was sometimes overeager, and i kept having to slow him down ...

we did enjoy ourselves, but the crowning moment came when he didn't even let me know that he was about to come ... not very considerate !

whilst the sex was reasonably enjoyable, i won't be looking for a repeat encounter ... especially since he complained about me being hot and sweaty after sex !!

phone sex ...

i used to partake in phone sex regularly ... especially just before going to bed ... and especially with a really nice guy that i got in contact through gaydar ...

however, i hadn't used it for ages, until last week ... when i was online, and was contacted by the same guy that i used to wank off with ...

we had a really good session - it seems to work really well for both of us ...

obviously it's nothing like the real thing, but for a late night wank, it really is great !

quick session with a nervous bloke ...

the other day i was on grindr looking for some fun ... it was late, and i was only looking for a quick session ... again !

i started chatting to this bloke who seemed keen to come over ... and his pic looked ok, so he braved the rain, and made the short walk to my place ...

he seemed a nice enough guy, but his english wasn't brilliant, and he said that he was a bit nervous - I'm not sure how much experience he had previously had with blokes ...

he didn't seem keen to kiss, but i didn't push the point ! he did seem really turned on, and it didn't take too long before he was shooting a load ... i followed soon after !

a brief encounter ... finally ...

i had chatted online to this bloke months ago, but he seemed a bit flaky, so whenever we got close to arranging to meet up, he would back out ... but i always wondered what he was actually like ...

the other day he was online again, and was looking to provide quick BJs, so i thought i would help him out ! i don't normally go for brief encounters, but i was feeling a bit tired, so a BJ sounded like an ideal solution ...

after lots more messing around, i finally went over to his place ... and he wasn't a surprise - a bit older, a bit heavier and with a bit less hair than his pic, but then most people are ...

he seemed keen to get down to it straight away ... and it was very pleasurable !

another encounter with the local bloke ...

i had met a bloke a couple of times last month ... and he contacted me on grindr the other day asking if i was up for some fun ...

i couldn't accomm, but luckily he could, so i went over to his place ...

his flatmates were out, which was just as well, as his bedroom was quite small, so they would have heard what was going on !

his bed was quite a lot higher than mine, so it offered different opportunities for positions than mine afforded ! however it was a single, so it was a bit short of space, but that was sort of fun too !

we tried some different stuff, and he ended up coming using a rather unconventional technique ... but whatever works i guess !

as usual, we had some good cuddling time afterwards ... the only trouble was that by this time, one of his flatmates was using the bathroom, so we couldn't have a shower together !

i wonder how many encounters it takes before you can call a bloke a fuck buddy ?!