another encounter with a local bloke ... after a long break

i hadn't met the guy who lives locally for some time ... but he contacted me on Grindr recently and suggested that we meet up ...

on the designated day, he came over to mine, and it was great to see him again - he has such a lovely body, and i love having fun with him. the only downside was that his breath wasn't the freshest, so kissing wasn't as enjoyable as it could have been !

bedroom activities were good, and afterwards we had a bit of cuddling time - he fell asleep in my arms, and started gently snoring ! however, he couldn't stay for very long, but at least i got a reasonable amount of cuddle time ...

i guess it must have been a good session, as my hamstrings were sore for the following few days !

llgff

i always enjoy going to the london lesbian and gay film festival ... but this year it was disappointing ...

usually the festival lasts about two weeks, and includes a range of british, european, north & south american and asian films ... this year is was a mere six days, with the obvious lack of diversity ...

apparently the funding from the BFI was halved - a depressing way to celebrate 25 years of the festival.

sounds like it's time to Save the London Lesbian and Gay Film Festival

another encounter with the bloke from the pub ...

about a week after getting it on with the guy from the pub ... we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

it was a strange encounter - he seemed a bit stressed, or a bit rushed ... i suspect that he is looking for more than i am out of it ...

anyway, the sex wasn't brilliant, but i still like being in bed with him !

he didn't stay long afterwards ...

encounter with the guy from the pub ...

I'd been in contact with the guy that I'd been on a date with, but we hadn't been able to meet up ... eventually we agreed on an evening, and he wanted me to stay over ...

He is a really nice guy, but his negativity was obvious again !

He has a great body though, and is a reasonably good kisser, and we had a nice time in the bedroom ...

The only trouble was that he snored like an express train ! I had a serious lack of sleep - even after rolling him onto his front ... and I never sleep a huge amount lying next to a hot guy, as I just can't keep my hands off them !

a date in a pub ...

i went for a date with a guy that i had chatted to on Grindr recently ... his written english wasn't that great, but he seemed like a nice guy, and his pics looked good !

in the pub he seemed a bit too camp for my liking, but he was a really nice guy ...

the other downside was that he was a bit negative - which seemed over the top for the first date !

so, after walking him home, we had a quick kiss in the street, and agreed to meet again ...

encounter with an asian guy ...

i had chatted to this bloke on grindr a few weeks before - he didn't live in london, and we hadn't managed to meet up before he left ...

next time he was in town, he messaged me on grindr, and i agreed to go over to his hotel ... i still don't feel hugely comfortable walking past reception and heading straight up to a hotel room ... but maybe that's part of the thrill !

he wasn't as young as his pics, but he seemed like a nice enough guy ... so we started to get down to it ...

it was pleasant enough, but it seemed to be over too quickly ...

i'm struggling to remember any of the details ... so i guess it wasn't amazingly good !

short encounter with an "Indian" guy

the other day i was on grindr, and was contacted by a guy ... he was closeby, and he sent a nice facepic ... and said that he was looking for "cuddles" ...

well, i'm never one to turn down cuddles ... so i agreed for him to cover over to my place ...

i was going out to meet a friend that evening, so wouldn't have long with this guy ... but he turned up fairly quickly ... and once we got inside my flat he was keen to get on with things ...

he was a nice enough guy, but his breath wasn't very fresh, and he smelled a little bit ... i didn't find him hugely attractive ...

he was ethnically south asian, and whilst naked, asked me if i liked "Indian" guys ... seemed like a stupid question - i obviously didn't object to them, or he wouldn't be naked in my bed ! he also had an annoying habit of calling me "baby" !

but, one thing led to another, and soon he said that he wanted to come on me ... i was expecting him to wank off by hand on me ... but in fact he rubbed himself against me until he came ! it meant that i didn't get to actually see his cumshot (i love seeing them), but it was a new experience, and relatively pleasant ! it didn't take long for me to join him in climaxing ...

an afternoon with ...

i hadn't met this guy since before christmas - he's always so damn busy ! we were supposed to go and see an exhibition, but i arranged to meet him at his place first ... partly in the hopes of getting some cuddles in before we left !

i arrived over to his place, and after he finished off some work he was doing, we started to leave ... but a pre-departure cuddle got him horny ... and so we ended up in his bedroom !

i made it clear that i wasn't happy with a repeat of the previous encounter ... and he seemed to accept that he couldn't just push me away after 5 minutes ... he was much less hot & cold compared to the previous occasion. it was quite an enjoyable few hours ... lots of cuddling, lots of intimacy, and a good climactic ending !

a french encounter ...

sometimes on grindr my gps location gets screwed up, and so i start chatting by accident to guys who are further away ... the other day it happened again ... but the guy seemed quite nice (if a little older than i normally go for) and was keen to meet up ...

a few days later we eventually sorted it out, and i went over to his place ... he was indeed a nice bloke, and was wearing shorts which allowed easy access to his ample assets !

before too long we were in the bedroom enjoying each other ... it was good, and he seemed to really enjoy the male body, which was great ! he did though seem keener on the rougher side of sex, so i had to tell him a few times to cool it !!

we both seemed to enjoy the sex, but he never actually climaxed ... and afterwards he had a post coital cigarette, which seemed ironic !

after some time in the bed together, i was ready to cum again ... but he still failed to ejaculate !

it was an enjoyable encounter ... but after he got dressed, he looked much camper than when in either shorts, or naked !!

encounter with an arab guy ...

a bloke contacted me on grindr whose english was not great ... but he seemed like a nice enough guy, and had a cute pic ... so i agreed to meet up ... but it took us a while to arrange ...

eventually it happened, and he was indeed a nice bloke ... but his english was really quite poor - but i'm used to communicating with people without great english, so i managed to deal with it !

the sex was not that great, but we still enjoyed ourselves. but afterwards we had a couple of hours of awesome cuddling !

he was a really chatty guy, and asked loads and loads of questions - he'd only been in london for a couple of months, and had only met a few guys before, so his knowledge of gay sex / safe sex / STDs was shockingly poor !

the rather sad side of our discussions, was that he could not imagine ever coming out to his parents or having a boyfriend ...

it was quite late when he was leaving, and he kept saying that it was going to take him a long time to get home on the bus, as he didn't have enough money to pay for the tube. it almost felt like he was asking me to pay for a travelcard - but i felt uncomfortable about giving him money, almost as if i would have paid him for sex !

just say no (2) ...

some time ago i wrote about finding it hard to say no ... well four years later, and i still don't find it much easier - i occasionally still end up in encounters with guys that i don't really fancy !

after chatting on grindr, i recently met a guy at the tube station, with a view to going back to my place ... but i didn't really find him very attractive ... so after chatting for a while (he was a nice enough guy, but i just didn't fancy him), when he suggested heading to my place, i declined ...

he was very disappointed, and asked me to reconsider ... but i held my ground ...

it's not fun upsetting a nice guy ... but it was strangely liberating ...

a proper date ...

i was chatting to a guy on grindr recently ... he seemed like a nice bloke, and fairly quickly he suggested meeting up for a beer. most guys on grindr suggest meeting up for sex, so this was a pleasant surprise ...

we met up near his place, and he turned out to be a lovely guy - we got on really well, and enjoyed a couple of drinks ... but i was meeting a friend for dinner ... so he suggested going back to his place later that evening !

i finally made it there quite late, but he was just about still awake ... and we started to enjoy each other ... we were having a good time ... and eventually he climaxed ... but before i had a chance to follow suit, he turned a bit strange ... said he was really tired, and more or less asked me to leave!

this wouldn't be surprising if we had just met up for a shag ... but it seemed odd for a bloke who had seemed like such a nice guy ! ah well, another experience of humanity i guess ...

a guy with old pics ...

i had chatted to a bloke on gaydar who seemed keen to have some fun ... his pics looked good, if a bit grainy ...

he came over to my place, and it was clear that his pics had been quite old - he was significantly older and heavier than his pics ...

we got down to having fun ... but it was not that great - it was somehow not very intimate (maybe neither of us fancied each other) ... and after climaxing, he didn't want to cuddle :-(

not an encounter that will be repeated !

foreign encounter ...

after my abortive hotel encounter ... it was after midnight, but there was another guy who was interested in meeting up, so i went over to his place ...

he had given me the address, but when i got to the location, there was an alleyway, but no sign of the bloke ... after the exchange of a few more messages on grindr ... i opened the gate, and nervously went down the alleyway, expecting the bloke to appear in one of the doorways ...

the first door i came to was being buzzed open, so i assumed that it was him, so i entered ...

there was clearly somebody at the top of the narrow staircase waiting for me ... so i climbed upwards ...

he had already warned me that his "brother" was asleep in the apartment, so our encounter would take place in the corridor outside ! luckily it was the very top of the building, so we wouldn't be disturbed ...

the bloke was lovely - he was only wearing a towel dressing gown, and he had a great body, and sizeable equipment. i was nervous about taking off my clothes in the corridor, in case i needed to make a rapid escape, but i gradually relaxed, and started undressing ...

he was a reasonable kisser, and wasn't too bad at sucking - but seemed keener of receiving rather than giving on that score ! he seemed genuinely to enjoy being with a man - rather than some blokes who just want sex, and don't actually like being with a man !!

we had an enjoyable encounter - especially considering the amount of cum that we both produced !

foreign hotel encounter ...

i was abroad for new year ... and was using the usual channels to search for a bloke for some fun ...

grindr seemed to be the most useful, with the exact distance displayed ... and so after quite a while trying to find a man, agreed to meet up with a guy ...

he came over to my hotel ... he was younger than i normally go for ... and he seemed a bit out of it - i suspect that he was a bit drugged up ... and when we got to my room, he said he was really tired, and that i was the third bloke that he had met that evening !

it all felt a bit weird - i'm not sure if he was trying to get money from me, or if he was just screwed up. anyway, it wasn't happening, so he left without either of us climaxing !