2nd encounter with the bi buy ...

a couple of weeks ago, i had a good time with a bi guy ... and we had been trying to meet again for a while ...

we finally managed it a few days ago ... and he came around to my place again ...

he looks so different to his pic on Grindr - i had forgotten how much better looking he is in real life ...

we got down to it fairly quickly ... and it was reasonably good fun - technically it was very good ! but there was something lacking ... not quite sure what - excitement, intimacy, not sure ...

we both obviously enjoyed the encounter ... and we had a good cuddle afterwards !

he didn't stay over this time, so i was able to get a good night's sleep afterwards !!

you wait ages, and then two come along ...

having mentioned recently that i hadn't actually had a bloke stay over in ages, a couple of days ago i was chatting to this guy on Grindr ... he looked really nice, and seemed quite friendly !

we met up and he looked younger in the flesh than his pic ... and he was very friendly ... so we headed back to mine !

this bloke was into kissing in a really big way, which was great ... and since was so lovely and smooth, i just wanted to run my hands all over him - which thankfully he didn't seem to mind ...

after a while of pleasuring each other, we both came in a sweaty mess ... and instead of pulling away to clean up, he seemed happy to collapse in my arms, which was fantastic ! a position he didn't move from for ages ...

unsurprisingly, he started dozing in my arms ... and later announced that we should sleep ! most blokes ask if they can stay, but he just stated it as if it was obvious ... not that i objected ...

the next morning we both enjoyed each other again ... but i did pay for my lack of sleep that day at work ...

encounter with a bi guy ...

i'd been chatting to a bloke on Grindr for a few days, and late one evening we agreed to meet up ... and after a bit of messing around (not that sort) we finally ended up back at mine ...

he was a nice guy, better looking than his pic, and he had a lovely smooth body. it had been some time since my last encounter, and i was probably a bit too horny ... but we ended up coming within seconds of each other, so i guess he was fairly horny too !

i'd noticed when we were doing the deed, that he didn't seem too keen on kissing (but he didn't completely avoid it, thank goodness) ... so whilst we were snuggling up together in post coital bliss, i asked him if he was bi ... and he confirmed my suspicions ...

i hadn't had anybody stay overnight for ages ... but this guy was so warm and cuddly, that despite knowing my sleep would be disturbed, i asked if he wanted to stay, and he agreed ...

at least it meant i got another ejaculation the next morning !

a new meaning to jerking off ...

a few days ago i was contacted by a guy i'd met up with a few times before ... they hadn't been the best hook ups ever, but weren't bad either ... so i thought i might as well give it another go ...

he came over to my place, and we got down to it fairly quickly ... i put some porn on, as he seemed to like it the previous time ...

i wasn't sure if he was really getting into it ... he didn't really seem very relaxed (but then he wasn't the previous times either) ... and it didn't seem like he actually wanted to be there - which isn't exactly good for other other person !

anyway, after a while we were ready to climax ... and to my surprise he started shooting enormous spurts of cum ... but what was really shocking was the body jerks that they produced in him ! i like to see a guy jerk a bit when he ejaculates, but this was something else - his whole body seemed to convulse, not just once, but almost half a dozen times ...

seeing another guy shoot a big load usually makes me cum buckets too - but the contortions that this guy was going through actually put me off my stroke !

anyway, it was an interesting encounter ... but things just don't feel good with this guy, so i don't think i'll meet him again ...

action or more ...

the other day at the gym i was enjoying watching a hot guy going through his routine - he's a regular and we'd had plenty of eye contact in the past, so i was fairly sure he was gay !

this time he was making loads of eye contact, so i assumed that he was up for some action ... and as we finished around the same time ... i found myself in the shower stall opposite him !

since he was a hot guy, it wasn't long before i was showing my appreciation ... but he wasn't responding ...

afterwards he seemed a bit shocked ... which made me wonder whether he was actually after more than just a bit of fun in the showers ...

another complication to consider when eyeing up blokes in the gym !

public displays of affection ...

i've never had a problem with PDAs - either straight couple of gay guys ... maybe it is the voyeur in me coming out !

but the other day i was in a busy tube carriage and a lesbian couple were getting it on beside me ... hugging each other, and nuzzling each other's necks ... and a bit of light kissing ...

whilst i'd happily watch straight couples/porn, lesbians have (unsurprisingly) never done it for me ... and i even found it slightly uncomfortable having the women beside me getting off ...

it gave me a new found appreciation for all those people who find every form of PDA uncomfortable !

watching porn during sex ...

i started using grindr a few weeks ago - a straight friend told me about Stephen Fry mentioning it on Top Gear ... so i thought i should check it out ...

the main advantage is that it shows how close other users are, and it has a really simple profile, so less distractions that most websites. i had chatted to a few guys, and i contacted a nice looking guy who was nearby ... and after checking that we seemed compatible, we agreed to meet up the next day ...

when he arrived over he looked a bit different to his profile pic (or maybe he just looked different to what i had expected) - but he was a really good looking guy. he seemed a bit shy, but as soon as we got into the bedroom, it became clear he knew what to do !

he wanted to watch porn whilst having sex ... which seems like a good idea if you're a couple that have been together for years, and want to mix things up ... but seems a bit odd for a first encounter ...

anyway, it was a really good session ... and we both seemed to enjoy it ! afterwards he didn't hang around for long, so i missed out a bit on the post-coital cuddling ...

more Hep B vaccine jabs ...

when i recently went to my local Sexual Health Clinic, i agreed to get vaccinated against Hep B ... but i didn't realise that i would need an extra 2 jabs to finish off the vaccination ...

however the injections weren't bad, so it wasn't such an ordeal ! although on both my follow up visits the reception staff were again unpleasant ... but on my final trip, the doctor giving my the jab was asking me about my experience of the clinic - so i got to tell her about her miserable and surly colleagues !

the good news is that my well protected sex life has paid off - and i don't have any sexually transmitted diseases ...

another visit to the clap clinic ...

since it was well over a year since my last sexual health checkup ... i thought i should go and get seen again ...

i did wonder about going private, but there is an NHS clinic near me, and since i don't really consume many public services, it seemed like a waste not to use the NHS ...

my appointment confirmation did say that it might take 2 hours, so i brought plenty of reading material with me ... and i needed it all !

the first impression wasn't great - the receptionist told me to wait (standing right in front of her) as she seemed to be busy with somebody else's file. the other receptionist studiously ignored me. finally a 3rd receptionist arrived, a miserable bloke who seemed annoyed to be there, and told me to fill in a form detailing why i was there. eventually, after a bit of confusion when i handed back the form to a different receptionist i made it into the waiting room ...

about 40 minutes after my appointment time, i was called by a doctor - she was really nice, although seemed a bit rushed, but was really helpful, and discussed again whether i should have a Hepatitis B vaccination ... pointing out that most of Europe vaccinates against it automatically (I already knew the US did), and that the UK is unusual in not doing so. she also suggested that there is a much higher incidence amongst gay men, than in the general population, which is why they offer it - and she suggested that she would want her children to have the vaccine. having declined the vaccine on my previous two visits, i decided to take it this time ...

so after about 5 minutes with the doctor, it was back to the waiting room, and about half an hour later, i got called in by the (rather camp) health advisor. his job was to check that i wasn't going to have a breakdown if any of my tests came back positive - so just a few minutes later i was back to the waiting room ...

my third wait wasn't quite so bad, about 20 minutes later i was called by the very pleasant female nurse, who gave me my first vaccine shot (i have to go back in a week's time for my 2nd, and a couple of months later for my 3rd) ... took 3 vials of my blood ... and 2 swabs from my ass ... and gave me a specimen bottle to piss into ...

so having gone to the bathroom and produced some urine ... and having made an appointment for my 2nd vaccine shot using the surly male receptionist who wasn't impressed that i was interrupting his mobile phone call ... i was finally out of there about an hour and three quarters after arriving ...

another time with the bloke with the big nipple ...

since the first time with this bloke was fairly good ... and he seemed keen for another encounter ... it seemed like a good idea to meet again ...

he came over to my place again, and he had asked beforehand for me to have some porn - so i made sure i had some playing in the bedroom when he arrived ... and it really seemed to help him - previously he had been nervous but this time he was a bit more relaxed ...

he was fixated by the porn - even after we had both shot our loads, and were cleaning up ... he was still watching it ...

he stayed afterwards for some cuddling ... but i'm not sure if he just isn't into it, or whether he is not yet comfortable with it ... but at least he just about went along with it !

the bloke who passed out ...

a few days ago i was online and this bloke contacted me, asking to come over ... i was very dubious - it was late, and i wondered if he just wanted somewhere to crash !

eventually i managed to get a photo from him ... and his profile had obviously been around for a long time, so i reckoned he was worth a try ...

i knew that he was theoretically straight, and was drunk and horny ... but i didn't realise just how drunk and straight he was ! after we got back to mine, we got down to it straight away ... and it was reasonably good, but at one point, he just stopped moving ...

i couldn't work out whether he was faking, and just wanting to sleep ... or whether he really had passed out ! after a few seconds shaking him to wake up, i realised that it was latter !!

after that, his guilt overwhelmed him ... and he decided to leave ...

whilst this could have upset me ... i just felt a bit sorry for the poor confused lad, as i was once a bit like him !!

still, i shouldn't meet these types too often, or it will effect me ...

a bloke with a huge nipple ...

i was online a while ago, and was chatting to this guy who had asked me for pics ... we were going to meet, but then he got delayed, and we missed each other ...

later that day we managed to sort out meeting up ... and for once he wasn't older looking than his pics ! he seemed like a nice guy, so we headed back to mine for some fun ...

he was a bit painfully closeted, but such a nice guy, that i really enjoyed it ... and he had such a nice smooth body, it wasn't too long before we both exploded in satisfaction ...

and he even managed to stay afterwards for some quality cuddle time !

gay bashing on tv ...

a few nights ago channel 4 had a repeat of Clapham Junction - which included various scenes of gay bashing ... which reminded me of a random episode of Eastenders (a depressing programme i try to avoid) a few weeks ago which also included a gay bashing ...

i've been meeting blokes for years without any sort of violent incident, nor have i ever been mugged - despite having lived in london for years (unlike quite a few of my straight friends) ... but i find violence against gays on tv quite disturbing ...

maybe it's some sort of deep seated insecurity coming through - for years i was scared to meet up with blokes, partly due to a fear of violence ...

whatever it is, i really don't like how it makes me feel ...

a quick session ...

a couple of days ago, i had been online for a while, but was getting bored, and just wanted a quick session ...

there was a bloke who was nearby, but he was a smoker, and i really don't like the taste of smoke ... but he seemed to be up for a quick oral session ... so i went over, and we both seemed to enjoy our rapid eruptions ...

another excellent session ...

i was recently online, and saw that a bloke i'd met for a previous session was logged in ... so i contacted him, and he was up for a meet ...

he came over to my place shortly afterwards, and he was just as sensuous as the last time we'd met - he had an incredible way with his hands ... and we had an excellent time together ...

but at the end, after a reasonably long session, he didn't actually cum ! i felt guilty, but he assured me that he had enjoyed himself ...