a one pint date ...

i recently met a guy from grindr outside a tube station ... i wasn't quite sure if we were going on a date, or meeting for an encounter ...

he suggested going to a pub, so i was happy to agree, and we headed for a local pub that i know ...

his pics on grindr were quite different - a couple were really attractive, and a couple weren't so hot ... in the flesh, he was unfortunately closer to the latter ... and he had a strangely shaped nose, that i wondered might be due to excess ingestion ...

when we met, it was obvious that he was a bit camp, but after a while in the pub, it became clear that he was extremely camp ... to the point where after we had both finished our first drinks, i made my excuses and left ... i just couldn't stand it any more ...

he seemed a bit shocked ... but i made sure that i had bought the first pint, so that i could leave with a clear conscience !

another encounter with an asian guy ...

eight months ago, i had met up with an asian guy, who was very sweet and quite sexy ...

i noticed him on grindr recently, as he has moved into a flat nearby ... we had chatted a few times, but we finally managed to meet up recently ...

he is just as sweet and sexy as he was back in September ... and it was a really enjoyable evening ... good sex and plenty of cuddles afterwards ...

manroulette

i used to engage in phone sex from time to time, especially with a guy that i met on gaydar ...

however, my new laptop has a built-in webcam ... and so i've been using manroulette a bit recently ...

it can be quite hot, but it does take a while to find a guy that is compatible (and who actually has a webcam) ... and they never seem to have sound ...

still, quite useful if you're tired and just want to tug one out !

encounter with a musician ...

i was chatting to a guy on gayromeo who was visiting london, and seemed keen on meeting up ...

i had given him directions, and he arrived at my local tube station, and after some confusion, i went and met him, and we came back to my place ...

he was reasonably attractive - particularly without his glasses - and we had a enjoyable time ...

afterwards there was plenty of cuddling, and plenty of chat - he seems like an interesting guy ...

going to a gay bar ...

whilst on holiday in eastern europe i met a guy from grindr ... and he was keen to go to a gay bar ...

we headed over to the local gay bar, and it was quite a shock ...

first the front door was locked, so we had to be buzz to get let in ... then we discovered that the place was empty ... apart from the barman, and the topless pole dancer ...

we sat down for a drink and a chat ... and after a while the pole dancer came over to talk to us ... i was a bit worried that we would be charged for his attention ... but we weren't !

after a while, a couple of other guys arrived ... and eventually one of them headed off to the dark room out the back with the pole dancer ... whilst his mate sat right outside the dark room ...

it all seemed rather sad and guilt laden !

cruising in eastern europe ...

i was on holiday recently in eastern europe ... and obviously horny ... so looking for sex ...

gaydar isn't very popular over there, and grindr isn't very big either ... however gayromeo has a huge following ...

the only problem is that guys don't seem quite so keen on meeting up, just for sex ... and since i was only there for a few days, i didn't want to pretend that i was looking for anything more !

i left eastern europe sexually frustrated, after the temptation of so many hot guys !

another encounter with a local bloke ... after a long break

i hadn't met the guy who lives locally for some time ... but he contacted me on Grindr recently and suggested that we meet up ...

on the designated day, he came over to mine, and it was great to see him again - he has such a lovely body, and i love having fun with him. the only downside was that his breath wasn't the freshest, so kissing wasn't as enjoyable as it could have been !

bedroom activities were good, and afterwards we had a bit of cuddling time - he fell asleep in my arms, and started gently snoring ! however, he couldn't stay for very long, but at least i got a reasonable amount of cuddle time ...

i guess it must have been a good session, as my hamstrings were sore for the following few days !

llgff

i always enjoy going to the london lesbian and gay film festival ... but this year it was disappointing ...

usually the festival lasts about two weeks, and includes a range of british, european, north & south american and asian films ... this year is was a mere six days, with the obvious lack of diversity ...

apparently the funding from the BFI was halved - a depressing way to celebrate 25 years of the festival.

sounds like it's time to Save the London Lesbian and Gay Film Festival

another encounter with the bloke from the pub ...

about a week after getting it on with the guy from the pub ... we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

it was a strange encounter - he seemed a bit stressed, or a bit rushed ... i suspect that he is looking for more than i am out of it ...

anyway, the sex wasn't brilliant, but i still like being in bed with him !

he didn't stay long afterwards ...

encounter with the guy from the pub ...

I'd been in contact with the guy that I'd been on a date with, but we hadn't been able to meet up ... eventually we agreed on an evening, and he wanted me to stay over ...

He is a really nice guy, but his negativity was obvious again !

He has a great body though, and is a reasonably good kisser, and we had a nice time in the bedroom ...

The only trouble was that he snored like an express train ! I had a serious lack of sleep - even after rolling him onto his front ... and I never sleep a huge amount lying next to a hot guy, as I just can't keep my hands off them !

a date in a pub ...

i went for a date with a guy that i had chatted to on Grindr recently ... his written english wasn't that great, but he seemed like a nice guy, and his pics looked good !

in the pub he seemed a bit too camp for my liking, but he was a really nice guy ...

the other downside was that he was a bit negative - which seemed over the top for the first date !

so, after walking him home, we had a quick kiss in the street, and agreed to meet again ...

encounter with an asian guy ...

i had chatted to this bloke on grindr a few weeks before - he didn't live in london, and we hadn't managed to meet up before he left ...

next time he was in town, he messaged me on grindr, and i agreed to go over to his hotel ... i still don't feel hugely comfortable walking past reception and heading straight up to a hotel room ... but maybe that's part of the thrill !

he wasn't as young as his pics, but he seemed like a nice enough guy ... so we started to get down to it ...

it was pleasant enough, but it seemed to be over too quickly ...

i'm struggling to remember any of the details ... so i guess it wasn't amazingly good !

short encounter with an "Indian" guy

the other day i was on grindr, and was contacted by a guy ... he was closeby, and he sent a nice facepic ... and said that he was looking for "cuddles" ...

well, i'm never one to turn down cuddles ... so i agreed for him to cover over to my place ...

i was going out to meet a friend that evening, so wouldn't have long with this guy ... but he turned up fairly quickly ... and once we got inside my flat he was keen to get on with things ...

he was a nice enough guy, but his breath wasn't very fresh, and he smelled a little bit ... i didn't find him hugely attractive ...

he was ethnically south asian, and whilst naked, asked me if i liked "Indian" guys ... seemed like a stupid question - i obviously didn't object to them, or he wouldn't be naked in my bed ! he also had an annoying habit of calling me "baby" !

but, one thing led to another, and soon he said that he wanted to come on me ... i was expecting him to wank off by hand on me ... but in fact he rubbed himself against me until he came ! it meant that i didn't get to actually see his cumshot (i love seeing them), but it was a new experience, and relatively pleasant ! it didn't take long for me to join him in climaxing ...

an afternoon with ...

i hadn't met this guy since before christmas - he's always so damn busy ! we were supposed to go and see an exhibition, but i arranged to meet him at his place first ... partly in the hopes of getting some cuddles in before we left !

i arrived over to his place, and after he finished off some work he was doing, we started to leave ... but a pre-departure cuddle got him horny ... and so we ended up in his bedroom !

i made it clear that i wasn't happy with a repeat of the previous encounter ... and he seemed to accept that he couldn't just push me away after 5 minutes ... he was much less hot & cold compared to the previous occasion. it was quite an enjoyable few hours ... lots of cuddling, lots of intimacy, and a good climactic ending !

a french encounter ...

sometimes on grindr my gps location gets screwed up, and so i start chatting by accident to guys who are further away ... the other day it happened again ... but the guy seemed quite nice (if a little older than i normally go for) and was keen to meet up ...

a few days later we eventually sorted it out, and i went over to his place ... he was indeed a nice bloke, and was wearing shorts which allowed easy access to his ample assets !

before too long we were in the bedroom enjoying each other ... it was good, and he seemed to really enjoy the male body, which was great ! he did though seem keener on the rougher side of sex, so i had to tell him a few times to cool it !!

we both seemed to enjoy the sex, but he never actually climaxed ... and afterwards he had a post coital cigarette, which seemed ironic !

after some time in the bed together, i was ready to cum again ... but he still failed to ejaculate !

it was an enjoyable encounter ... but after he got dressed, he looked much camper than when in either shorts, or naked !!