first time in a steam room ...

this was the first gym that i'd been to with a steam room ... and so i thought i should check it out ... as i walked in, the 2 guys in there looked like they had been interrupted ...

soon after i sat down, a guy walked in - he was completed naked and had an enormous uncut dick ... think he was a bit surprised that the 3 of us had towels ...

he sat down beside me, so i was able to check him out a bit more ... and after a short time i went to get a cold shower ... and the guy chose the cubicle beside me ...

after some eyeing each other up ... we both got dressed and met outside ... and went to his place, which was closeby ... fantastic flat, especially after my previous experience !

it was my first experience of being with a guy who had seen so much of me beforehand ... which was quite liberating / relaxing ...

the guy was a bit older than i normally go for, but with such a gorgeous dick i thought he was worth trying ... and boy did he prove me right ... so expert at having fun - he really knew how to keep a guy happy ! and he seemed to enjoy himself too ...

it was all over a bit too soon - but i guess better short and sweet, than drag it out too much ...

not sure what it will be like when i bump into him in the gym again ... he's a nice bloke, but quite camp - i'd rather not be too obvious about it ...

the mostly english guy ...

after a couple of weeks without action [holidays etc.] ... i was about to logoff gaydar, when a guy contacted me ... his pic looked good, and he seemed like a decent enough guy ...

so i headed over straight away ...

he had said that his pics were recent, but on meeting him i had my doubts - he seemed to have put on quite a bit of weight, or else the pics were from a particularly good angle ...

he apologised for the state of his flat - it really was quite dirty and a complete mess ...

it had been a long time since i'd been in a single bed with another person ... but that wasn't the real problem ... somehow duvet covers didn't seem to be part of his requirements !

i've never quite understood guys who turn the lights off when with another person ... i've assumed that it's either that they don't like the sight of their own body, or the person that they're with ... not sure which it was [if either] in this case ...

anyway, we had some fun ... the guy was an expert rimmer ... and amusingly, when it came to the climax, the guy turned on the light to watch !

afterwards i sat back down on his bed ... and we chatted, for a good while ... he was a nice enough guy ... but he seemed a bit immature ... and a bit too camp for my liking ...

Inspiration ...

i'm not one to look at others and think they have the perfect relationship ... but occasionally ...

i was on holiday recently and in the same B&B were a gay couple ... they seemed like really decent guys ... and they went off snowboarding together each day ... and when the weather was crap, they stayed in bed having sex all day - not too loudly, but not quietly either !

they just seemed like a really nice guys, and a really good couple ... and it made me think what i might be missing out on, not having a partner ...

5th time with the same guy ...

i chat to this guy reasonably often on gaydar ... the last couple of times i have challenged him about something, and he has responded positively ...

i last met him over a month ago ... and we decide to meet again ...

i was a bit late arriving, and he seemed keen to get straight down to business ...

it was interesting that he seemed to have considered my questioning his lack of interest in kissing - he seemed to compensate by being more tactile ...

after some fun, we take a break ... and we start chatting ... we seem to chat more each time, and this time it is some fairly personal stuff ...

after some more fun ... we are chatting again, this time it's some reasonably heavy stuff ... eventually he signals it's time to leave ... i can't believe how late it is by the time i leave - we probably spent more time chatting than anything else ...

he's almost becoming a mate, with fun ... even though it's quite limited !