Another proper date

One of the problems with Tindr for gay men, is that it doesn't give any clues about what sexual preferences a guy has !

I wasn't sure about meeting up with this guy ... but then i saw his Manhunt profile, and I knew that I really did want to meet him !!

we met up at quite short notice - which i find is better than guys who will only plan things weeks in advance

he seemed a bit heavier than his photos, but it was a bit hard to tell as the bar was quite dark, and his jumper was a bit loose

he was such an easy guy to chat to, and was interesting, and seemed really nice ... but there wasn't really any immediate sexual urgency

i might try seeing him again, and finding out whether that sexual spark appears with time ...

 

you're my third guy

i recently chatted to a guy on Manhunt ... and after exchanging facepics we decided to meet up ... and agreed for him to come over to my place a few days later ...

he turned out to be smaller and slimmer than i expected ... and maybe not quite as good looking.

i almost didn't bring him up to my flat - but thought that i would at least give him a drink, and have a chat - he didn't look like the type who would freak out if i decided later that i didn't want to do anything with him !

after a bit of a chat on the couch, we went next door to the bedroom ... and fairly early on he mentioned that i was only the third guy that he'd had sex with !

a couple of months ago i hooked up with a young guy, who turned out to be pretty damn good ... and for only his third man on man action, this guy was fairly accomplished - he didn't just lie back and wait for it to happen, he was a decent kisser and although he wouldn't do oral at least he didn't expect to receive it.

one way in which he was obviously inexperienced was his shyness about his body.  he got really embarassed when i told him he had a beautiful dick (he really did have), and he said that he would prefer to have the light off - but he accepted when i told him that i never have sex without being able to see the guy i'm with.

the last time i penetrated a guy, i used a cock ring for the first time - and since it worked well, i thought i would try it again with this guy.  the trouble is that although this guy had a nice dick, i don't think i was that turned on, and it didn't work as well :(

we did both generate respectable cumshots - and unlike the last guy, this one clearly loved post coital cuddling.  before too long we were both horny again - although this time he didn't shoot (he'd masturbated a few hours before coming over to my place - idiot), i produced another load.

again we spent some time cuddling and chatting.  after a while he had a shower, and went off to get his bus home.

nice enough guy - i hope other blokes he meets are nice to this newbie.

first use of a ...

cock ring !

i'd been meaning to buy one for ages ... but Amex is currently running a "shop small" special offer ... so i made the effort to go to my local gay sex shop - which very handily is part of the Amex deal !

i needed to spend over 10 quid ... so i went for the OptiMale 3 C-Ring set ! 

the other day a guy came over who had already indicated that he wanted to be penetrated ... and once we met he seemed quite a relaxed kind of a guy - so i thought he was a good candidate to try it out on !

whilst the sex was reasonably good ... the trouble was that he turned out to be a smoker - and i suspect quite a heavy smoker.  Unfortunately Manhunt doesn't have "smoker" as a profile field - so you either need to put it in your own profile text as a preference, or remember to ask ... which i didn't

early on in proceedings, i nearly called a halt to things - as the smell of smoke was almost making me retch ... but i worked out that if i avoided parts of him that smelled more of smoke, i was ok to continue !

i think the cock ring worked ok.  we didn't manage to co-ordinate our ejaculations - but we weren't too far apart

he didn't hang around for long afterwards ... but i don't think i would have wanted to cuddle him anyway :(

foreign encounter of the disappointing kind ...

I'd been on holiday in the sun (not lying on a beach) for a week, and was very horny ... but didn't seem to be able to hook up.  I'd previously had a really enjoyable encounter whilst on holiday.  But this was probably a dangerous situation, and so when I finally arranged to meet a guy from manhunt, I was probably too horny !

I went over to his place, and it turned out that he was a lot older than his pics ... I should have walked away ...

It wasn't sensual, and it wasn't particularly fun ... we should have just had a chat - he was an interesting enough guy ...

finally meeting a bloke ...

i had been communicating with this bloke on manhunt on and off for around a year ... he lives some distance away so we had struggled to meet up ...

we finally met up a few days ago, and it was a bit of a shock - he was considerably older than his pics, and he looked a lot less confident in real life - in fact i guess he looked a bit pathetic !

i thought that after so long communicating, we should at least sit down and talk face to face ... but it turned out that his chat wasn't any better than his looks !

we did indulge in some mutual pleasuring, but it felt a bit like going through the motions ...

don't judge by the cover ...

i had been chatting to a guy online for a while ... his body pics were great, but he only sent really small facepics, and they weren't very clear ...

we decided to meet up, and he wasn't a great looking guy - which explains why he only sent the tiny pics ! however, i thought about his amazing body pics, and decided to go ahead and have some fun ...

he had seemed quite a chilled guy when we met in public, but once we were in private he changed completely - amazingly eager and energetic - like a guy 20 years younger ! it was great !!

he loved kissing and body contact and lots more ... and after climaxing, we hugged and kissing for ages, until it was time for more fun ...

it was one of my best sessions ever, and a few hours later, neither of us could believe how long we'd been having fun for ...

using a different website

most of my encounters come from my use of gaydar ... but i also use a couple of other websites, but have never met a bloke from them ... however a couple of weeks ago, i was contacted by a bloke on manhunt - i created a profile here when i was abroad a couple of years ago, in a country where gaydar is not used much ...

the trouble with manhunt is that, unlike gaydar, you can't easily see how close blokes are to you - so you could waste your time chatting with somebody who is miles and miles away !

however, the bloke who contacted me turned out to live nearby ... so he came round, and we had a quick but enjoyable session ...