kiss at the end of a date ?

i was on a date recently ... we went to a cafe on top of an art gallery ... and then for a walk across the city ...

it was all very enjoyable - he seems like a nice guy ... and he's definitely an attractive guy ...

but as we were saying goodbye ... i thought he was moving in for a kiss ... but i moved ... and then he didn't seem interested in a kiss !

if i hadn't moved to begin with ... it would probably have happened

then you begin to wonder if he's actually interested ...

 

report card

i had been chatting to a guy on Jackd for about a day ... and he was keen to meet up ... so the other morning we did just that ...

he was quite cute - a bit smaller than i was expecting ... and nice and friendly ...

we'd had some discussion beforehand about kissing - i'm keen on it, and prefer guys who are too ... but he didn't seem overly keen.  thankfully when we met, he was ok with kissing - even if i had to get him to slow down, to enjoy longer / slower kisses !

we knew we only had an hour before he had to head off ... so we got down to business fairly quickly ... he had a beautiful uncut dick - which always helps !

before we met, he suggested that he was looking to btm that day ... so after some preliminaries, i complied with his request !  he was a bit of a moaner - i suspect he watches a lot of professional porn !  but still, i prefer that than somebody who is dead silent.

i was trying to time our ejaculations so we both shot together ... and i thought he was close, so i started shooting ... but it turned out that he wasn't !  i couldn't keep penetrating him, so i had to use my fingers to stimulate his ass for another couple of minutes, until he shot his load.

he was able to stay for a bit afterwards, which was great ... and he seems like a nice guy - although fairly recently out of a relationship, so probably still a bit fragile.

a couple of hours later, he sent a message saying "Amazing", and that he really enjoyed it.  i couldn't stop myself showing it to a mate that i was having lunch with - who knows what i get up to.  my mate laughed, and said it was like getting a report card at school :)

date in a cafe

it didn't take much online with this guy to agree to meet up for a coffee ...

maybe it wasn't a good omen that the place we agreed to meet (his suggestion) was actually closed for refurbishment !  but we quickly agreed on a new place ... and headed off ...

he described himself as "out" but discreet ... which i didn't really understand ... and the 2nd cafe that he wanted to go to was a basement place - so not too many people to see us ...

he was pleasant enough to chat to ... he spoke a lot, which i guess is better than somebody who doesn't speak enough !  he was chinese - and I suspect our politics are very different ... but i tried to restrain myself !

at the end of the date, he was going to use the toilets - and said that i didn't have to wait for him ... but i thought that was a bit odd ... so i insisted i would ...

outside we started to say goodbye ... and whilst i was pretty sure he wasn't interested in coming back to my place - i thought i better ask (rather than regret it later) ... but he wasn't !

a few hours later he messaged me to confirm that whilst he enjoyed the date, i wasn't really his type.  decent of him to let me know.

2nd time / 6th time with a guy ...

A week after I first met this guy ... we arrange to meet again ... and once more he nearly cancels (this could get irritating) !

But we do finally meet ... first for a quick drink (we both have soft drinks this time) ... and then back to my place ...

Again, both the sessions before we go to sleep, as well as the one the next morning are very enjoyable ...

One fact which I discovered on the previous meeting was that the sounds of sexual activity make him excited ... which is a new erogenous activity for me !

Sadly I can't manufacture the same sounds as last time ... but thankfully he doesn't do any further damage to my bedroom wall ...

The next morning we sit at my dining table to eat breakfast ... all very civilised !

1st time / 2nd time / 3rd time ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years ago ... and we were supposed to meet up, but he cancelled ... and we never managed to arrange another date ...

Seeing his sweet face again on Jack'd, I thought I would try one more time ... and we arranged to meet for a date in town ...

In a worrying sign of history repeating itself, he nearly cancelled again ... but he did agree to meet a bit later than previously arranged !

We started off with a drink (standing outside a straight bar) ... and he suggested going to a quieter bar ... so we went to the only gay bar that I ever go to (about once a year) ... and found a quiet section near the back ...

A gay couple who started snogging nearby was a good excuse to start kissing him ... and after one drink there (him of soft drinks, me on pints), he agreed to come back to my place ...

The two climaxes that night, and the one the next morning were all very enjoyable ... him unfortunately kicking and damaging the wall in my bedroom was less so !

Date - Encounter

I'd been contacted by this guy on Jack'd who was a lot younger than me, and younger than i normally go for ... but in the interest of broading one's experiences, i continued chatting to him ...

After a few weeks of occasional chats, we agreed to meet up ... fun was definitely on the agenda ... but it was also a sort of date !

He turned out to be very young - his pics had made him look more mature than his age suggested ... but he was really not that mature :(

We went for a walk (via a couple of shops that I need to go to), and had a decent chat ...
 
Nice enough guy, but really the difference in life experience of somebody that young (not that I'm really that old!) was too much - he hadn't really even been into central london, despite living on the fringes.  He kept asking about my favourite films.

He had his first boyfriend at the age of 16 and has always been into older guys.

Once we got back to my place we did pleasure each other, and it was an enjoyable enough encounter ... but i doubt i'll be seeing him again.