Side by Side they Shot each other

A few weeks previously i had finished my shower and was drying myself in my cubicle when the cubicle door opposite me opened, and the guy was about to leave ... but he looked at me, and then decided to stay and dry himself some more !

I thought that glance and pause suggested there was potential ... and then in the changing room he had chosen a locker in the corridor which meant that other guys could see him and his beautiful body !

We ended up in the toilet both using the urinals ... and he chuckled to himself as we both played with our dicks ... almost like he was pretending that this wasn't gay ... it was just two guys who happened to each playing with themselves ...

Sadly we got interrupted, and nothing else happened.


Fast forward a few weeks, and i'm back in the same gym ... and in the sauna is a beautiful black guy who keeps his bits covered ... so i'm not hopeful ...

But then we end up in the same shower cubicles and almost the same situation ... where he's happy to show off his bits as he dries himself ... and he's using a locker in the same corridor part of the changing room ...

I can't remember what the previous guy looked like ... but he's the right colour, and there are too many similarities for it not to be the same guy !

Once again we find ourselves side by side in the urinals ... and this time i'm not wasting any time ... and i put my foot inside his so i can rub my leg against him ...

He doesn't object ... and he doesn't chuckle this time ... so maybe he's slightly less in denial that this is a gay encounter !

It doesn't take long before the sight of him playing with his beautiful uncut dick is enough to push me over the edge, and i shoot into my urinal ...

He watches, but doesn't do the same.  Maybe next time we can progress to two cumshots !

 

Tie me up

After our intial few meetings ... i've gradually done some more interesting things with the lovely guy who lives nearby ...

This time we were chatting on Grindr in advance of meeting up ... and I asked him about being tied up ...

As usual he was up for it ... and he was quickly over to my flat ...

I've never actually tried the tying up thing - so i didn't have any "proper" ropes ... but i had some nice spare shoe laces lying around ... so i used one of them !

He seemed to enjoy it ... and eventually i released him and let him wank himself off as i shot my load over him ...

Proper fun !

 

Dates with a younger guy

After an incident last year when a guy started playing a computer game on his phone after sex - I sort of gave myself a minimum age of 27 for dating a guy ...

The trouble is that lots of beautiful 25 year olds keep appearing on dating apps ...

And whilst they aren't normally interested in me ... one guy recently was ...

The first date was excellent - about four hours later we finally said goodbye ...

The second date was pretty good too.  Although his insistence that we not have sex until we had dated more left me wondering when it would actually happen.

The third date went pretty well too - by this stage he had his hand inside my trousers whilst we were in a pub !  In hindsight it felt a bit odd that I didn't manage to get hold of his bits, but he got to play with mine ... whilst still saying that we couldn't have sex !

Towards the end of the date, he asked me a specific question about my recent sexual history, which I declined to answer ... and this is where things fell apart.  We parted on reasonable terms ... but in text messages afterwards it felt like he was threatening me that if I didn't answer the question, then we couldn't meet again.

Quite a few of his messages were laced with "micro aggresions" - i'm not sure if they were designed to put me on the back foot, or whether he was using it as a way of protecting himself from his own insecurities.  Whatever the reason, it was annoying.

We met up for a fourth time, and the coldness between us was a bit shocking in comparison to the previous three dates.  It was incredible that the excitement could have been drained so comprehensively.  I told him that I didn't think there was any future, and whilst he protested a bit, I think he knew that it was over.


My lessons from this experience are

i) Try and keep to late 20s and above
ii) Guys who have such a limited sex life are probably not compatible
iii) Guys who are adament about a monogamous relationship, maybe aren't compatible
iv) Don't accept micro aggressions / high mainteance guys as being ok
v) Don't give up on the idea of a relationship

Different gym, same outcome

One of the gyms that I regularly visit has a large number of guys who seem up for action ... but I've never seen any action actually happen

The steam room is mixed gender, which doesn't help - but I've never seen any action in the showers either

On this visit there was a beautiful guy in the steam room, but he appeared to be straight ... until it was just the two of us left there ... and he soon slipped his beautiful dick out of his swimming shorts !

After a little bit of action, he said somebody was coming, so he left ...

I headed for the showers, and he was soon in the cubicle opposite me ...

And whilst I don't normally engage in shower cubicle action - i made an exception for this gorgeous guy

It wasn't long before his manipulation of my equipment had me close to cumming ... but then somebody entered a nearby cubicle, and it put my partner in crime off his stroke ...

I couldn't stop, and shot my load on him ... but the moment seemed to have passed for him

Maybe next time I will manage to get him off

 

Psychotherapist

Most guys when they arrive at my flat for an encounter for the first time, are a bit cautious and usually a bit nervous to ensure that they aren't about to be confronted by my flatmates (i don't have any, but they can't be so sure) !

This guy was the exact opposite - he strode in with determination to "own" his space ...

And for a btm guy he was quite bossy ... which i don't think i really enjoy !

What he really wanted was for me to cum in his face ... and everything else seemed to just be waiting for this to happen !

He had cleaned his ass very well - penetration was a pleasure ... but he was able to squeeze his ass with a force that was impressive when i had my fingers in him, but a bit unpleasant when he did it to my dick

After a somewhat unengaged encounter ... i complied with his requirement, and properly covered his face ... which made him shoot straight away

Afterwards we had a bit of a chat, and he turned out to be some sort of psychotherapist ... with an annoying line in asking questions but not answering any.  Doubt there will be a repeat session.

 

Guy smell

This cute brazilian guy seemed eager to meet ... despite not speaking much english ... so after a couple of failed attempts to meet nearby (i didn't want to bring him home until i was sure) ... we met in the rain near where i was staying ...

When I got my hands on him he turned out to be really thin - almost too skinny for me, but just about ok ...

He had a bit of a musky smell which was mostly fine ... but I couldn't really suck him as it was too strong in his crotch !

When he took off his underwear, they seemed a bit dirty - which really put me off ... but I pushed on !

Once we were both naked, i thought it would be fun to rub our dicks together using some lube ... but he seemed uncomfortable ... and then next thing, he dick starts producing cum ... wtf !

I guess the dangers of a young guy is that he may cum too quickly ... but it makes a nice change from me bieng the first to come.  I added my load to his fairly quickly.

 

steam bench

One of my gyms with a male only steam room has recently been refurbished.  Thankfully they retained the male only steam room, but it's now a narrow corridor with a bench running the length of it.

On my first visit there was a younger guy who was clearly up for some fun ... but a bit nervous ...

Eventually I ended up standing in front of him ... and shooting my load on him ... but unfortunately it was just as he glanced at the door to check nobody was approaching ... so he missed it !

Sadly he didn't produce any creamy stuff himself

 

Unremarkable

It's telling when thinking back to an encounter when you remember the post coital chat much more than the coitus itself !

This guy worked at a local hospital, and we had tried to meet up before without success ...

When he arrived he turned out to be a bit overweight, but he was just about cute enough to get away with it

We had a good chat afterwards about the goings on in the hospital, and his studies

 

A real bisexual ?

So many guys who struggle to accept their sexuality describe themselves as "bi", especially in the early days of not being straight ... but the guy i met recently might actually be my first full on bisexual !

He meets guys more than women, but partly because guys are more available ... and he met me that night because he was flying in a few hours, and wanted some pre holiday fun !

The photos he sent made him look seriously hot, and he looked good in the flesh - just not anything much like his photos

He had a beautiful dick, but a seriously hairy ass when was slighly off putting

This was another guy who wanted me to cum in his face ... what is it about guys who want that ?!

Afterwards he became turned out to be seriously clever, and quite possibly a future high flyer ... if he doesn't get too cocky !

 

Steam failure

I quite often write about fun times in the gym steam room ...

But for every win ... there are multiple failures !

I recently had one of them ...

There was a shy guy, a slightly shy guy, and a guy with a small dick who seemed embarassed ...

It didn't end in any explosions !

  

Brazilian repeat

Sometimes I forget how many sessions i've had with a guy until i'm writing up my blog posts ...

This was particularly good one ... and i'm really getting into the dom role ... and the more i get into, the more he enjoys it !  i really love how hard he gets without even touching himself when i'm forcing him to suck me ...

The size of the load he shot on this encounter suggested that he had a good time

And his beautiful latin body and dick always make me shoot

Afterward I realised why he doesn't normally hang around ... and asked him on Grindr if he had a boyfriend ... which he confirmed he does ...

 

Another Date

After not having been on a date since last May ... i went on two in two days !

After the previous guy turned out to be much older than his photos ... this guy turned out to wear glasses - which he didn't in his photos !

I'm not sure if it's just laziness about putting in contact lenses ... or they always wear glasses but just take them off for photos ... but there's something dishonest about it which annoys me !

The date went better than the previous one - I persuaded him to go see some art that i wanted to ... and then have a nice walk around London ...

He was an interesting guy, but there was something slightly asexual about him - i would touch him, but he wouldn't touch me back !

We suggested meeting again ... but I suspect it's not going to happen

 

Date

It had been so long since I had been on a proper date that I had to look up my previous post to find out that it was in May !

I had chatted to this guy online, and whilst one of his profile pics looked stunning, another made him look a bit older than i normally go for.  When we met up in a bar he turned out to be significantly older again !

He was an interesting enough guy, but he seemed a bit set in his ways - maybe that's partly an age thing !

He needed to go off to meet his friends for dinner after about an hour - which was absolutely fine.  When we were saying goodbye he tried to kiss me, which was awkward - he didn't seem to realise that I wasn't that into him !

He messaged me the next day, and I replied a week later to say that I'd been happy to meet again as friends ... but he didn't reply

Moral of the story - out of date profile photos just waste everybody's time !
 
 

Gym nipple

One of the gyms that I use has open showers, with just enough privacy that you can get away with some fun if it's not too busy ...

On a recent visit there was a guy who was clearly up for it ... although I only got as far as touching his nipples ... it turned him on so much that he soon shot his load !

It's unusual for me to be late to the party ... but it didn't take me long to spew my load too

It was a fun little encounter - despite him being a bit overweight, but his equipment not being very heavy

 

Suck you long time

There's a hotel near where I live that often accommodates airline crew ... who i've enjoyed over the years!

But non airline guests stay there too ... and a guy messaged me looking for fun ...

He was a bit older than i normally go for ... but seemed keen to suck me ...

So i persuaded him to have the lights off when i arrived - which allowed me to pretend that he was younger than he was !

He was indeed a keen sucker ... and kept going for ages ... and eventually got me off with the help of his finger !

Apparently he shot his load too - but sadly i didn't see it

 

Steamy action

With my usual gym's steam room out of action ... it was back to the nearby gym with the tiny steam room where i'd recently had a strange experience ...

This one was a bit weird too ... at one stage i heard somebody in the relaxation area say "put some clothes on" ... which isn't something that is normally said in a male only spa area !

Then there was the guy in speedos who was eyeing up the other guys, but wouldn't actually get involved ... and who may have even gone and complained to staff ... as they came in soon after he left to check things out !

Not that the staff visits actually stopped things happening ... and soon a slightly overweight guy was openly playing with his not very large member.  There was an older guy with a beautiful member ... and i managed to get my hands on it ... and extract an excellent cumshot out of him !

The a guy arrived in who was also clearly up for it ... and who had really sensitive nipples ... and who seemed keen for me to cum on them ... so i did !!

 

Naked steam

With my usual gym's steam room out of action ... i took the opportunity to visit another gym that i don't normally venture into ...

The gym itself is a bit of a dump ... but it had a male spa area ...

And in the steam room i found a guy sitting there buck naked - which is almost a guaranteed sign that he is up for some fun !

There was another guy sitting there in his underwear ... which was markedly bulging ... but despite looking around at us ... he didn't seem up for it ...

Eventually the bulging short guy left ... and i got to play quickly with the naked guy before the steam room closed ...

The naked guy shot his load ... but sadly it was too dark for me to see ... and i left without spilling my seed !

  

See no evil

Whilst my usual gym's main male steam room is being refurbished ... i visited another local gym with a male only steam room ...

The steam room is very small, which adds a bit of excitement ...

After an initial visit to the steam where nothing happened ... I went back in for a second look ... to find two guys who were clearly enjoying themselves ... and a third guy who wasn't involved ...

The two guys were openly playing with each other ... but the third guy didn't say a word and just looked away ...

I've never seen such a setup ... i'm not sure if the two guys who were hard at it knew that the third guy wouldn't say anything ... or maybe the third guy didn't want to admit that he enjoyed being there ...

Since these two guys were clearly going to enjoy themselves, i thought i might as well join in ... although i was slightly disturbed by the third guy's presence ... but only slightly !

 

Takeaway

I was in my gym recently with the most reliable male steam room ... but it was near closing time and the gym was really quiet ...

The beautiful asian guy that i'd hooked up with a couple of times previously was just finishing getting dressed ... and i joked with him that it was disappointing that there nobody around !

He told me to go upstairs ... where there are only lockers and a hairdryer !

We had some quick fun there ... he really is a sweet guy

 

Twice

Sometimes it's a bit unclear whether you're meeting for sex ... or for a date ... or pretending it's a date when you both really know it's just sex ...

This guy was a little bit like that ... probably something between pretending it's a date and not bothering to pretend ... since we agreed to meet at my nearest train station and come back to my place ...

He looked quite different to his photos ... but he was still good looking ... if a bit more camp than i usually go for ...

When we got to my bedroom he was a bit awkward - he kept getting his hands in the way, and kept trying to get hold of my bits in a not very comfortable way !

But we had a reasonably good time - which included him cumming twice, and me coming once ... possibly the first time that i've ever been out cummed !!

He was clearly looking for a relationship, and he seemed rather sad that he wasn't already in one ...

But i'm afraid that i wasn't the guy for him.


Postcript - i saw him a couple of months later with a slightly older version of me ... that was freaky !

Another time

It's always good to see a guy your recognise from previous steam room fun in the changing room ... it gives me hope that today we will have more fun ...

It's particularly good when the guy happens to be a beautiful asian guy from a previous enounter ...

And so it came to pass that we emptied our balls together again !

 

Wet

Considering how I used to avoid going to the gym because I couldn't bear the thought of having to be naked in public ... it's slightly strange just how much i enjoy using the open showers in one of my local gyms ...

There's something great about playing with a guy with all that space ... and maybe the risk of getting caught adds to the excitement ...

On this occasion i shot my load all over the other guy ... which he seemed to enjoy ... as it produced a lovely smile on his face !

 

Older

I've written before about how steam rooms can allow you to use your imagination into thinking that the guy you're engaging with is better looking / younger than he actually is ...

The steam room i was in recently wasn't that steamy ... so it didn't allow me to fool myself that this guy was younger than he was ...

But he seemed really keen ... and he looked ok ... and he made me cum !

  

Penetration

After a few recent highly enjoyable sessions with a local guy ... including one outside ...I was keen to get inside this lovely guy !

So many of my encounters don't include penetration ... but sometimes it's fun - even though it requires extra preparation ...

Before coming over, i got him to tell me on Grindr more of what turns him on ... and he mentioned that being held tightly during sex was one thing ...

So I made sure that whilst i was inside him, i also held him ... and he moaned with delight as that happened - not sure which he enjoyed more !

It was a good session ... but as always he headed off pretty quickly afterwards ...

 

Outside

After a couple of very enjoyable sessions with a local guy who enjoys being properly subby ...

I persuaded him that he should suck me off in our local park !

We were both online as it was approaching dusk ... so we agreed to meet at the park entrance at just the right time for the park to still be open, but to be discreet enough ...

Despite it being pretty cold, he was up for it ...

And from the amount we both shot, we seemed to both enjoy it !

I've started so i'll ...

There's a famous lie from a tv quiz, when the buzzer goes for the end of the 60 seconds ... "i've started (the question) so i'll finish" ...

Sadly this doesn't always apply in the steam room ...

I was enjoying myself recently with a guy who didn't seem very engaged ...

And he just suddenly stopped ... wrapped his towel around him ... and left !

 

Yellow

A guy a few miles away was keen for me to visit him ... so i made the trip ... only for him to go silent !

He later claimed that he'd fallen asleep ... and he keeps asking me to return ... but i'm not making a special trip to see him again !

Whilst i was in the area without any dick to play with ... i got on the apps looking for fresh meat ...

Before too long i was chatting with a guy who wanted to meet up for some yellow action ...

Whilst I'm not particularly keen on piss, i'm quite comfortable with providing it for other guys if it gets them off ...

And after some preliminaries at his place ... i suggested moving to the bathroom - so that cleaning up afterwards would be less hassle ...

But he really wanted me to do it in the hallway - and had a towel down ready to collect it ...

So he lay down on the towel in his own hallway and i provided him with the contents of my bladder !

 

Shower

After final meeting a guy who had been in contact for a couple of years ... we messaged again recently ...

He said that he'd just finished work and needed a shower ... so i persuaded him to come to mine and have it with me ... since i love showering with a guy ...

He really does have a strange body shape ... slight man boobs ... which is unusual in a young guy ...

The encounter was reasonably fun, but nothing stand out !

 

No second coming

I recently had a late night hook up with a ridiculously tall guy ...

He was quite young, and a bit odd ... and he managed to forget his jacket when he left ...

I messaged him afterwards but he didn't reply ... so i guess he's not that worried about missing it ... or the screwdriver i noticed in the pocket !

The session itself was ok, if a bit drunken ...

But a few weeks later he messaged me again and was keen to come back ...

This time the session was even weirder ... and he didn't in fact cum ... but at least i did ... and at least he took his jacket !

He messaged me again a few days later, but i didn't reply ... i think i need a bit of a break from him !

 

Sub

After a recent enounter with a guy who turned out to be very subby ...

He was back again for more !

He seems to only be online in the mornings ... and he doesn't hang around afterward for long ...

But he is seriously good at sucking ... and he has a beautiful body and dick ... and it's fun watching a guy get so seriously turned on by being face fucked ...

So he can come again !

 

Waiting

There was a hot looking guy in the gym steam room recently ... but it wasn't clear if he was up for action ...

He kept looking around at other guys - which is usually a clear sign that a guy is interested ...

But then when other guys were touching themselves and readying for action - this hot guy wouldn't take part !

After a while a new arrival ended up beside him, with his dick out ... which turned out to be rather large ...

That was enough to get the reluctant hot guy to produce his own !

Not sure i've ever seen a guy in the steam who will only engage when he has a big dick to look at !!

 

Eager

Gym steam rooms encompass a range of guys ... from the painfully shy, to the outrageous guys who wank in front of straight guys and risk getting the place shut down !

On this occasion there was a shy black guy sitting on the same side as me ... and an eager young guy who clearly had no inhibitions ...

After a short time, the eager young guy came and sat between the other guy and myself - he clearly wanted to be at the centre of the action !

I've never seen quite such a proactive guy in the steam before !!

 

Outdoor

Back in the days when I was closeted ... the very occasional encounter that I had usually involved me being drunk, and some sort of outdoor fumbling ...

These days I much prefer a more relaxed indoor encounter ... but occasionally outdoor can be fun ...

I noticed a guy on Squirt posting about meeting up at a local park ... and his username was similar to a guy that i'd met a few times years ago ... so part of my reason for going was in the hope that it was the lovely little guy !

I arrived on my bicycle ... and worked out who the guy was fairly quickly ... sadly it wasn't the lovely guy from years ago ...

But this guy seemed ok, and keen to suck me ... and was even pretty good at it ...

He did smell a bit of nicotine, which wasn't ideal ... but still reasonably enjoyable !

 

Beautiful

I had a really good steam room encounter at my most reliable gym recently ...

It was just me and a beautiful asian guy ... and he shot a nice big load ...

Occasionally a steam room encounter includes a bit of snogging ... but often you're too busy keeping an eye on the door for unwanted arrivals !

This experience didn't include any tongue ...

But as I was leaving, i couldn't help but give him a quick kiss on my way out - he was so cute !

I think he was a bit surprised !!

 

Probably Not Thrush - postscript

Looking back at old blog posts, I realised that I'd never given a final update of my "Probably not Thrush" series from April last year !

If you haven't already read them ... I "live" blogged about my predicament:

Day One
Day Two
Day Three
Day Four
Day Five
Day Five and a Half
Day Six
Day Nine
Day Thirteen

Some of you were kind enough to comment on my posts with suggestions - so I thought it was only fair to tell you what the outcome was ...

At the end of the series, the clap clinic doctors thought it was probably an allergic reaction to medications that I had taken ... and told me to go to my GP to get a referral to a local allergy clinic ...

I duly went to my GP, and after going into the details of what happened she submitted the referral ...

But the allergy clinic wrote back to say that there is no known incidence of either anti histamine or Ibuprofen causing an allergic reaction ... and they rejected my referral !

So I guess I'm left with the possibility that I reacted to a different washing soap powder ... which I think I might have done about 15 years ago.  I'm still not sure what to do if it happens again !

 

Too late ?

I can't quite remember whether this guy had mentioned in our pre-meet message exchanges just how much of a sub he was ...

But when i opened the door, he was already in sub-mode ... meekishly asking "am i too late" ?

I seemed to switch into dom mode very naturally !

He really wanted to suck ... and we had a fun little session

He lives nearby, so maybe there will be more to come ...

Mismatch

I found myself in my family home alone ... and i don't think i'd ever brought a guy back ... so was keen for a new experience !

There was an Israeli guy visiting the area, who was keen for some fun before he drove to his next destination ... so after meeting at a nearby petrol station ... i brought him back ...

He was seriously hot, and i had to repeatedly stop touching myself because he turned me on so much ...

The only downside was that i wasn't able to play with his ass, as he hadn't cleaned himself ... but he didn't seem embarassed when i had to go and wash my hand in the middle of proceedings !

Sometimes i find that when i'm really turned on, i don't manage to time my climax correctly ... and this was one of these occasions where my cumshot didn't fully reflect just how exciting the encounter was

 

Three

Another of my regular gyms has a mixed steam room ... but often there's no women around, and with a good view of the stairs leading up to it, you've time to extract yourself from any compromising situations ...

I was there recently with a guy that i'd engaged with before ... this time he seemed keen to have his ass played with ... and i managed to insert three digits !

After we exchanged acknowledgements on Grindr !!

  

Repeat steam

Sometimes you get to recognise the same guys in the steam room

There's one guy i saw again in my most reliable steam room these days ... cute young asian guy with an adorable smile ...

This time there was also a hot black guy there ...

I couldn't stay long, but enough time to shoot and go !

  

first time with a pilot ?

One of the hotels near where I live often accommodates airline crew staying over ... and I've had quite a few encounters over the years with cabin crew ...

After chatting online to this guy who was staying in the same hotel, i guessed that he worked for an airline ...

We arranged that i would enter his darkened room, and he would suck me off ... and it developed into quite a good little dom/sub session ...

Afterwards we were chatting and it turned out that he wasn't cabin crew, he actually worked as a pilot ... which i think might be the first time i'd hooked up with one.

Some guys collect countries ... maybe i should collect professions ... or just different airlines ?!

Squirt interruption

Squirt leads you to some weird an wonderful places ... including a hotel toilet which had recently become a particularly busy spot ...

A very cute looking guy had posted that he was going, and since i was passing by anyway, i thought i'd drop in and check him out ...

when i arrived he was there with another guy at the urinals, playing with each other ... and they seemed happy for me to join in ...

the cute guy wouldn't let me touch his dick ... which seemed odd ...

i did wonder if he might have been high - he was too rough playing with my equipment ...

sadly he didn't want to suck me ... and then suddenly somebody walked in and blatantly interrupted us !

i'm usually fairly careful ... but this cute guy had lowered my natural caution, and we were properly busted.  thankfully the straight guy just laughed.  and i quickly left.

 

Parking

When I'm in a new area, I often have a look in Squirt to see what interesting venues are nearby

I was recently in a rural area that listed a beauty spot parking lot as being a potential encounter zone ...

It turned out that there were two viewing sites ... with one of them really too busy with non-Squirters for action to take place

When I visited there was an older guy who was clearly up for some action - but there was no way that I was taking the risk in such a busy area

I drove off, and happened upon the second viewing site, which I'd never noticed before ... and it seems few others do, as it was deserted ... until the same older guy showed up ...

I wouldn't normally have let anything happen, but it had a been a while ... and i was horny ...

  

No Talking

a few years ago i wrote about steam room etiquette

one thing i didn't mention was talking ...

most guys who are up for fun don't do it before the start of play, so i guess i'd never really thought about it

but recently a guy was definitely up for it asked me "do you come here often" ... which apart from being a really cheesy line, also helped ot kill the mood.  maybe the mood would have been killed anyway, but this really was the proverbial nail in the coffin !

moral of the story - don't talk before cumming (in the steam)