higher sex drive

normally i'm the one in the relationship / association with the higher sex drive ... or maybe i'm usually more turned on by the other guy than he is by me ...

but it definitely gives power to the other guy - or at least it makes me feel like the other guy has the power !

one ex-boyfriend - who was a bit of a game player / head screwer anyway - used to really wind me up !!

i'm currently in the unusual position that a guy who i've written about many times - who i guess is a sort of fuck buddy - is more into me than i'm into him ... so every week or so, he sends me a message on Gaydar asking me to go to his place (which is only just around the corner) to have some fun.

sometimes he keeps asking and asking - almost begging - me to go over.

i really only go when i'm absolutely gagging for it.  it makes me feel weird - the strangeness of the role reversal, and the feeling that i'm using him ... but then i guess he's using me too !

very tight

having not met up with the guy who lives around the corner for over a year ... within a week, we met up for a second time ...

i'd been watching rugby in the afternoon, and was really in the mood to Top a guy ... and before we met up, he had agreed to it ... although he said that he hadn't been penetrated in ages, and that he was "very tight"

despite my best efforts to relax him - he just didn't enjoy it that much ... and whilst it was vaguely enjoyable for me ... it was a reminder that convincing a guy to do something doesn't always work out for the best !

like a regimental soldier

there's a guy who live a couple of streets away that i used to meet occasionally ... but last time we attempted to meet up - the arrangements went wrong, and he took it badly

a few times over the last couple of months - he has seen me online, and has suggested meeting up ... but either i wasn't horny enough, or i was still upset by his reaction.

a few days ago we were both horny and online at the same time ... and we agreed that i would call into his place on my way home ...

there was the usual irritation of him saying that we couldn't make much noise ... but i was so horny, that when we came to shoot ... mine went over his shoulder !

nothing like his photos

i wrote a while ago about a guy who blatantly used another person's photos ... and then deleted his profile straight afterwards (before i had a chance to chastise him) !

the other day i had a variation on this ... where his photos were so different/old, that he might as well have used somebody else's !

he contacted me initially on Squirt - where he said that he was 30 years old ... and his body pics looked really good.  when i asked for facepics he directed me to his gaydar profile - which said he was 33 years old ... and his facepics looked pretty good.

when i arrived at his flat, i reckon he was over 40 (grey beard didn't help) ... somewhat over weight, and really nothing like his pics ...

but just as last time ... i couldn't resist the opportunity (especially having made the effort of getting to his place) ... and i went ahead ... with a mediocre encounter.

i just realised, that i suspect i'm much more likely to say no if i'm hosting ...


  

coffee shop date with a posh guy ...

I meet all sorts of guys for fun and dates ... but rarely have I met a guy as posh as this one ...

I was going to meet him near his place ... and the fact that he chose to meet in a nice coffee shop was a good starting point ...

But when he opened his mouth, and I heard the plums ... I was a little surprised !

He was a nice guy, we had a really good chat ... and time flew by ... but I had to head off to an event ... which was a shame, as I suspect that he might have been up for some fun ...

I'm not sure that I would want to date this guy ... but I would definitely like to get him out of his clothes !

three of three ...

After a couple of sessions with this guy, i was beginning to really enjoy them ...

The only trouble was that he would arrive late at night, and not actually stay that long.

After this third session ... we were exchanging messages about a possible fourth ... when I put my foot down about not doing a late night wham bam ...

Will have to wait and see whether a fourth ever materialises !

two of three ...

So I met up again with the young guy that I mentioned recently ...

He really is very good at male encounters for a guy who it turns out has a girlfriend !

He's a nice bloke, and it was fun - if a bit too quick for my liking ...

one of three ...

I was online recently and started chatting to this fairly young guy - definitely legal, but younger than i usually go for ...

He ended up coming over, and we had a very enjoyable session.

Whilst he is clearly in the closet, he seems remarkably guilt free and good at kissing for a young guy !

3 years later ...

After a brief encounter a few years ago, I'd seen this guy on gaydar a few times, and had tried texting him when I was in his area a couple of times, but we'd never met up.

Late at night, we were both on line, and finally made contact ... and he agreed to come over to my place this time.

He hadn't lost his ability to suck in the 3 years since he last performed it on me ...

after a couple of years ...

this guy had been trying to contact on gaydar chat for a couple of years ... but he didn't really look very attractive to me, so i had never accepted his chat requests ...

recently though, i though maybe i should give it a go ...

it was late, but he agreed to come over for some quick fun ... he said that he wanted to swallow a load ...

when he arrived he turned out to be reasonable attractive ... and he soon got down to things ...

unfortunately he smoked, and his mouth tasted quite a bit of nicotine ... but it wasn't too bad !

after a while i duly delivered the requested load into his mouth ... which he ingested fully.

we had a bit of a chat afterwards - he seems a reasonably pleasant guy ... i'm still not sure that he's really my type though !

minty mouth ...

i had been chatting to this guy on gaydar and we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

in one of his pics on gaydar he had sunglasses, but when he arrived it turned out that he actually wore glasses for sight correction ! other than that, his pics were reasonably accurate ...

he seemed a bit nervous, and didn't talk very much ... and he was chewing gum (probably to hide the taste of smoke) ... but the gum had a strange effect when he started sucking me ... i got a strange tingling feel ...

it was a reasonably pleasurable session - the tingling feel was a new and bizarre experience !

getting head ...

i don't often meet guys just for a quick blow job ... but i was recently feeling horny, and this bloke on gaydar was looking for a guy to blow ...

his pics were good, so i decided to head over to his place and see what happened ...

in the flesh he wasn't quite as good looking as his pics, but not bad ... he was also a bit hot and sweaty, which i wasn't expecting !  after some pleasantries, we got down to it ... and he was quite good at his chosen profession ...

he wanted me to cum in his mouth, so after enjoying the build up ... i obliged !

after disposing of the evidence, we had a bit of a chat, before i headed off into the afternoon ...

i don't plan on making a habit of it, but it was reasonably enjoyable.

encounter with a fellow countryman ...

i've lived in london for a long time, but i don't think that i've ever had an encounter with a fellow countryman ... not that i've consciously avoided it, just that the opportunity hadn't come up ...

so i was recently online chatting to a guy who seemed keen to come over ... after checking that we had similar interests, we agreed to meet up ...

when he arrived he looked ok, but quite different to his pics - quite a bit heavier, and not so youthful !

he seemed a nice enough guy, and it was only when we were almost in my bedroom that we realised that we hailed from the same country ...

the sex was reasonable - he was very keen and eager, but he was a bit too hot and sweaty for my liking ! he wasn't very well endowed, which i don't mind at all, but he seemed a bit anxious at times ...

we had a bit of an accidental insertion - only marginally, momentarily ... but it reminds me that i haven't been to the clap clinic for well over a year ...

it all ended happily enough ... with a couple of decent sized loads ...

he didn't stay around for too long afterwards ... but we were both so hot, that cuddling wasn't really on the cards anyway !

a guy with old pics ...

i had chatted to a bloke on gaydar who seemed keen to have some fun ... his pics looked good, if a bit grainy ...

he came over to my place, and it was clear that his pics had been quite old - he was significantly older and heavier than his pics ...

we got down to having fun ... but it was not that great - it was somehow not very intimate (maybe neither of us fancied each other) ... and after climaxing, he didn't want to cuddle :-(

not an encounter that will be repeated !

coffee and ...

a couple of weeks ago, i arranged to meet a guy who lived locally for coffee ... he made it clear that nothing else was on offer !

so he came over to my place, after some difficulty finding it ... but he looked completely different to his photo on gaydar ... not just a bit older, but a lot older !

he was a nice enough guy, but a bit negative and he just seemed a bit old !

despite making clear that he was only coming over for coffee ... he then seemed more interested in other activities ... but he just wasn't doing it for me, so I declined his offer ...

encounter with an arab guy ...

i had chatted to this bloke on gaydar for a few days ... and we recently agreed to meet up ...

he came over to my place ... but seemed nervous ... and seemed to keen to get on with it ...

we moved to the bedroom, and we enjoyed ourselves ... he didn't seem to be hugely experienced, but we both climaxed ! afterwards he was out of bed, and cleaning up without delay ...

he stayed a while afterwards and we had a chat ... he seems like a nice guy ... but too deeply closeted to enjoy himself properly ...

gym steam room snob ...

i wrote a post a couple of years ago about an unattractive bloke who was inhibiting activities in the steam room ... but there is currently a problem with a bloke who hangs out a lot, but doesn't get involved ...

the amount of time he spends in the steam room would suggest that he is gay, and he does look at other blokes, but usually in condescending way ... and he never plays with himself, or partakes in the fun ...

which makes me wonder if he is a gay snob - only wanting to engage with the most attractive blokes !

but then the other day, a bloke left a track on my gaydar profile ... and when i looked at the pics, it was indeed the steam room snob !

so i reckon my theory is correct !!

a proper date in a gay bar ...

i'm not a regular in gay bars ... i like women, and i meet blokes online, so i don't really have a need for men only bars ...

but i was meeting a bloke from gaydar for a proper date recently, and he suggested having a drink in a bar in soho ...

it really did feel a bit strange, being surrounded exclusively by well groomed, slim men ! it wasn't unpleasant, and they seemed a reasonably friendly crowd, but just not what i'm used to ...

the date went reasonably well ... and while he isn't potential boyfriend material, he is very attractive ... but i doubt he's interested in a fuck buddy arrangement !

the anxious bloke ...

i was communicating with this bloke recently in Gaydar Chat, who was keen to meet up ... and since he seemed like a decent guy, we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

whilst he was in his late twenties, his eagerness felt more like that of a teenager ... his kissing was particularly inept and teethy - it really wasn't a pleasant experience !

in the bedroom things improved ... he was quite a skilled operator, but again, he was sometimes overeager, and i kept having to slow him down ...

we did enjoy ourselves, but the crowning moment came when he didn't even let me know that he was about to come ... not very considerate !

whilst the sex was reasonably enjoyable, i won't be looking for a repeat encounter ... especially since he complained about me being hot and sweaty after sex !!

phone sex ...

i used to partake in phone sex regularly ... especially just before going to bed ... and especially with a really nice guy that i got in contact through gaydar ...

however, i hadn't used it for ages, until last week ... when i was online, and was contacted by the same guy that i used to wank off with ...

we had a really good session - it seems to work really well for both of us ...

obviously it's nothing like the real thing, but for a late night wank, it really is great !