19 January 2018

too hot ... or too high ?

i was back in the notorious gym steam room that i've written about a couple of times before ...

as i entered the steam was so thick that i couldn't see who was there ... but i could hear one guy making slight groaning sounds ... so i headed for him ...

he turned out to be reasonably young and cute ... but when i got my hands on his goods ... he wasn't actually hard ...

despite our best efforts (note to self - if he has small nipples, he probably doesn't like nipple play) ... we couldn't get him off ...

he almost apologised saying "it's too hot" ... but i do wonder if he was actually high !

needless to say that wasn't a problem for me ...

 

17 January 2018

Strangers in Between play

I saw the australian film Holding the Man a couple of years ago, and really liked it ... and recently went to see the australian play Strangers in Between without realising that it was also written by Tommy Murphy

after playing last year in the Kings Head theatre - where i went to see 5 Guys Chillin with GB - Strangers in Between has now transferred to a tiny theatre at the Trafalgar Studios ... the theatre is so small that you're almost staring at the audience members on the other side (if your seat is on one of the sides of the U-shaped space) ... which isn't necesarrily a bad thing !

and you're so close to the actors that you can see the spray as they spit out some of their more forecful lines ... which again, i quite liked.

the play is an unusual set-up of two 45 minute halves, with a 15 minute interval.  i usually prefer a short play to run straight through, to avoid losing the intensity ... but i think the arrangement works well for this play ... and the second half is just as intense as the first - which is quite intense.

it's a really interesting play - and definitely makes you think - especially for people who live comfortable lives in big cities, with plenty of friends.  it's good to be dragged back occasionally and realise how much we have to be thankful for - and how others aren't so lucky.

there is a brief nude scene at the end, which seemed a bit gratutious - almost like it's there to attract the older male audience?!

it's on for a couple more weeks - definitely worth checking out if you're in London.



15 January 2018

side by side ... not by Sondheim

i had chatted to this guy about 9 months ago, but we hadn't met up ...

so when he contacted me again ... i was a bit dubious as to whether anything would happen ...

and when he said that he had a (female) friend over for drinks, i was really dubious ... and came close to blocking him ...

but he did actually turn up ... and he had a seriously beautiful body !

we didn't have a lot of time ... and before too long we were both standing up ... side by side ... getting ready to shoot ...

i came first ... and it was so long since i had been in that position - i was actually surprised / impressed by the distance that i shot ... obviously assisted by the seriously hot guy that was in my other arm !

his first shot was a decent length ... but after that it was more a dribble than the gush ... but still enjoyable.

 

13 January 2018

anything you can do ... i can do better

the steam room was crazy busy the other day ... but even when all half dozen guys were clearly gay ... no action happened ... some of the guys were too shy / considered themselves too good ...

one guy gave up quite quickly ... and hung around the changing room ...

another guy left after a while and showered ... and eventually i realised that the two of them had headed to the toilets ...

such a shame that i didn't get to enjoy either of them ... or witness the encounter !

but before leaving the gym i got a Grindr message from a guy who was keen to meet up ...

but since he couldn't host, we ended up going to his gym / clubhouse ... and into the disabled toilet !

it wasn't the best encounter ever - he was a bit too full of himself / overweight / rough with my dick - i didn't shoot as much as i had expected ...

but there's something exciting about hooking up somewhere that's a bit risky ... but not too risky !  and it was quite nice to have a quick look around the clubhouse !

 

11 January 2018

steamy older couple

i was in the steam room again the other day ... and there was a guy lying down ... with his legs open ... clearly looking for some action ...

he was a bit older, but in reasonable shape ... and if there hadn't been cock blockers around, we might have got it on ...

by the time the cock blockers had left ... another older guy had arrived ... and he was in less good shape ...

but the two older guys started getting it on ... but didn't actually kiss ...

they left me alone over the other side of the steam room ...

after a while the newly arrived guy took a drink from his bottle ... and handed the bottle to the other guy ...

which made me assume that they were probably a couple / knew each other ...

which somehow made the encounter less exciting.

 

09 January 2018

making my excuses ...

a guy was in the steam room that i've seen before ... "wearing" a tiny towel ... and looking around as if he was interested ...

the only other guy wasn't the best looking ever ... and wasn't obviously up for it ... apart from his semi hard member that i could see from my vantage point !

eventually the tiny towel guy left ... and the somewhat unattractive guy and i started getting it on ...

soon i was shooting my load on his chest ...

but he seemed to be making heavy going of shooting his own load ... despite my assistance ... including in attending his nipples which made him moan with pleasure ...

eventually the tiny towel guy opened the steam room door to re-enter ...

so i used the opportunity to make my excuses and head for a shower !

 

06 January 2018

short and creamy

i was in the gym steam room the other day ... with it being January there's lots of new people ... a whole bunch of guys that need to be assessed for:

1) straight, not interested
2) straight, but like to show off / like attention
3) gay, but don't know how the steam room works / shy
4) gay, but closeted / partnered / not interested
5) AN other

so whilst there were some promising looking opportunities ... no really great options presented themseles !

eventually it was just me and a slightly older guy ... with a little dick !

but i was horny ... so was he ... and with some fun foot play ... we both got off ...

he didn't shoot much of a load ... but it had a beautiful white creamy texture

 

04 January 2018

short and not sweet

this guy contacted me on Grindr ... and seemed keen to come over ...

he didn't put anything on his profile about being high ... and it's not something i usually ask - since most guys do put it on their profile ...

initially it wasn't obvious ... so i escorted him from the front door of my apartment block up to my flat ...

soon it became clear he was off his face ...

he probably only stayed about five minutes ... and then he said he had to leave ...

he thanked me for a lovely evening !

 

02 January 2018

another session with the efficient guy

i wrote recently about hooking up in the steam room with a guy who didn't waste any time ...

i was back in the same steam room recently ... and after a few comings and goings ... it was just the two of us ...

i went over to him and stood over him ... with my lad in my hand ...

and it must have taken barely more than a minute ... before he was apologising that he was about to cum ...

i prefer a guy to cum too quickly (in the steam) ... rather than be too slow, and miss out due to straight guys arriving ...

i shot my load pretty soon after he did.  so all was well !

 

31 December 2017

saying no ... again

sometimes my straight friends think that gay life is all instant hookups, without any work involved ... and whilst i admit that i'm sure men picking up women have to do more work ... i think heteros underestimate the amount of time it takes to find a suitable guy on the apps !

i wonder if my blog give the same, false impression ?

not only is there the amount of time trying to meet a guy ... but sometimes you meet a guy, and the encounter just goes wrong ... or sometimes they just aren't what you thought they were !

i recently agreed to meet up with a guy who was staying in a hotel right by my gym ...

as soon as he opened his bedroom door (in his underwear), i realised that it wasn't going to work ...

he was quite different to his photos.  he wasn't bad looking, but just not what i was expecting.  probably not my type - but if he had used more representative photos, it might have managed my expectations !

i stood by the door as he chatted away.  he seemed a bit shocked when i said that i wasn't going to stay.

sometimes it just doens't work, and you have to say no.

 

16 December 2017

California bound

i hooked up with this guy about six months ago ... and we've kept in touch on Grindr ...

a couple of times previously he's suggested coming over, if i would pay for his taxi home (when the tube trains had finished for the night) ... but that felt a bit too much like paying for sex ... so i always declined

recently though he contacted me again, and didn't mention about paying for his taxi ... so i agreed for him to come over ...

it turns out that he's currently working in the gym chain that i use ... it was quite fun having somebody in their red uniform in my bedroom !

after a quick shower (he'd just finished work) ... we both got naked ...

it was fun ... not quite a relaxed as i would have liked, but still fun ...

we chatted a bit afterwards ... and he seems a bit less cocky that last time !

 

14 December 2017

Assisted JO

i was recently in the notorious gym steam room that i've written about before ...

the steam was so thick that i couldn't see what was going on over the far side ... but i could hear the sounds ... which was quite horny !

the guy beside seemed shy ... but interested ... and didn't want to get his dick out ... but after i showed some interest ... he started playing with mine ... and i got to play with him through his towel ...

he was a bit rough with my dick, so i didn't let him keep hold of it for long ... but he seemed keen to play with my balls whilst i pleasured myself ...

and before long i exploded.  sadly he didn't seem interested in doing the same.

 

12 December 2017

the persistent guy

in one of my regular gyms, there's a guy who is a bit strange ...

he spends huge amounts of time in the steam ... often going back in even after he's already shot his load ...

and he doesn't seem to like to get his own cum on himself, so he puts a little towel on his chest when he's about to shoot ...

i really don't find his behaviour attractive ... and i try to avoid him ... but ...

the other day steam room pickings were slim, and i was about to leave without action ... but he was sitting by the steam room door ...

and as i paused at the door before leaving ... he reached for me ...

and i couldn't help myself ... and before long i exploded !

i really shouldn't waste a good cumshot on a guy i don't enjoy.

 

02 December 2017

Silent Cumming

i wouldn't describe myself as a "screamer" but i do enjoy expressing myself during sexual contact, and that includes vocally !  and i also enjoy a guy to make a bit of noise ... including letting me know when he's about to shoot ...

but the other day i was back the in the notorious cruisy gym ... and one thing led to another in the very steamy steam room ...

but the trouble was that there was a straight guy over the other side ... or at least a guy who wasn't interested in man on man action ...

so i couldn't make any noise ...

so the first thing the guy beside me (who i'd already been playing with) knew about my ejaculation ... was when he noticed white stuff on his leg !

he didn't seem to mind !!

 

01 December 2017

Relaxing trip to the clap clinic

most of my previous trips to my local STD clinic have been worrying times ... either due symptoms i have experienced or, during my annual checkup, the concern that something will be found, despite my careful approach to encounters !

the other day i went for my second dose of HPV vaccine ... so i didn't have anything to worry about ... although the injection did turn out to be a little uncomfortable

when i was at the clinic a few months ago, there was a female patient who was FaceTiming her baby from the waiting room ... which seemed odd !

this time, nothing so strange ... just a few nervous looking people ...