17 June 2017

heavy breathing

one of the characters in the play that i went to see recently, was the type of guy who breathes heavily / exaggeratedly when he's high ...

i think i encountered another in the steam room the other day !

i arrived quite late - not long before closing time ... so wasn't expecting to see any action ...

there was just one other guy there ... and before long it was clear he was horny ...

it wasn't me who came first - for a change !

possibly because he wasn't the most attractive of guys ever !!

but unlike others ... he was really decent ... and stayed to help me get off.


14 June 2017

Too Slow or Too Shy

i was in one of my local gyms the other day ... i had spotted a beautiful looking young guy enter the locker room from the gym, just as i was entering the steam room ...

before long, he appeared in the steam room ... but sat in the corner ... with his hand away from his crotch ... so i wasn't optimistic about potential.

after a while, it was just the two of us ... and i noticed that his hands moved to his crotch ... but he was still in the far corner ... so i still wasn't very optimistic.

a short time later he moved to get close to the steam machine (which was also closer to me) ... and he adjusted his crotch ... so i started to get a bit more interested.

next thing, he undid his towel, and rearranged it ... exposing his dick (not hard) ... which would be unusual for a guy who isn't interested.

after that he sat down not far from me ... and adjusted himself again !

i reckoned that was my cue ... so got up ... stood near to him ... and exposed myself ...

he quickly grabbed my hard dick ... and he opened his legs, and exposed his own hard dick !

as i lent down to play with his dick ... we kissed ... but he tasted a bit of garlic (lots of french people live in this part of town) ... so i didn't try it again !

he also seemed to enjoy sucking my dick.

shortly afterward we got interrupted.

once again, another example of the importance of not wasting time !

11 June 2017

Pump and Pause

as i arrived into the locker room of my local gym, i spotted a guy walking around in a towel, and clearly on the lookout !

before long i was in the steam room ... and shortly afterwards he arrived ...

we were the only ones there ... and it didn't take long for things to kick off ...

he was one of these guys who pumps their dick vigorously for a few seconds ... and then pauses for a few seconds ... and then starts pumping again !

he was sitting on the edge of the bench ... so his ass was accessible ... and he seemed to enjoy me manipulating it.  i did think - if we got interrupted - how could i extricated my finger from his ass and act all innocent !

i couldn't work out whether he actually wanted to shoot (he was possibly high) ... but i wasn't going to let that stop be ... and before long i was coming on his chest ...

as i sat down, exhausted from my exertions in the heat ... i thought maybe he had shot his  load as well ...

later on in the locker room, it was so quiet that i was able to ask him ... and he hadn't.

i guess that's another guy that i owe ! 


08 June 2017

wrap your hand around it

i was chatting to this guy on Grindr the other day, and he seemed keen to come over for some fun ...

his pics looked good ... but he kept asking for my exact address - but i don't give out my apartment number, as i always go down to the front door of the block, and check that they aren't crazy / completely off their face !

i was getting close to shutting him down, but he calmed down, and before long (and after tidying up my flat a bit) he arrived over.

quite a bit better looking than his pics - and without a beard - always good for me !

we got down to business straight away (it turned out that he was late to meet friends) ... and he was the sort of guy who clearly likes to enjoy these encounters ... which was great.

i was slightly worried that he might be a bare backer ... but i managed to stop things slipping in where they shouldn't !

i shot first ... and instead of him manipulating himself ... he said "wrap your hand around it" - pointing to his dick.  it wasn't the thickest of members, so it was quite easy to do that ... and before long he produced a lovely thick white output - although it didn't travel as far as mine !

05 June 2017

choking the chicken

the american sex advice columnist Dan Savage has talked about the need to stop guys only being able to jerk off with a death grip on their dicks ... but i don't think i had ever really experienced it until the other day at the gym ...

i think we should have hooked up in the steam room ... but he was probably too shy to do anything in front of another person ... which was a shame, as he was quite cute ...

but we ended up in shower cubicles opposite each other - how did that happen ?!

and he opened the door of his shower, so i could see him jerking ...

it was a reasonably pleasant sight ... and we both produced eruptions ... but man, did he have a death grip on his dick ... it looked painful !

02 June 2017

there were five in the steam room

one of my local gyms gets quite busy at lunchtime ... but usually there's a straight guy around to spoil the party ... so normally nothing happens ... or sometimes the way people end up spread around the steam room means nothing happens ...

the other day, after some comings and goings ... it ended up with five of us in the steam room ...

on my right - cute guy, terribly shy, somehow i chat to him on Squirt encouraging him
on my left - slightly camp, obviously up for it
further left - another shy guy i've seen before, definitely into guys
far side - too steamy to see, but adjusting himself, so looking positive

i've never seen a guy sitting in the far corner with enough balls to get things moving like this guy did ... so despite him not being my type (and i was quite happy that he was over the far side), i was impressed !

as quite often happens, i was the first guy to shoot ... followed soon after by the guy on my left ... and i think both the guy on the far side and the guy further to my left shot their loads as well ... although the steam was so thick it was hard to tell.

later that afternoon i was chatting on Squirt to the guy on my right, who sadly never ejaculated ... but he said he really enjoyed it.  

31 May 2017

5 Guys Chillin'

i saw a special offer on this gay play, and contacted GB to see if he was up for some gay drama ... and with his bf out that night with friends, he agreed !

the Kings Head theatre is at the back of a pub in Islington - it's a very small theatre, so you get very close to the actors/action!  they shouted "doors open" just before the official start time - and this production is one where the actors are already on "stage" as you walk in.

i quite like this device, although i've seen it done better before - where the actors performed the role of ushers, and then converted to actors (think it was "Shopping and Fucking").

just before the start, i asked GB about his general opinion of drugs - and he gave the common view amongst my friends - that they should be decriminalised ... and taxed !

whilst i hold similar liberal views in theory - i've written before about how i'm not really not a fan guys on drugs ... which has been formed after plenty of less than great experiences.

the play consists of a single scene with a group of five guys getting naked, taking drugs, and chatting about sex and drugs.  apparently the play is written from "50 hours of interviews with guys from Grindr and other social media".

for somebody like me who isn't involved in the "chem scene" it was interesting to hear what those people had to say.  it also helped that a couple of the actors were seriously hot. 

this run of the play finishes on 3rd june - so you've got a few days left to see it.


i went in with a negative view of the impact of drugs ... and i came out with same opinion.

i didn't get the chance to ask GB whether his views evolved ... maybe he can answer here ! 

29 May 2017

he who hesitates is lost

i've complained before about guys in the steam room who wait too long to make it clear that they're up for fun ... and once they finally do, before reaching a climax, a straight guy comes in and stops the party !

i had another variant on this problem the other day ...

i started getting it on with a nice guy in the steam room ... this was after some time toing and froing, when there kept being a straight guy blocking any action ...

i was keen to move things on, to ensure ejaculation occurred before another straight walked in ... but the guy said "not yet" ... 

it's the first time i've ever heard a guy deliberately slow things down in a steam room !

and sure enough, a minute later, a cock blocker walked in ... and it was game over.

what a waste.

the moral of the story is to seize the moment ! 

27 May 2017

The Matchmaker

i was in one of my local gym steam rooms the other day ... beside me was a hot guy ... and over the far side was a less fit guy ...

after another bloke left, the hot guy and i started eyeing each other up ... and preparing for action ...

the steam was so thick that it wasn't clear if the guy over the far side was up for action ...

so the hot guy beside me walked over towards him, letting his towel drop, to expose his tumescence!

the far guy came over to side beside me, and the three of us started getting it on.  there's something incredibly hot about being in the middle with two guys touching you !

sadly the really hot guy left (possibly needing a break from the steam) ... but the less fit guy and i couldn't wait for him to come back ... and we finished ourselves off pretty quickly.

 

25 May 2017

breaking my rules

they say that rules are there to be broken ... but maybe not quite like i did the other day ...

i've written before about how i'm not a fan of high guys ... and i've also written before about how i'm not a fan of guys messing around in the gym showers - it draws too much attention and risks stopping all the fun ...

call me a hypocrite ... but the other day the gym locker room wasn't very busy ... and a hot guy walked out of the steam room and headed to the shower cubicle at the end ...

a few minutes later i followed him out, and took up position in the shower cubicle opposite ...

his door was open ... and as soon as he saw i was interested ... he got down on his knees in his cubicle ... and motioned me to come over so he could suck me ...

i was very reluctant ... but once i'd showered, i went out into the corridor to dry off ... and since there was nobody around ... it seemed ok to stand close enough for him to get a mouthful ...

i was really turned on by this beautiful guy, pulling on his own (beautiful) dick, whilst sucking mine ... and soon i was shooting my load on him.

i mustn't do that again. 

23 May 2017

just sucking

shortly after writing a post about what a sexually frustrutating day it had been ... i was thinking of heading to bed ... when a guy contacted me on Grindr ...

he wasn't too far away ... and wanted to suck ... but warned me that he'd cum a few hours beforehand, so wouldn't be producing his own output.  i did warn him that i would likely be issuing a large load ... but he was up for it !

he turned out to be better looking than his pics - a sweet face, a great body, and an awesome ass that i followed up the stairs to his top floor flat.

once inside his studio flat, we soon got down to business - him completely naked, as i'd asked for ... and me not far behind.  he was a reasonably good sucker - he won't be winning any prizes (not quite enough suction), but i would let him do it again !

what was really hot, was that as he got into it, he started getting hard himself ... and he started sweating slightly - not enough to drip, but enough that i could feel it all over his body.  there's something really great about a guy who is so turned on that he's overheating !

before too long he was manipulating me to explosion (it's not often that i'm turned on enough that another guy can wank me off) ... and it was a bit of a flood (not surprising after a day of so many nearly encounters) ... and he managed to shoot a little too !

afterwards we had a bit of a chat whilst cleaning up / getting dressed ... and he seems like a nice guy ... but like many Americans - a bit stand offish / not completely comfortable in his sexuality or sensuality ... or maybe that's just the way it looks to me ...


21 May 2017

i hate it when a plan doesn't come together

most of my blog posts are about when a plan does come together (so to speak) ... since it would be pretty dull if i wrote about all the times when i try to hook up with a guy, and it doesn't work out !

but i thought it was worth mentioning today's litany of failure ... to give a smidgen of balance ...

it started off just before lunch in one of my usual gyms - i'd already worked out a lot this week, so just went to shower before meeting friends nearby for lunch.  obviously i had to spend some time in the steam room just to have a look ...

and before long a stunning guy walked in ... he made eye contact ... and before too long i was making contact with his beautiful chest, and even more gorgeous uncut dick.  the trouble was that he was really nervous about getting caught (and possibly guilty about hooking up / already attached) or possibly just not that into me !  anyway, he admitted defeat and used the "it's too hot" excuse - which to be fair, it was a bit.

in the early evening i had an hour to kill before the movie i was going to see, so i decided to check out another of my regular gyms ...

the trouble here was that the steam room was packed out !  most of the guys were probably  gay ... but the usual problem of one guy not being up for it ... or possibly just one guy not fancying the guys beside him ... and nothing happened in the steam room.

out in the showers, one of them had a towel covering the clear glass section - so it was almost certain something was going on.  i could see that the guy in next shower cublicle was down on the floor - i presumed he was getting involved.  but then one (beautiful) guy emerged from the towel covered cubicle ... following not too long afterwards by another (less beautiful) guy !

all this action, but none of it happening with me !  not my finest hours !!

19 May 2017

enough already !

i wrote recently about trying to stop myself messing around with a guy who is physically attractive, but is a jerk ...

just to report that i failed !

as i feared would happen ... we were both in the steam room ... and one thing led to another ... and next thing i'm standing over him ... he shot a little load ... and then i started cumming on his chest ...

the trouble was that it had been a few days since i last shot ... and so it just kept coming !

you could see he was getting nervous that somebody would walk in ... but what could i do !!


anyway, it doesn't seem to have put him off ... he seemed quite up for it again in the steam room the next day - but it was too busy for anything to happen.

 

17 May 2017

is it bad ...

i've written before about feeling uncomfortable messing around with a bloke who had a nice dick ... but the rest of him wasn't attractive ...

my latest dilemma is a bloke who is perfectly attractive ... but who is a pain in the neck !

he's a regular at my gym, and often works from the lounge area - so i hear his phone conversations ... and sometimes he even brings a work colleague into the lounge - so i hear them interact.

he's has unpleasant old fashioned sales techniques ... and is just a cliche ridden jerk !

the trouble is, when he's in the steam room, and i'm feeling horny ... how do i stop myself ?! 

15 May 2017

fully naked in the steam

there's something attractive about guys who are confident enough to walk around the gym fully naked ... especially when they know that there are plenty of gay guys at the gym !

of course some of the exhibitionists are gay themselves ... and the other day in the steam room it was incredibly quiet, and i was almost giving up hope of any action ... but a naked guy walked in ...

he wasn't that attractive ... but in the steam you can use your imagination ... and i suspect we might have exchanged fluids before ...

it played out the same way as last time ... i adjusted myself (beneath my towel) - to demostrated potential, without freaking him out, in case he turned out to be straight ...

before long his dick was elongating ... and rapidly standing to attention ...

i walked over to him ... started manipulating his member ... and before long he shot his load ...

and not long after that i followed suit.

brief, but enjoyable.