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the other day at the gym i was enjoying watching a hot guy going through his routine - he's a regular and we'd had plenty of eye contact in the past, so i was fairly sure he was gay !

this time he was making loads of eye contact, so i assumed that he was up for some action ... and as we finished around the same time ... i found myself in the shower stall opposite him !

since he was a hot guy, it wasn't long before i was showing my appreciation ... but he wasn't responding ...

afterwards he seemed a bit shocked ... which made me wonder whether he was actually after more than just a bit of fun in the showers ...

another complication to consider when eyeing up blokes in the gym !

public displays of affection ...

i've never had a problem with PDAs - either straight couple of gay guys ... maybe it is the voyeur in me coming out !

but the other day i was in a busy tube carriage and a lesbian couple were getting it on beside me ... hugging each other, and nuzzling each other's necks ... and a bit of light kissing ...

whilst i'd happily watch straight couples/porn, lesbians have (unsurprisingly) never done it for me ... and i even found it slightly uncomfortable having the women beside me getting off ...

it gave me a new found appreciation for all those people who find every form of PDA uncomfortable !

watching porn during sex ...

i started using grindr a few weeks ago - a straight friend told me about Stephen Fry mentioning it on Top Gear ... so i thought i should check it out ...

the main advantage is that it shows how close other users are, and it has a really simple profile, so less distractions that most websites. i had chatted to a few guys, and i contacted a nice looking guy who was nearby ... and after checking that we seemed compatible, we agreed to meet up the next day ...

when he arrived over he looked a bit different to his profile pic (or maybe he just looked different to what i had expected) - but he was a really good looking guy. he seemed a bit shy, but as soon as we got into the bedroom, it became clear he knew what to do !

he wanted to watch porn whilst having sex ... which seems like a good idea if you're a couple that have been together for years, and want to mix things up ... but seems a bit odd for a first encounter ...

anyway, it was a really good session ... and we both seemed to enjoy it ! afterwards he didn't hang around for long, so i missed out a bit on the post-coital cuddling ...

more Hep B vaccine jabs ...

when i recently went to my local Sexual Health Clinic, i agreed to get vaccinated against Hep B ... but i didn't realise that i would need an extra 2 jabs to finish off the vaccination ...

however the injections weren't bad, so it wasn't such an ordeal ! although on both my follow up visits the reception staff were again unpleasant ... but on my final trip, the doctor giving my the jab was asking me about my experience of the clinic - so i got to tell her about her miserable and surly colleagues !

the good news is that my well protected sex life has paid off - and i don't have any sexually transmitted diseases ...