gym steam room snob ...

i wrote a post a couple of years ago about an unattractive bloke who was inhibiting activities in the steam room ... but there is currently a problem with a bloke who hangs out a lot, but doesn't get involved ...

the amount of time he spends in the steam room would suggest that he is gay, and he does look at other blokes, but usually in condescending way ... and he never plays with himself, or partakes in the fun ...

which makes me wonder if he is a gay snob - only wanting to engage with the most attractive blokes !

but then the other day, a bloke left a track on my gaydar profile ... and when i looked at the pics, it was indeed the steam room snob !

so i reckon my theory is correct !!

a proper date in a gay bar ...

i'm not a regular in gay bars ... i like women, and i meet blokes online, so i don't really have a need for men only bars ...

but i was meeting a bloke from gaydar for a proper date recently, and he suggested having a drink in a bar in soho ...

it really did feel a bit strange, being surrounded exclusively by well groomed, slim men ! it wasn't unpleasant, and they seemed a reasonably friendly crowd, but just not what i'm used to ...

the date went reasonably well ... and while he isn't potential boyfriend material, he is very attractive ... but i doubt he's interested in a fuck buddy arrangement !

the anxious bloke ...

i was communicating with this bloke recently in Gaydar Chat, who was keen to meet up ... and since he seemed like a decent guy, we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

whilst he was in his late twenties, his eagerness felt more like that of a teenager ... his kissing was particularly inept and teethy - it really wasn't a pleasant experience !

in the bedroom things improved ... he was quite a skilled operator, but again, he was sometimes overeager, and i kept having to slow him down ...

we did enjoy ourselves, but the crowning moment came when he didn't even let me know that he was about to come ... not very considerate !

whilst the sex was reasonably enjoyable, i won't be looking for a repeat encounter ... especially since he complained about me being hot and sweaty after sex !!

phone sex ...

i used to partake in phone sex regularly ... especially just before going to bed ... and especially with a really nice guy that i got in contact through gaydar ...

however, i hadn't used it for ages, until last week ... when i was online, and was contacted by the same guy that i used to wank off with ...

we had a really good session - it seems to work really well for both of us ...

obviously it's nothing like the real thing, but for a late night wank, it really is great !