ever decreasing pleasure ...

i recently met up with a guy that i'd met back in february ... we had tried to meet up a few times in between, but never managed to hook up.

this time i went over to his place - a bit of a trek, but i didn't have anything else on !

it turned out that it wasn't actually his place ... and that he wanted the encounter to take place in the sitting room. something really pisses me off about these sort of situations - not sure if it is the suggestion that we are doing something bad, or if it makes me feel like a schoolkid (in a bad way), but it was a real mood killer for me !

i went through the motions, but it really wasn't very pleasurable, and just like last time it was over very quickly.

fun on the side ...

i was recently chatting to this guy who wanted some light fun ... he kept emphasising that he didn't want anything heavy ...

he looked nice, and i'm always up for some light fun ... so we agreed that he would come over ...

when he arrived he turned out to be every bit a lovely as his pics ... but he was barely in the door when he mentioned his bf! i try not to waste my time with partnered guys - i prefer to spend time with guys who might possibly turn out to have longer term prospects (as well as feeling that i wouldn't want it done to me) ... but this guy was so attractive (and smooth), that i probably would have agreed to it even if i had known beforehand !

after a very enjoyable time, we had a quick chat before he headed off into the night ...