Over and out ...

After previously enjoyable dates / sessions with the cute (but flaky) guy ... I had two dates with him where we didn't have sex ... he was stressed out over some exams ... but it still wasn't a good sign ...

I asked him afterwards over text message if it was over ... and he denied it ... but we clearly were !


Lessons learned:

1) if they start off being flaky (even if they get better for a while), they will probably revert to type
2) you need more than just good sex to establish a relationship
3) people who act like twenty-somethings are probably too young !

4th time with a guy ...

After three previous dates ... we went to the cinema (we were the only guys in a cinema full of women) which was good fun ... and back to my place ...

Only one climax this time ... this seems to be going in the wrong direction !

No further damage !!

3rd / 8th time with a guy ...

After a couple of enjoyable dates / sessions previously ... we met up again ...

This time we only had two sexual climaxes ... but still very enjoyable.

No further damage to my apartment !