14 March 2007

does gay sex encourage selfishness ...

a friend was recently complaining about one of her gay friends being particularly selfish ... and it made me wonder ... are gay guys on average more selfish that straight guys ?

and that made me wonder whether the act of having sex with the same gender leads to a more selfish attitude compared to having sex with the opposite gender ... that perhaps with gay sex you don't have to be quite as empathetic to have a good time - a guy knows what works for him, and doesn't always have to think about what the other person wants ?

i know that there are many gay guys who are not selfish, and plenty that are just as generous having gay sex than those having straight sex ... but this is averages i'm talking about ...

maybe it's bullshit ... but maybe not ...

6 comments:

Gay banker said...

I've definitely met a selfish guy or two in my wanderings. But I don't reckon that the average gay guy is any more selfish in bed that any other person, male or female. How many straight guys just do the business with their wife or girlfriend at night, and fall soundly asleep as soon as they're finished without any regard for their partner? Judging from what I've been told by some women I know, there are quite a few guys out there like that!

GB xxx

close encounters said...

i thought that you didn't have any female friends ?!

Monty said...

GB - just read the link...yuk! I don't know how you persisted...I'd have told him off!

Not so Single Guy said...

Interesting...I sometimes feel like I have a pretty selfish life when you compare it to my older brother who has kids, etc. But I think there are a lot of giving gay guys out there...like anything!

carioca said...

Perhaps we are more selfish ´heteros`. But they surely have a vain mentality much more than us.

Gay banker said...

True close encounteres, I don't really have any female friends. But I can recall a conversation with a female acquaintance quite a few years ago, and also other conversations between several people including a few women.

GB xxx