a 2nd time with the rimmer ...

i'd been in contact with the amazing rimmer a few times, but hadn't met up ... but we did eventually manage it the other day ...

this time i went over to his place - a nice enough flat ...

it was good - he really is an awesome rimmer ... but he wanted to try stuff that i didn't really enjoy ... so i don't think that i'll be seeing him again ...

have you had got a stomach bug from rimming ?

a few days ago, i was logged onto gaydar, and a guy who had been a bit rude to me a few weeks before, contacted me - i sometimes wonder whether gay blokes have worse memories than average !

anyway, he seemed a bit more pleasant this time, and was keen to meet up ... and we were up for similar activities, so i agreed ...

he was a bit older than he looked in his pics, but not too much ... and i thought he might be fun, so we headed back to my place ... the 5 minute walk was a bit painful, as he didn't have much conversation ...

when we got indoors he started pulling his clothes off straight away ... but it was definitely worth taking the chance ... he was the first bloke that i've met who seriously enjoyed rimming his partner ! i almost felt guilty getting so much pleasure, so obviously had to return the favour ...

strangely, when walking with him afterwards for a few minutes [we were both going in the same direction - i wasn't seeing him home!], he was incredibly chatty - such a difference from beforehand ...

but, to get to the topic of the post ... about 24 hours later i developed a nasty little stomach bug ... and i'm wondering whether it was just a coincidence, or whether anybody has else got a bug from rimming ?

should i avoid a bloke who has unprotected sex ?

last weekend i was on gaydar looking for some action ... and noticed a bloke who seemed closeby ... and after an exchange of messages, he seemed like a decent enough type ... so i headed over to his place ...

i walk past his block fairly regularly, and didn't realise that it contained such nice flats ... his place was really nicely done out ...

he seemed a nice guy, eager to please, but not with the biggest equipment in the world ! we were having a good time, but i was shocked when he suggested having bareback sex ... maybe i'm just too naive, but no bloke has even mentioned it to me before ! obviously i didn't take him up on his offer.

after it was over, as i was leaving, he asked if he would see me again [strange question to ask in person] ... and i was honest, and said that i wasn't sure. what really puts me off going back for more, is the idea that he could may pick up STDs by having unprotected sex with other men ...

surely this is a good reason to avoid this bloke ?

3rd time with the pole

i had tried to see the polish bloke again, but couldn't make the day we had arranged ... but luckily he was available the next evening ...

again we chatted for ages, which was nice ... but he didn't really seem up for fun ... but eventually i persuaded him to enjoy himself - which he did !

he wants to go on a date next time we meet ... i'm not sure how to tell him without hurting him that i like him as a friend, and for sex, but i'm not really looking for a relationship right now ...

i guess that i'll have to risk the potential loss of a nice guy [and good sex] and tell him ...

another ejaculation in the steam room

it was fairly late the other night in the gym, and there was only 1 other bloke in the steam room ... i'd seen him before checking me out, so i knew he was gay ...

i didn't feel inhibited in showing my excitement ... but he didn't really touch himself, or get excited at all ! he looked quite well endowed, which made up for his other deficiencies ...

so i was a bit surprised, when he started encouraging his member, and came over to my side of the steam room ... he really did have a good body, but his dick didn't really get any bigger - i was more surprised than disappointed ... and from having not shown any excitement, he was suddenly ejaculating on me !

2nd time with the pole

i had tried contact the polish guy a couple of times, without a response ... and was beginning to think that he wasn't interested, but saw him on gaydar, so thought i'd try again ... and he did respond !

i went over to his place again, and this time we chatted for ages before getting down to it ... which was nice ... but i'm a little worried that it's developing into more than what i'm looking for at this stage ...

he really is very fit, and the encounter was good fun ...