a while ago i wrote about an encounter with a bloke who wanted to bareback [obviously i didn't comply - i do have a brain] ... and knew that i shouldn't meet him again ...
well, a few days ago, i was online, and he was local, and looking for fun ... so i thought that if i was safe, it would be ok to meet him ...
we met up, and again he wanted to bareback, which i obviously again declined. it was quite a good encounter in many ways ... but afterwards it was the first time that i'd felt dirty in years ...
these days i don't feel there's anything wrong with good wholesome fun ... but i really shouldn't meet blokes like that !
21 December 2008
14 December 2008
Josh Hartnett is rubbish in Rain Man
i've been a fan of Josh Hartnett for a quite a while - good to look at, and a decent enough actor ...
so, since he was in London for a stage play version of Rain Man, i thought i'd go and take a look ...
it was obvious from early on that Josh doesn't have much of a talent for stage acting - his delivery was wooden, and timing off ... but i kept up my interest in the hope that i might see more of Josh after the interval ...
the most we saw was a few minutes of him topless - whilst he seemed desperate to arrange a blanket to cover his legs and boxers !
so, don't bother going to see this play if you are looking to feast yourself on Josh's body or acting talents ... however, the bloke playing the Dustin Hoffman character is very good !
so, since he was in London for a stage play version of Rain Man, i thought i'd go and take a look ...
it was obvious from early on that Josh doesn't have much of a talent for stage acting - his delivery was wooden, and timing off ... but i kept up my interest in the hope that i might see more of Josh after the interval ...
the most we saw was a few minutes of him topless - whilst he seemed desperate to arrange a blanket to cover his legs and boxers !
so, don't bother going to see this play if you are looking to feast yourself on Josh's body or acting talents ... however, the bloke playing the Dustin Hoffman character is very good !
12 December 2008
great sex !
a few days ago, i'd been chatting online to this guy ... he seemed nice enough, and he sent a great body pic ! we arranged to meet up the next evening ...
the next evening he texted to check that we were definitely meeting ... which we did. he wasn't the best talker, so the walk to my flat was a bit awkward ...
but once in bed, he came alive ! it was one of the best sessions i've had in ages ...
the next evening he texted to check that we were definitely meeting ... which we did. he wasn't the best talker, so the walk to my flat was a bit awkward ...
but once in bed, he came alive ! it was one of the best sessions i've had in ages ...
11 December 2008
where to buy good lube ?
i used to rely on my previous partner to supply lube, and to be fair he sourced some good quality stuff !
however, i now need to find it myself, and i'm struggling ! i've tried a few of the main high street pharmacies, but they only seem to stock one brand, which i don't rate ...
any suggestions of what brand to get, and where to get it ??
however, i now need to find it myself, and i'm struggling ! i've tried a few of the main high street pharmacies, but they only seem to stock one brand, which i don't rate ...
any suggestions of what brand to get, and where to get it ??
10 December 2008
de-cruisifying a gym steam room ...
i've mentioned here before about the fun that i've had in my gym's steam room ...
well, since it came under new management a while ago, they have tried various measures to reduce the amount of cruising that goes on - presumably the management know what goes on ! their latest attempt is to increase significantly the amount of lighting - 1 lightbulb has been replaced by four spotlights !
thankfully this doesn't seemed to have dampened activities - it just means that it's easier to see when other guys are up for action !!
another technique they used the other day, was to just turn it off before closing time - but i'm not sure that really worked either ...
they might as well just give up, and accept that gay boys will do gay things ...
well, since it came under new management a while ago, they have tried various measures to reduce the amount of cruising that goes on - presumably the management know what goes on ! their latest attempt is to increase significantly the amount of lighting - 1 lightbulb has been replaced by four spotlights !
thankfully this doesn't seemed to have dampened activities - it just means that it's easier to see when other guys are up for action !!
another technique they used the other day, was to just turn it off before closing time - but i'm not sure that really worked either ...
they might as well just give up, and accept that gay boys will do gay things ...
09 December 2008
a brief encounter ...
last week i was feeling horny, so used my favourite website to look for some action ...
after a while i discussed meeting up with a bloke who seemed up for some quick action ... his profile suggested he was stocky, but his pics looked good, and he claimed they were recent, so i thought he was probably worth visiting ...
trouble was that he wasn't out, and he was worried about his flatmate coming back! now, i know all about the troubles of being in the closet, and looking for sex, so to some extent i am quite patient with these types ... but i've moved on since then, so i do find it a bit painful ...
anyway, eventually i convinced him that it was worth a go ... so i went over to his place. he was definitely a bit stockier than his pics implied ! but we did have some fun ... and i was out of his place quickly enough that his flatmate never saw me ...
after a while i discussed meeting up with a bloke who seemed up for some quick action ... his profile suggested he was stocky, but his pics looked good, and he claimed they were recent, so i thought he was probably worth visiting ...
trouble was that he wasn't out, and he was worried about his flatmate coming back! now, i know all about the troubles of being in the closet, and looking for sex, so to some extent i am quite patient with these types ... but i've moved on since then, so i do find it a bit painful ...
anyway, eventually i convinced him that it was worth a go ... so i went over to his place. he was definitely a bit stockier than his pics implied ! but we did have some fun ... and i was out of his place quickly enough that his flatmate never saw me ...
07 December 2008
gay divorce ...
the ft had an interesting short article last week about the divorce rates amongst gay couples since the introduction of marriage/partnership ...
finland has a 30% divorce rate, which is damm high considering that it's only a few years since gay weddings started ... whilst it's too early to get a sensible UK rate ...
it does seem to me that gay couples sometimes plunge into the partnership thing a bit too quickly ... i wonder whether it's availability it putting pressure on couples to commit to each other before they are really ready ...
finland has a 30% divorce rate, which is damm high considering that it's only a few years since gay weddings started ... whilst it's too early to get a sensible UK rate ...
it does seem to me that gay couples sometimes plunge into the partnership thing a bit too quickly ... i wonder whether it's availability it putting pressure on couples to commit to each other before they are really ready ...
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