encounter with a pushy bloke ...

a few days ago i was chatting to a bloke online that i'd communicated with a few times before, but had never met up with ...

he looked slightly old in his pic, but he seemed nice enough ... so we agreed that he would come over ...

when he arrived he looked a bit older and larger than his pic ... but not too old or too large, so i decided to go ahead with it ...

after not very long we were getting naked, and it turned out that he really was in the "chunky" bracket ... which i found quite a turn off ... so i did consider calling it off ... but i couldn't quite do it ...

what made it worse was that he started getting quite pushy, which i really didn't take very well. i've never been with a bloke who thought he should tell me what to do, and i didn't like it.

the strange thing was eventually the encounter had a good conclusion, but i was so annoyed about being told what to do, i really don't think of it as a pleasant time !

the dilemma i have is that he left a small, bead chain ... which doesn't look very valuable ... and i know i should return it to him, but i really don't want to see him again ...