"i'm negative"

i was chatting to this guy on Grindr ... and i should have seen the warning signs - but i guess i was just too horny ...

first warning - he asked if i was into chems ... it's really not my thing, so i should just steer clear of guys who are into it in a big way ...

second warning - he said he was negative, asked if i was, and then asked if i was into bareback ! what sort of crazy person would take a stranger's word for their hiv status ...

so i thought we had established that i was in no way interested in bb ... and decided to go to his place ... but when i got there, he started talking about it again ! and the other thing that freaked me out was that he had condoms already unwrapped - call me paranoid, but i prefer to see the condoms in their wrappers before use ! i know that if he was completely mental, he could puncture a condom inside the wrapper ... but i guess you have to draw a line somewhere ...

anyway, the whole thing made me really uneasy ... so after some hesitation (and whilst completely naked) ... i told him it wasn't going to happen ! he took it really well ... and after a quick eruption (mutually pre-agreed) ... i got dressed, and left ...

moral of the story - if he sounds dodgy, he probably is dodgy !