29 January 2011

encounter with an arab guy ...

a bloke contacted me on grindr whose english was not great ... but he seemed like a nice enough guy, and had a cute pic ... so i agreed to meet up ... but it took us a while to arrange ...

eventually it happened, and he was indeed a nice bloke ... but his english was really quite poor - but i'm used to communicating with people without great english, so i managed to deal with it !

the sex was not that great, but we still enjoyed ourselves. but afterwards we had a couple of hours of awesome cuddling !

he was a really chatty guy, and asked loads and loads of questions - he'd only been in london for a couple of months, and had only met a few guys before, so his knowledge of gay sex / safe sex / STDs was shockingly poor !

the rather sad side of our discussions, was that he could not imagine ever coming out to his parents or having a boyfriend ...

it was quite late when he was leaving, and he kept saying that it was going to take him a long time to get home on the bus, as he didn't have enough money to pay for the tube. it almost felt like he was asking me to pay for a travelcard - but i felt uncomfortable about giving him money, almost as if i would have paid him for sex !

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