some time ago i wrote about finding it hard to say no ... well four years later, and i still don't find it much easier - i occasionally still end up in encounters with guys that i don't really fancy !
after chatting on grindr, i recently met a guy at the tube station, with a view to going back to my place ... but i didn't really find him very attractive ... so after chatting for a while (he was a nice enough guy, but i just didn't fancy him), when he suggested heading to my place, i declined ...
he was very disappointed, and asked me to reconsider ... but i held my ground ...
it's not fun upsetting a nice guy ... but it was strangely liberating ...
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