We had been chatting on Fridae for a couple of weeks, and had migrated to WhatsApp ... he looked like a cute guy, and sounded horny ... so I had no expectations of a chaste date !
Whilst he had warned me that he didn't have a lot of time, I hadn't expected such a clinical meet ...
We met up at the tube station and walked back to my place - he was very chatty and friendly, and there didn't seem to be any hesitation about hooking up ...
Once insde my front door, he started stripping off straight away ... and once in bed it was clear that he wanted to get a move on with climaxing !
After we had both erupted, and cleaned up, he started getting dressed but i managed to persuade him to get back into bed for a bit ...
I know that i'm a complete cuddle whore, but most guys seem to enjoy it a bit ... i'm really not sure that he did at all :(
We had a bit of a chat, and he still seemed to be a nice enough guy ... and it wasn't that he was uncomfortable with his sexuality. He's a medical professional, and I wonder if he's so used to dealing with people as cases that need solving, that he also treats encounters/dates in the same way ?
25 January 2014
11 January 2014
Date - Encounter
I'd been contacted by this guy on Jack'd who was a lot younger than me, and younger than i normally go for ... but in the interest of broading one's experiences, i continued chatting to him ...
After a few weeks of occasional chats, we agreed to meet up ... fun was definitely on the agenda ... but it was also a sort of date !
He turned out to be very young - his pics had made him look more mature than his age suggested ... but he was really not that mature :(
We went for a walk (via a couple of shops that I need to go to), and had a decent chat ...
Nice enough guy, but really the difference in life experience of somebody that young (not that I'm really that old!) was too much - he hadn't really even been into central london, despite living on the fringes. He kept asking about my favourite films.
He had his first boyfriend at the age of 16 and has always been into older guys.
Once we got back to my place we did pleasure each other, and it was an enjoyable enough encounter ... but i doubt i'll be seeing him again.
After a few weeks of occasional chats, we agreed to meet up ... fun was definitely on the agenda ... but it was also a sort of date !
He turned out to be very young - his pics had made him look more mature than his age suggested ... but he was really not that mature :(
We went for a walk (via a couple of shops that I need to go to), and had a decent chat ...
Nice enough guy, but really the difference in life experience of somebody that young (not that I'm really that old!) was too much - he hadn't really even been into central london, despite living on the fringes. He kept asking about my favourite films.
He had his first boyfriend at the age of 16 and has always been into older guys.
Once we got back to my place we did pleasure each other, and it was an enjoyable enough encounter ... but i doubt i'll be seeing him again.
09 January 2014
How small is too small ...
I'm not a fan of the phrase "size queen" and i don't judge guys on the size of their tackle ... but i recently met a guy who turned out to be really short !
when i'm looking at profiles i don't tend to look at height, as it's not something that has ever really concerned me - i'm average western height, and it's not something that has ever featured as a factor in whether i find a guy attractive ...
but meeting this cute guy made me realise that i feel a bit uncomfortable with a really short guy - i'm not exactly sure why but maybe it felt like i was a creepy adult preying on a child ...
he was mid twenties, but with beautifully soft skin, and being that short he could have passed for a lot younger.
sex was never a possiblity during that meeting - and maybe i would have done it if i had been presented with the choice in the heat of the moment - but afterwards i chose not to try to meet him again, as it just didn't feel right.
when i'm looking at profiles i don't tend to look at height, as it's not something that has ever really concerned me - i'm average western height, and it's not something that has ever featured as a factor in whether i find a guy attractive ...
but meeting this cute guy made me realise that i feel a bit uncomfortable with a really short guy - i'm not exactly sure why but maybe it felt like i was a creepy adult preying on a child ...
he was mid twenties, but with beautifully soft skin, and being that short he could have passed for a lot younger.
sex was never a possiblity during that meeting - and maybe i would have done it if i had been presented with the choice in the heat of the moment - but afterwards i chose not to try to meet him again, as it just didn't feel right.
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