last weekend i was on gaydar looking for some action ... and noticed a bloke who seemed closeby ... and after an exchange of messages, he seemed like a decent enough type ... so i headed over to his place ...
i walk past his block fairly regularly, and didn't realise that it contained such nice flats ... his place was really nicely done out ...
he seemed a nice guy, eager to please, but not with the biggest equipment in the world ! we were having a good time, but i was shocked when he suggested having bareback sex ... maybe i'm just too naive, but no bloke has even mentioned it to me before ! obviously i didn't take him up on his offer.
after it was over, as i was leaving, he asked if he would see me again [strange question to ask in person] ... and i was honest, and said that i wasn't sure. what really puts me off going back for more, is the idea that he could may pick up STDs by having unprotected sex with other men ...
surely this is a good reason to avoid this bloke ?
4 comments:
Yes indeed, avoid him. The same thing happened to me too and i declined him. Alarm bells should be ringing. I would suggest you get tested. And explain to him why you wouldn't like to see him again.
Yeah, I wouldn't be seeing him again...just too risky, even if you take precautions yourself.
Wow. I'm amazed you're even asking if this is risky. You should have walked out straight away...
You should always go through life assuming that anyone you encounter sexually is HIV positive and take the necessary precautions (i.e., practice safer sex). So basically, never fuck without a condom, unless you are in a monogamous relationship and only after you have both been tested and have established trust. Whether or not you do oral with a condom is up to personal choice, but it is also not risk free.
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