encounter with an arab guy ...

a bloke contacted me on grindr whose english was not great ... but he seemed like a nice enough guy, and had a cute pic ... so i agreed to meet up ... but it took us a while to arrange ...

eventually it happened, and he was indeed a nice bloke ... but his english was really quite poor - but i'm used to communicating with people without great english, so i managed to deal with it !

the sex was not that great, but we still enjoyed ourselves. but afterwards we had a couple of hours of awesome cuddling !

he was a really chatty guy, and asked loads and loads of questions - he'd only been in london for a couple of months, and had only met a few guys before, so his knowledge of gay sex / safe sex / STDs was shockingly poor !

the rather sad side of our discussions, was that he could not imagine ever coming out to his parents or having a boyfriend ...

it was quite late when he was leaving, and he kept saying that it was going to take him a long time to get home on the bus, as he didn't have enough money to pay for the tube. it almost felt like he was asking me to pay for a travelcard - but i felt uncomfortable about giving him money, almost as if i would have paid him for sex !

just say no (2) ...

some time ago i wrote about finding it hard to say no ... well four years later, and i still don't find it much easier - i occasionally still end up in encounters with guys that i don't really fancy !

after chatting on grindr, i recently met a guy at the tube station, with a view to going back to my place ... but i didn't really find him very attractive ... so after chatting for a while (he was a nice enough guy, but i just didn't fancy him), when he suggested heading to my place, i declined ...

he was very disappointed, and asked me to reconsider ... but i held my ground ...

it's not fun upsetting a nice guy ... but it was strangely liberating ...

a proper date ...

i was chatting to a guy on grindr recently ... he seemed like a nice bloke, and fairly quickly he suggested meeting up for a beer. most guys on grindr suggest meeting up for sex, so this was a pleasant surprise ...

we met up near his place, and he turned out to be a lovely guy - we got on really well, and enjoyed a couple of drinks ... but i was meeting a friend for dinner ... so he suggested going back to his place later that evening !

i finally made it there quite late, but he was just about still awake ... and we started to enjoy each other ... we were having a good time ... and eventually he climaxed ... but before i had a chance to follow suit, he turned a bit strange ... said he was really tired, and more or less asked me to leave!

this wouldn't be surprising if we had just met up for a shag ... but it seemed odd for a bloke who had seemed like such a nice guy ! ah well, another experience of humanity i guess ...

a guy with old pics ...

i had chatted to a bloke on gaydar who seemed keen to have some fun ... his pics looked good, if a bit grainy ...

he came over to my place, and it was clear that his pics had been quite old - he was significantly older and heavier than his pics ...

we got down to having fun ... but it was not that great - it was somehow not very intimate (maybe neither of us fancied each other) ... and after climaxing, he didn't want to cuddle :-(

not an encounter that will be repeated !

foreign encounter ...

after my abortive hotel encounter ... it was after midnight, but there was another guy who was interested in meeting up, so i went over to his place ...

he had given me the address, but when i got to the location, there was an alleyway, but no sign of the bloke ... after the exchange of a few more messages on grindr ... i opened the gate, and nervously went down the alleyway, expecting the bloke to appear in one of the doorways ...

the first door i came to was being buzzed open, so i assumed that it was him, so i entered ...

there was clearly somebody at the top of the narrow staircase waiting for me ... so i climbed upwards ...

he had already warned me that his "brother" was asleep in the apartment, so our encounter would take place in the corridor outside ! luckily it was the very top of the building, so we wouldn't be disturbed ...

the bloke was lovely - he was only wearing a towel dressing gown, and he had a great body, and sizeable equipment. i was nervous about taking off my clothes in the corridor, in case i needed to make a rapid escape, but i gradually relaxed, and started undressing ...

he was a reasonable kisser, and wasn't too bad at sucking - but seemed keener of receiving rather than giving on that score ! he seemed genuinely to enjoy being with a man - rather than some blokes who just want sex, and don't actually like being with a man !!

we had an enjoyable encounter - especially considering the amount of cum that we both produced !

foreign hotel encounter ...

i was abroad for new year ... and was using the usual channels to search for a bloke for some fun ...

grindr seemed to be the most useful, with the exact distance displayed ... and so after quite a while trying to find a man, agreed to meet up with a guy ...

he came over to my hotel ... he was younger than i normally go for ... and he seemed a bit out of it - i suspect that he was a bit drugged up ... and when we got to my room, he said he was really tired, and that i was the third bloke that he had met that evening !

it all felt a bit weird - i'm not sure if he was trying to get money from me, or if he was just screwed up. anyway, it wasn't happening, so he left without either of us climaxing !