forgive give, it's been 8 months since my last ...

a friend recently introduced me to a new app for meeting guys ... and since it's relatively new (and is still gaining a following), you get to see guys all over london (rather than a thousand guys within 1km!) ...

so it was that i ended up chatting to a guy who lives near the southbank in the centre of town ... and i somehow ended up going on a date with him!  i've been quite bad lately, and tend to meet guys for fun, rather actually going for a proper date - it looks like it's been about 8 months since my last date.

we both arrived at the pub around the same time, and the fact that he recognised me better than i did him suggested that my pics were more acurrate than his!  his profile pics were really cute, but i suspect a good few years old - he wasn't nearly as hot in person compared to his pics :(

after the initial disappointment, we sat down for a drink, and he turned out to be a really interesting guy - we had a lot of similar interests, and he had plenty of challenging takes on the world!  after a couple of pints, we went for a meal nearby.

all very pleasant, but the killer is that i just didn't fancy him.

One year later ...

I knew it had been quite a while since we had last messed around ... but it was only when I was looking for my previous post that I discovered that it was a full year !

In a similar scenario to last July, we had spent the day together doing various stuff around town (as we do from time to time), and we ended up back at his place (which doesn't often happen) ... and at the end of the evening, we ended up in bed ...

He wanted full on sex, but for some reason I didn't - very unusual for me.  I find him hugely attractive, and I absolutely know that there is no relationship prospect, but for some reason, my head said no!  So we messed around, and it was a bit strange, because the more I put up the barriers, the more he wanted it ...

We ended up climaxing, but it was all a bit odd.  Hopefully it won't sour our friendship ...