gay gene ?

i recently met up with a guy ... we didn't end up having sex ... but we did have an interesting chat !

one of the things he mentioned is that his brother is also gay ... which i thought was quite interesting ...

i know of another family with the same sibling scenario - two gay brothers and a straight sister ...

this guy that i recently met also mentioned what appears to be the other prevalent feature with gay blokes - the lack of a significant father figure ... and this guy said that he too lacked a significant emotional father figure in his childhood.

so, the nature or nuture question remains ... but there's something about two gay brothers which brings a smile to my face !

short and sweet ...

it had been some time since my last encounter ... and i was in an airport lounge ... and once i had wifi up and running i started checking out the various dating apps that i have on my smartphone ...

grindr seemed the busiest with a bloke closeby who's profile mentioned that he was in transit at the same airport ... and who seemed to still be online ...

i started a conversation ... and he soon mentioned how horny he was ... and suggested that since we were in the same lounge, we should sort each other out !

as far as i know gay sex is probably illegal in that country ... and could certainly get us into a sticky situation if we got caught ... but two horny guys is a dangerous combination ...

so before long we found ourselves in a toilet cubicle ... and after a tense moment when somebody tried to open the door ... we sorted each other out without delay !

it really was an intense moment - i had a bit of a headache after a long flight, and shooting with this hot guy in a tense environment really made my head pound ...

we managed to exit without getting caught ... and started chatting on grindr ... and after a while we left the lounge to chat in person ... he seems like a nice guy ...

A film date

I'd tried to meet up with this guy the previous weekend, but he had cancelled as he wasn't well ...

So I had a spare ticket to a film that I wanted to see, and I thought I might as well kill two birds with one stone - and if he wasn't very interesting, then at least I wouldn't have to talk to him !

We'd arranged to meet half an hour before the film started to have a drink, but he arrived really late ... which wasn't a good start.  He also didn't even offer to buy the drinks - which wasn't very impressive either.  He really wasn't my type, and to make it even worse, all the way through the film he was sniffing or coughing !

Afterwards, we had a quick chat about the film and went our separate ways !!

short and not very sweet !

I was recently online and looking for some action ...

It was fairly late, and this guy seemed keen to come over ...

When he arrived he turned out to be a bit of a strange bloke ... telling me how he loved to be fucked by a group of guys ... and a bit full of himself !

Nice enough looking guy, but not good enough to be that cocky !

He didn't want to kiss, which I always find annoying, but we did at least get each other off !!

Baby hit me one more time ...

A bloke contacted who turned out to be into kink !

He wanted to be punished ... and seemed to have fantasies of being hit by his teachers or dad !

I'm not into experiencing pain myself, but if this guy wanted me to slap his ass, then it seemed rude not to oblige !!

His ass looked like it had received a fair bit of abuse over the years ... but he seemed a nice enough guy ...

After pleasuring each other ... and chatting for a while, it turned out that he was partnered ... but i guess his boyfriend doesn't like to slap him !

a date in a coffee shop

I recently went on a date with a guy who I'd originally chatted to about 9 months ago on Jack'd.

We started chatting again, and agreed to meet up for a coffee.

When I arrived at the coffee shop, he turned out to be a bit older and less attractive than his pics ... to the extent that I wasn't quite sure that it was him ... but he recognised me.

He had a strange habit of looking me up and down ... clearly checking me out, but I couldn't work out whether in a good way or a bad way !

We chatted for about 45 minutes - he was reasonably interesting ... and we had a few things in common ... but I didn't really warm to him.  There really wasn't enough of a spark to make me want to see him again.

Looking back at recent dates, I'm starting to think that maybe I'm expecting too much from a first date - if the bloke is reasonably interesting, should I try another date and see whether the spark ignites later on?  I'm not wholly convinced, as I've felt an immediate excitement on meeting previous guys that I've dated ...

Maybe I'm just getting jaded, and need time to develop a fire ...

steamroom (repeat) encounter

i recently found myself in the steam room of a local gym ... with a bloke who looked vaguely familiar - not sure if we've messed around together in the steam room, or maybe i've seen his profile online ...

he was lying down when i entered, and we immediately started eyeing each other up ...

after some hesitation ... i moved closer ... and we started to touch each other ...

he had a lovely body, and great dick ... and we even managed a couple of quick snogs !

he didn't want to shoot though - maybe he was saving himself for somebody else ...

he went off to have a shower ... and i followed him shortly afterwards ...

since he was the only guy in the showers ... i chose the cubicle next to him ... and finished myself off !

a brief (repeat) encounter

i was recently on Grindr and was contacted by a guy with a minimalist profile ...

it turned out to be a bloke that i'd met a few months ago ...

i agreed to head over to his place straight away ... he mentioned that he had poppers and didn't seem interested in coming over to mine !

we got down to business fairly quickly ... it was fairly enjoyable, but it wasn't overly intimate !

after about 25 minutes we both climaxed.

quick fun

I'd chatted to this on an off for about a month ...

His profile said that he wasn't interested in meeting up for sex ... but after a few weeks, he suggested that he might ...

A few weeks later still and we finally arranged to meet up ...

His facepic had looked quite cute ... but when we actually met, he wasn't. He was also really camp, which i find very unsexy.

We still managed to get each other off ... and at least he had one redeeming feature !

Overall, not one to repeat.

date in a supermarket

I'd chatted to this guy for a few weeks ...

And we met up for a date ... in a local (up market) supermarket !

He wasn't quite as cute as his profile facepic ... but he seemed nice enough ...

The only trouble was that we both seemed a bit tired ... and conversation dried up after about an hour ...

So I thought that it was time to call a halt to proceedings ... but he seemed a bit surprised !

Afterward we exchanged a couple of messages ... but neither of us suggested meeting up again ...

date in a bar

I'd chatted to this guy for a while, and we arranged to meet up for a date ...

We met at the tube station, and went to a bar about 10 minutes walk away that I'd previously suggested ...

When I first saw him, I feared that he was rather camp ... and so it transpired ...

We had an enjoyable chat, and he was reasonably attractive ... but he was really not my type ...

And whilst I would have enjoyed a night with him ... it would have been unfair ...

So I went home alone !

Not the last time ...

Having said recently that I thought we'd probably had sex for the last time ... it turned out that this was not the case !

I recently met up with my mate to go to an exhibition ... and I was in need of hugs, so we went back to his place ...

He seemed to enjoy the fact that I feeling tired, and wasn't gagging for it ... and we spent a couple of hours in bed ...

We finished off with some watersports ... something I hadn't tried before ... it didn't really excite me much, and there's no way that I would want to be on the receiving end !

An enjoyable afternoon.

understall encounter ...

Looking back at previous posts, I don't think I've ever admitted to having had fun in a public toilet ... so I can't remember the last time that it happened ...

But the other evening, on my way home I was a bit drunk following some after work drinks ... and I stopped into my local cottage / WC to urinate ...

The guy in the stall next to me moved his foot to show that he was interested ... and before long, I was wanking him off ... to completion !

Back in the days when I wasn't out, this used to be a regular occurrence ... these days it hardly happens at all ...

a very brief foreign encounter ...

Whilst overseas on holiday for a week recently ... I hadn't managed to make full contact with any of the locals ...

However, just before heading to the airport, a guy messaged me, keen to meet up ...

I told him that we would only have 10 minutes, but he still wanted to come to my hotel room ...

We met in the lobby, and went straight upstairs ... he was very cute, and very fit ...

We quickly got rid of some clothes, and after some kissing and fumbling ... we were in my bedroom's bathroom ... unloading ...

Probably the quickest encounter I've ever had ... but still enjoyable ...

And I didn't miss my flight !

A date in a coffee shop ...

I'd first chatted to this guy whilst on holiday almost 2 years ago ... he lived in London, and we nearly up soon afterwards ... but it fell through ...

However we started chatting online again recently, and arranged to finally meet up ...

When we did, it was a bit of a disappointment ... he was a bit camp, and a bit too interested in gay stuff ... however he was nice enough ...

Whilst he was very cute, and I could easily have enjoyed some time in the bedroom together, we didn't!