27 March 2017

the staring bloke

there's a fine line between maintaining eye contact with a guy when your eyes happen to meet (to show that you're interested) ... and staring!  i suspect that i break eye contact too quickly ... but staring really isn't attractive either!

i was in the steam room the other day, and chatting to a former hookup from 18 months ago, who is always forthright with his opinions ...

he pointed out a guy who had just left the steam room, who was clearly up for action, and who i noticed was a bit of a starer ... but my friend claimed he was even worse than i had noticed ...

after a while my friend left, and the staring bloke was back ... and one thing led to another ...

later on, the staring bloke and i both happend to be getting changed in the same area of the locker room ... and there was a really beautiful guy getting changed as well ... who i'm pretty sure was straight ... but the staring bloke just wouldn't stop looking at him.  it was unpleasant just to witness, and i felt sorry for the straight bloke to be on the receiving end.

the moral of the story - don't be a staring bloke !

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