encounter with a pushy bloke ...

a few days ago i was chatting to a bloke online that i'd communicated with a few times before, but had never met up with ...

he looked slightly old in his pic, but he seemed nice enough ... so we agreed that he would come over ...

when he arrived he looked a bit older and larger than his pic ... but not too old or too large, so i decided to go ahead with it ...

after not very long we were getting naked, and it turned out that he really was in the "chunky" bracket ... which i found quite a turn off ... so i did consider calling it off ... but i couldn't quite do it ...

what made it worse was that he started getting quite pushy, which i really didn't take very well. i've never been with a bloke who thought he should tell me what to do, and i didn't like it.

the strange thing was eventually the encounter had a good conclusion, but i was so annoyed about being told what to do, i really don't think of it as a pleasant time !

the dilemma i have is that he left a small, bead chain ... which doesn't look very valuable ... and i know i should return it to him, but i really don't want to see him again ...

fun with one of the 5 cumshooters ...

the other day at the gym one of the guys from the 5 cumshots session was again in the steam room ... but this time there weren't any ejaculations ...

so i chatted to him afterwards, and invited him back to my place for some fun ... which he accepted. i wonder what the gym staff thought when they saw us heading out together - i don't want to get thrown out !

it wasn't the most tender of sessions, but he was obviously very experienced at what he does, and he had an awesome body, and a great normally proportioned dick ! it wasn't rushed, and we each ended up with a good cumshot ...

fun with a large dick ...

the other day i had been online looking for fun ...

i was chatting to a bloke, who seemed a bit of a ditherer ... but eventually we agreed to meet up ...

i got to his place [for a change], and got right down to it ... the guy looked quite different to his single pic, but nice enough, and had a big dick, so i was happy to get on with it !

we had agreed beforehand what we were both interested in, so there was no doubt about what to do ! it was good fun, and a bit longer than recent sessions, but still fairly quick ...

five cumshots ...

i was in my gym steam room the other day ... a few guys were playing with themselves ...

it started heating up, and i looked over at the guy beside me ... to see that he had just cum ! not even a grunt, and he had shot his load - what a waste, i love seeing the first shot !

with that, another guy was soon shooting ...

before long, they both left, and another bloke came in ...

very soon he was hard, and playing with the final guy, who had yet to cum ...

after a few minutes, the two of them were shooting their loads ... and shortly afterwards i did too !

a very brief encounter ...

a couple of days ago, i was online looking for some fun ... and there was a bloke nearby who wanted some fun ...

he said it would have to be quick ... but he had a couple of hours - so it seemed plenty of time to have some fun ...

he arrived over fairly quickly ... and he was definitely older than his pic, but it seemed worth giving it a go ...

he wanted to get on with it, and he seemed to be building up to a climax within a few minutes ... and he shot a huge load very quickly.

i was a bit annoyed that having said that he had a couple of hours, he left within a few minutes.

another brief encounter ...

a few days ago i needed to go and catch a train, but was horny and logged on to gaydar to see if anybody local was up for some fun ...

luckily there was somebody, and he seemed keen to come over ... so we agreed to go for it ...

when he arrived, he did seem slightly older, and slightly larger than his pics, but more than worth a go ...

after stripping off, it was clear that he was considerably larger than his pics ! we did have some fun, but he seemed a bit too keen on his own gratfication ...

anyway, it was soon over, and he headed off ... shortly followed by me !

fun with a curved dick ...

the other day i was looking on the web for some fun ... and started chatting to a local guy ...

he seemed like a decent guy, and he liked my pics, so we agreed that he should come over ...

we got down to business straight away, and he had an awesome curved dick - it was quite amazing how curved it was ! i suspect that we were both quite tired, as things started off quite slowly, both of us lacking imagination ... but after a while it culminated in the right outcome !

he didn't seem interested in leaving, so a while later we were ready for more fun. he was really good in that he said what worked for him, and he seemed to enjoy the outcome ...

after a few hours of sleep, he left after sunrise !

nipple warning !

i like playing with nipples (my own and others) as much as the next person ... but i saw something in the gym the other day that worried me ...

a guy in his forties who was getting changed next to me had really extended, rough, worn looking nipples ... presumably from years of over-use !

made me think that i should limit my nipple play to avoid ending up with horrible nipples ...

feeling dirty ...

a while ago i wrote about an encounter with a bloke who wanted to bareback [obviously i didn't comply - i do have a brain] ... and knew that i shouldn't meet him again ...

well, a few days ago, i was online, and he was local, and looking for fun ... so i thought that if i was safe, it would be ok to meet him ...

we met up, and again he wanted to bareback, which i obviously again declined. it was quite a good encounter in many ways ... but afterwards it was the first time that i'd felt dirty in years ...

these days i don't feel there's anything wrong with good wholesome fun ... but i really shouldn't meet blokes like that !

Josh Hartnett is rubbish in Rain Man

i've been a fan of Josh Hartnett for a quite a while - good to look at, and a decent enough actor ...

so, since he was in London for a stage play version of Rain Man, i thought i'd go and take a look ...

it was obvious from early on that Josh doesn't have much of a talent for stage acting - his delivery was wooden, and timing off ... but i kept up my interest in the hope that i might see more of Josh after the interval ...

the most we saw was a few minutes of him topless - whilst he seemed desperate to arrange a blanket to cover his legs and boxers !

so, don't bother going to see this play if you are looking to feast yourself on Josh's body or acting talents ... however, the bloke playing the Dustin Hoffman character is very good !

great sex !

a few days ago, i'd been chatting online to this guy ... he seemed nice enough, and he sent a great body pic ! we arranged to meet up the next evening ...

the next evening he texted to check that we were definitely meeting ... which we did. he wasn't the best talker, so the walk to my flat was a bit awkward ...

but once in bed, he came alive ! it was one of the best sessions i've had in ages ...

where to buy good lube ?

i used to rely on my previous partner to supply lube, and to be fair he sourced some good quality stuff !

however, i now need to find it myself, and i'm struggling ! i've tried a few of the main high street pharmacies, but they only seem to stock one brand, which i don't rate ...

any suggestions of what brand to get, and where to get it ??

de-cruisifying a gym steam room ...

i've mentioned here before about the fun that i've had in my gym's steam room ...

well, since it came under new management a while ago, they have tried various measures to reduce the amount of cruising that goes on - presumably the management know what goes on ! their latest attempt is to increase significantly the amount of lighting - 1 lightbulb has been replaced by four spotlights !

thankfully this doesn't seemed to have dampened activities - it just means that it's easier to see when other guys are up for action !!

another technique they used the other day, was to just turn it off before closing time - but i'm not sure that really worked either ...

they might as well just give up, and accept that gay boys will do gay things ...

a brief encounter ...

last week i was feeling horny, so used my favourite website to look for some action ...

after a while i discussed meeting up with a bloke who seemed up for some quick action ... his profile suggested he was stocky, but his pics looked good, and he claimed they were recent, so i thought he was probably worth visiting ...

trouble was that he wasn't out, and he was worried about his flatmate coming back! now, i know all about the troubles of being in the closet, and looking for sex, so to some extent i am quite patient with these types ... but i've moved on since then, so i do find it a bit painful ...

anyway, eventually i convinced him that it was worth a go ... so i went over to his place. he was definitely a bit stockier than his pics implied ! but we did have some fun ... and i was out of his place quickly enough that his flatmate never saw me ...

gay divorce ...

the ft had an interesting short article last week about the divorce rates amongst gay couples since the introduction of marriage/partnership ...

finland has a 30% divorce rate, which is damm high considering that it's only a few years since gay weddings started ... whilst it's too early to get a sensible UK rate ...

it does seem to me that gay couples sometimes plunge into the partnership thing a bit too quickly ... i wonder whether it's availability it putting pressure on couples to commit to each other before they are really ready ...