uncomfortably obvious infidelity ...

After hosting a guy who just wanted to perform oral sex ... I was recently chatting to him online again, and he wanted me to visit him and deliver some liquids !

Whilst I know that some/many of the guys that I meet aren't single ... I reckon that if they have open relationships, or if they are cheating ... it's their issue to deal with ... I'm single, and I'm not cheating on anybody !

However, this guy had photos of him and his boyfriend all around his apartment ... and it was a bit freaky.

Guess I'm definitely in the "hear no evil, see no evil" camp ...


PS  I did still manage to deliver the requested liquids!

three of three ...

After a couple of sessions with this guy, i was beginning to really enjoy them ...

The only trouble was that he would arrive late at night, and not actually stay that long.

After this third session ... we were exchanging messages about a possible fourth ... when I put my foot down about not doing a late night wham bam ...

Will have to wait and see whether a fourth ever materialises !

prior to departure ...

I was recently at home packing for a late afternoon flight ... with various dating apps running to keep me amusing during the tedious process !

Started chatting to guy closeby who was keen to come over and get a mouthful ...

So he did !

Quite quick, but quite pleasant.

I left for the airport shortly afterwards, nicely relaxed.

two of three ...

So I met up again with the young guy that I mentioned recently ...

He really is very good at male encounters for a guy who it turns out has a girlfriend !

He's a nice bloke, and it was fun - if a bit too quick for my liking ...

one of three ...

I was online recently and started chatting to this fairly young guy - definitely legal, but younger than i usually go for ...

He ended up coming over, and we had a very enjoyable session.

Whilst he is clearly in the closet, he seems remarkably guilt free and good at kissing for a young guy !

european saunas

I was in european ski resort recently ... and obviously had to visit the sauna complex attached to the local swimming pool ...

It never fails to amuse / impress me how comfortable europeans can be with nudity !

I was sitting in one of the saunas, and as the locals came in, they greeted each other and chatted away ... totally naked.

I just can't see it catching on in London !

Same hotel, higher floor

I recently hooked up with a guy who was staying in a hotel near my office ...

After I arrived and as we were going up to his room, he made some comment about me never having been there ... I didn't think it would sound good to admit that I had actually been to the same hotel about a year earlier !

It was an enjoyable enough encounter, but the guy seemed a bit strange.  Doubt I will see him again.

Barebacking attempt in the steamroom

Looking back at previous posts - there have been 26 entries tagged with gym ... a mixed bag of really enjoyable encounters ... and others ...

I was recently in a gym in an expensive residential part of town, and after a workout, spent some time in the small spa type area of the men's changing room ...

In the steam room there was a slightly older guy who was obviously up for it ...

After messing around with each other ... he moved towards my ass with his dick, and it seemed like he wanted to bareback in the steamroom !

I really struggle to understand guys who bareback ... maybe if you're going to do something that stupid, then doing it in a gym is no more or less crazy ... but it struck me as one of my most bizarre steamroom encounters.

wham, bang, thank you sir

We had been chatting on Fridae for a couple of weeks, and had migrated to WhatsApp ... he looked like a cute guy, and sounded horny ... so I had no expectations of a chaste date !

Whilst he had warned me that he didn't have a lot of time, I hadn't expected such a clinical meet ...

We met up at the tube station and walked back to my place - he was very chatty and friendly, and there didn't seem to be any hesitation about hooking up ...

Once insde my front door, he started stripping off straight away ... and once in bed it was clear that he wanted to get a move on with climaxing !

After we had both erupted, and cleaned up, he started getting dressed but i managed to persuade him to get back into bed for a bit ...

I know that i'm a complete cuddle whore, but most guys seem to enjoy it a bit ... i'm really not sure that he did at all :(

We had a bit of a chat, and he still seemed to be a nice enough guy ... and it wasn't that he was uncomfortable with his sexuality.  He's a medical professional, and I wonder if he's so used to dealing with people as cases that need solving, that he also treats encounters/dates in the same way ?

Date - Encounter

I'd been contacted by this guy on Jack'd who was a lot younger than me, and younger than i normally go for ... but in the interest of broading one's experiences, i continued chatting to him ...

After a few weeks of occasional chats, we agreed to meet up ... fun was definitely on the agenda ... but it was also a sort of date !

He turned out to be very young - his pics had made him look more mature than his age suggested ... but he was really not that mature :(

We went for a walk (via a couple of shops that I need to go to), and had a decent chat ...
 
Nice enough guy, but really the difference in life experience of somebody that young (not that I'm really that old!) was too much - he hadn't really even been into central london, despite living on the fringes.  He kept asking about my favourite films.

He had his first boyfriend at the age of 16 and has always been into older guys.

Once we got back to my place we did pleasure each other, and it was an enjoyable enough encounter ... but i doubt i'll be seeing him again.

How small is too small ...

I'm not a fan of the phrase "size queen" and i don't judge guys on the size of their tackle ... but i recently met a guy who turned out to be really short !

when i'm looking at profiles i don't tend to look at height, as it's not something that has ever really concerned me - i'm average western height, and it's not something that has ever featured as a factor in whether i find a guy attractive ...

but meeting this cute guy made me realise that i feel a bit uncomfortable with a really short guy - i'm not exactly sure why but maybe it felt like i was a creepy adult preying on a child ...

he was mid twenties, but with beautifully soft skin, and being that short he could have passed for a lot younger.

sex was never a possiblity during that meeting - and maybe i would have done it if i had been presented with the choice in the heat of the moment - but afterwards i chose not to try to meet him again, as it just didn't feel right.

gay gene ?

i recently met up with a guy ... we didn't end up having sex ... but we did have an interesting chat !

one of the things he mentioned is that his brother is also gay ... which i thought was quite interesting ...

i know of another family with the same sibling scenario - two gay brothers and a straight sister ...

this guy that i recently met also mentioned what appears to be the other prevalent feature with gay blokes - the lack of a significant father figure ... and this guy said that he too lacked a significant emotional father figure in his childhood.

so, the nature or nuture question remains ... but there's something about two gay brothers which brings a smile to my face !

short and sweet ...

it had been some time since my last encounter ... and i was in an airport lounge ... and once i had wifi up and running i started checking out the various dating apps that i have on my smartphone ...

grindr seemed the busiest with a bloke closeby who's profile mentioned that he was in transit at the same airport ... and who seemed to still be online ...

i started a conversation ... and he soon mentioned how horny he was ... and suggested that since we were in the same lounge, we should sort each other out !

as far as i know gay sex is probably illegal in that country ... and could certainly get us into a sticky situation if we got caught ... but two horny guys is a dangerous combination ...

so before long we found ourselves in a toilet cubicle ... and after a tense moment when somebody tried to open the door ... we sorted each other out without delay !

it really was an intense moment - i had a bit of a headache after a long flight, and shooting with this hot guy in a tense environment really made my head pound ...

we managed to exit without getting caught ... and started chatting on grindr ... and after a while we left the lounge to chat in person ... he seems like a nice guy ...

A film date

I'd tried to meet up with this guy the previous weekend, but he had cancelled as he wasn't well ...

So I had a spare ticket to a film that I wanted to see, and I thought I might as well kill two birds with one stone - and if he wasn't very interesting, then at least I wouldn't have to talk to him !

We'd arranged to meet half an hour before the film started to have a drink, but he arrived really late ... which wasn't a good start.  He also didn't even offer to buy the drinks - which wasn't very impressive either.  He really wasn't my type, and to make it even worse, all the way through the film he was sniffing or coughing !

Afterwards, we had a quick chat about the film and went our separate ways !!

short and not very sweet !

I was recently online and looking for some action ...

It was fairly late, and this guy seemed keen to come over ...

When he arrived he turned out to be a bit of a strange bloke ... telling me how he loved to be fucked by a group of guys ... and a bit full of himself !

Nice enough looking guy, but not good enough to be that cocky !

He didn't want to kiss, which I always find annoying, but we did at least get each other off !!