date with a fellow countryman ...

for some bizarre reason i don't normally find guys from my homeland very attractive ... maybe that's partly why i like living in a big city with such a diverse range of people ...

anyway, i had been chatting to this guy on grindr for a while, and we agreed that we should go for a drink ... after quite a while of failing to meet, we recently went for coffee ...

he turned out to look quite different to his pics - he had already warned me that he wasn't an amazing looking guy - but his pics did look really good ...

he was true to his word !

but then, i suspect that i didn't look like what he was expecting either ...

anyway, we had an amusing time ... but i don't think he is in any way bf material ... suspect that he is too much into his drugs and constant shagging for my tastes ! maybe we'll meet up again for some stronger drinks next time ...

ever decreasing pleasure ...

i recently met up with a guy that i'd met back in february ... we had tried to meet up a few times in between, but never managed to hook up.

this time i went over to his place - a bit of a trek, but i didn't have anything else on !

it turned out that it wasn't actually his place ... and that he wanted the encounter to take place in the sitting room. something really pisses me off about these sort of situations - not sure if it is the suggestion that we are doing something bad, or if it makes me feel like a schoolkid (in a bad way), but it was a real mood killer for me !

i went through the motions, but it really wasn't very pleasurable, and just like last time it was over very quickly.

fun on the side ...

i was recently chatting to this guy who wanted some light fun ... he kept emphasising that he didn't want anything heavy ...

he looked nice, and i'm always up for some light fun ... so we agreed that he would come over ...

when he arrived he turned out to be every bit a lovely as his pics ... but he was barely in the door when he mentioned his bf! i try not to waste my time with partnered guys - i prefer to spend time with guys who might possibly turn out to have longer term prospects (as well as feeling that i wouldn't want it done to me) ... but this guy was so attractive (and smooth), that i probably would have agreed to it even if i had known beforehand !

after a very enjoyable time, we had a quick chat before he headed off into the night ...

minty mouth ...

i had been chatting to this guy on gaydar and we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

in one of his pics on gaydar he had sunglasses, but when he arrived it turned out that he actually wore glasses for sight correction ! other than that, his pics were reasonably accurate ...

he seemed a bit nervous, and didn't talk very much ... and he was chewing gum (probably to hide the taste of smoke) ... but the gum had a strange effect when he started sucking me ... i got a strange tingling feel ...

it was a reasonably pleasurable session - the tingling feel was a new and bizarre experience !

getting head ...

i don't often meet guys just for a quick blow job ... but i was recently feeling horny, and this bloke on gaydar was looking for a guy to blow ...

his pics were good, so i decided to head over to his place and see what happened ...

in the flesh he wasn't quite as good looking as his pics, but not bad ... he was also a bit hot and sweaty, which i wasn't expecting !  after some pleasantries, we got down to it ... and he was quite good at his chosen profession ...

he wanted me to cum in his mouth, so after enjoying the build up ... i obliged !

after disposing of the evidence, we had a bit of a chat, before i headed off into the afternoon ...

i don't plan on making a habit of it, but it was reasonably enjoyable.

another encounter with an asian guy ...

i was on grindr recently and was chatting to a guy who i'd met a couple of times previously ...

it was fairly late, but i was keen for him to come over, and he agreed ...

we had already agreed to have a quick shower together, which was great - what can be better than soaping up another guy, and being soaped up by him ... we were both hard before long !

once we got into the bedroom and had warmed up, things started to get steamy ! as well as the usual stuff, this guy seemed keen on rimming, which i wasn't about to turn down ! but somehow it didn't have quite the same amazing feeling that other guys have achieved - i wonder if he wasn't delving as deep with his tongue as others ...

eventually after enjoying each other for some time, he produced a seriously impressive ejaculation ... and i followed suit moments later ...

after getting back our breath, we cleaned up, and cuddled under the duvet ... after falling asleep together we woke up after an hour, and he left. it was a great session with a lovely guy ...

the best and the worst ...

after a great session, the following day i was contacted by a guy that i had chatted to a number of times over the last year, but never manged to meet up.

he lives centrally, so it was easy enough to stop by on my way home ...

the warning sign was that he looked really different to his pictures - not nearly as attractive. he had decided that the action should happen in the sitting room, which wasn't exactly the most comfortable, but has been enjoyable before ...

however, this bloke (who was quite possibly high) was not looking for an intimate encounter, he seemed to be more interested in the mechanical motions ... it was really quite unpleasant, but it did end in both of us ejaculating ...

usually these sessions end with suggestions of keeping in touch - this time i didn't both pretending, and neither did he !

four years later ...

i was chatting to this guy on grindr recently, and he looked quite familiar ... after exchanging more pics, and checking the gaydar profile he gave me, he agreed that we had met a long time ago and seemed keen to meet again ...

recently we managed to meet up - it was fairly late, and he had an early start the next day, so it wasn't the longest ever session ... but it was good fun ... he was a good kisser, had a great body, and a lovely dick !

after both of us produced a reasonable amount of ejaculate, we lay in a heap on top of each other - it was lovely !

he couldn't hang around for long, but it was long enough ...

we tried to work out how long it had been since we had previously met ... and concluded that it must have been about four and a half years. having found the post from our original meet - it turns out that our conclusion was about right !

another afternoon with ...

part of the reason i write this blog is so that i can go back and remind myself of previous encounters ... so i was surprised to see that it was way back in february that i last messed around with a guy who has become more of a friend than fuck buddy ...

the scenario was amusingly similar to last time ... we were supposed to be going to see a exhibition, and i went over to his place to collect him. i've done the same thing a couple of times since february, but on those occasions, we had a bit of a cuddle, and then went out and did our pre-planned activity ...

but on this most recent encounter, he seemed a bit more frisky, and wanted more cuddle time ... so we ended up in his bed ... naked ! and whilst we both fiddled around a bit, the primary activity seemed to be cuddling ...

after a few hours, i had an appointment to go to ... so we finished off without a climax !

places ...

when i was a teenager, i used to collect places where i'd had a wank - restaurant toilets, back of an empty bus ... it was a long list ...

one of the places that i used to enjoy was aeroplane toilets ... and i recently had an opportunity for a repeat encounter !

i was on a flight with lots of hot guys, and one particularly fit guy in shorts headed off to the toilets ... which put the thought in my mind that i could do with relieving myself ...

so after a few minutes i headed down to the back of the plane ... but the guy in shorts took a long time in the toilet ... which made me think that maybe he was pulling himself off !

when he came out he looked a bit sheepish ... so i replaced him, and enjoyed pleasuring myself, thinking of him masturbating !

encounter with a fellow countryman ...

i've lived in london for a long time, but i don't think that i've ever had an encounter with a fellow countryman ... not that i've consciously avoided it, just that the opportunity hadn't come up ...

so i was recently online chatting to a guy who seemed keen to come over ... after checking that we had similar interests, we agreed to meet up ...

when he arrived he looked ok, but quite different to his pics - quite a bit heavier, and not so youthful !

he seemed a nice enough guy, and it was only when we were almost in my bedroom that we realised that we hailed from the same country ...

the sex was reasonable - he was very keen and eager, but he was a bit too hot and sweaty for my liking ! he wasn't very well endowed, which i don't mind at all, but he seemed a bit anxious at times ...

we had a bit of an accidental insertion - only marginally, momentarily ... but it reminds me that i haven't been to the clap clinic for well over a year ...

it all ended happily enough ... with a couple of decent sized loads ...

he didn't stay around for too long afterwards ... but we were both so hot, that cuddling wasn't really on the cards anyway !

a strange night ...

i was on Grindr recently, and saw a asian cute guy nearby, so started to chat to him ...

he seemed keen to come over, but it was late, and since i have trouble sleeping with the temptation of a hot guy next to me, i made sure that he would be able to get home afterwards ...

he arrived at my place, a little drunk, not quite as cute as his Grindr pic, but still a nice guy ...

he seemed a bit shy ... i wasn't sure if he was interested in me ... he seemed to be relaxing and engaging with me, but then our conversation went in a strange direction ...

after discussing what country he was from, i mentioned that i had met another guy from his country a few months beforehand ...

London being as big as it is, i've never met somebody who knew somebody else that i've had sex with ... but this was a first! he realised he knew who i had met, and seemed a bit upset, as it's a good friend of his! later he said that he wished i had met him before his friend - he couldn't have sex with me as i'd previously had sex with his friend !

i consider myself reasonable picky, but that seems like a very restrictive approach to life !!

it really was a strange evening ... he seemed up for some good cuddling ... and then became interested in my horniness ... up to the point of my climaxing ! but strenuously kept his horniness wrapped up !!

in the end, i let him stay the night ... which as usual, meant that i kept waking up and cuddling/playing with him ... which meant the next day i was dog tired !

i just about managed to do a day's work ...

date outside a pub ...

i recently went on a date with a friend of a mutual friend ... really nice guy, and easy conversation ... but i'm not sure that he's really potential bf material ...

whilst he is a little bit older than me, it seems like his attitude is that of an older person ...

also, there wasn't any real spark for me (even after a couple of pints) ... but you never know what might come with time ...

a one pint date ...

i recently met a guy from grindr outside a tube station ... i wasn't quite sure if we were going on a date, or meeting for an encounter ...

he suggested going to a pub, so i was happy to agree, and we headed for a local pub that i know ...

his pics on grindr were quite different - a couple were really attractive, and a couple weren't so hot ... in the flesh, he was unfortunately closer to the latter ... and he had a strangely shaped nose, that i wondered might be due to excess ingestion ...

when we met, it was obvious that he was a bit camp, but after a while in the pub, it became clear that he was extremely camp ... to the point where after we had both finished our first drinks, i made my excuses and left ... i just couldn't stand it any more ...

he seemed a bit shocked ... but i made sure that i had bought the first pint, so that i could leave with a clear conscience !

another encounter with an asian guy ...

eight months ago, i had met up with an asian guy, who was very sweet and quite sexy ...

i noticed him on grindr recently, as he has moved into a flat nearby ... we had chatted a few times, but we finally managed to meet up recently ...

he is just as sweet and sexy as he was back in September ... and it was a really enjoyable evening ... good sex and plenty of cuddles afterwards ...