2nd time / 6th time with a guy ...

A week after I first met this guy ... we arrange to meet again ... and once more he nearly cancels (this could get irritating) !

But we do finally meet ... first for a quick drink (we both have soft drinks this time) ... and then back to my place ...

Again, both the sessions before we go to sleep, as well as the one the next morning are very enjoyable ...

One fact which I discovered on the previous meeting was that the sounds of sexual activity make him excited ... which is a new erogenous activity for me !

Sadly I can't manufacture the same sounds as last time ... but thankfully he doesn't do any further damage to my bedroom wall ...

The next morning we sit at my dining table to eat breakfast ... all very civilised !

lay-by encounter ...

Whilst most of my friends at this stage know that I meet guys for fun ... I've never admitted to any of them, that I occasionally meet guys in less salubrious locations !

Even GB expressed surprise one time when I mentioned to him that I do enjoy the occasional cruising encounter ...

I was recently on holiday with a straight friend, and one day he wanted a relaxed day off, so I took the car and explored some different parts of the island ...

One of the areas I stopped at was a little lay-by which was mentioned on a useful website, as a place that guys meet ...

And as I arrived, the driver of a car who was already there, took a keen interest ... and shortly after, approached my car ... and motioned for us to walk into the trees ...

As we picked our way through a huge number of condom wrappers ... we were soon hidden from any unsuspecting motorists who might stop to stretch their legs !

The guy was a bit older than me, but not much, and knew how to give good head ... and it was a really quite enjoyable session (despite him never taking off his sunglasses) ... which resulted in him ejaculating at the sight of me cumming (without any manual stimulation of his dick at that point) ... not something I think I've seen before !

I'm sure that there are many serious discussions about why gay guys indulge in this kind of (relatively risky) behaviour ... but for me, it's partly nostalgia (harking back to the days when I was closeted and this was my only outlet) ... and partly because it feels a bit risky, and I get a thrill from that ...

1st time / 2nd time / 3rd time ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years ago ... and we were supposed to meet up, but he cancelled ... and we never managed to arrange another date ...

Seeing his sweet face again on Jack'd, I thought I would try one more time ... and we arranged to meet for a date in town ...

In a worrying sign of history repeating itself, he nearly cancelled again ... but he did agree to meet a bit later than previously arranged !

We started off with a drink (standing outside a straight bar) ... and he suggested going to a quieter bar ... so we went to the only gay bar that I ever go to (about once a year) ... and found a quiet section near the back ...

A gay couple who started snogging nearby was a good excuse to start kissing him ... and after one drink there (him of soft drinks, me on pints), he agreed to come back to my place ...

The two climaxes that night, and the one the next morning were all very enjoyable ... him unfortunately kicking and damaging the wall in my bedroom was less so !

coffee shop date with a posh guy ...

I meet all sorts of guys for fun and dates ... but rarely have I met a guy as posh as this one ...

I was going to meet him near his place ... and the fact that he chose to meet in a nice coffee shop was a good starting point ...

But when he opened his mouth, and I heard the plums ... I was a little surprised !

He was a nice guy, we had a really good chat ... and time flew by ... but I had to head off to an event ... which was a shame, as I suspect that he might have been up for some fun ...

I'm not sure that I would want to date this guy ... but I would definitely like to get him out of his clothes !

smoker ... thrown in the shower ...

I had arranged to meet this guy after he finished work ... and for him to come around to my flat ...

On my way home from the gym I was checking my phone and it turned out that he was ready early, so we met up in the street on the way to my place ...

He was chewing gum (often a sign of a smoker) ... and as we got into my flat, and I started to remove his clothes, I realised that he was a bit smelly after a day in the office ... so I threw him in the shower !

To his credit, he didn't protest ... and it definitely made the encounter much more enjoyable ... and with it being a hot day, sex became a bit of a sweaty exertion - but it was fresh sweat, so not smelly ...

I suspect that he might be coupled, as despite him working locally I had never seen him on Grindr before ... and as soon as he left, he blocked me !

Maybe he just didn't enjoy the encounter ... but considering how much cum he produced, i suspect he did find it pleasurable ...

walking date ... with online afters ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years previously ... but we had never met up ...

It was good to finally meet him ... we arrange to rendez-vous at a local station ... and from there we walked around for a while ... and made our way to another station ... him to head home, and me to go to meet friends ...

He was reasonably attractive ... but possibly a bit too hairy for my liking ... and he mentioned a few times about a problem that he is currently experiencing, which means that he isn't currently looking for a relationship !

Over the next couple of weeks, we chatted online ... and it resulted in him producing a couple of decent ejaculations ... which he was kind enough to share video clips of ...

It has all gone quiet now ... which is perhaps for the best.

Hairy and smelly ...

I was about to leave the city centre ... and was almost at the tube station, when a guy contacted me ...

He was at the upper end of my age range, but I was horny, and he looked reasonably attractive ...

I went around to his nearby hotel, and straight up to his room ...

He looked ok, and so we started to get down to business ...

He was quite hairy - not something that I really enjoy - but the main problem was that his crotch was quite smelly ...

It made oral sex really unpleasant !

It wasn't a very enjoyable encounter, as he also decided that he didn't want to ejaculate ... who knows, maybe I was odorous too !

Anyway, this has really put me off hairy people ... I am actively avoiding them at present ...

sex party ...

I think I've only been to a group session once before ... probably about eight years ago ...

The thing I remember most about that session ... was bumping into a guy from it, at a polite party a couple of months later ...

Recently I was chatting to a guy on Grindr who lived locally ... there were already about 5 guys there ... and he suggested that I come over ...

Since it was closeby, I thought I should go and investigate ... but when I rang the doorbell and didn't get a response, I nearly gave up and went home ... but after walking around the block, he was back on Grindr telling me to try again ...

The most memorable part of this session, was that as I entered the room where it was all happening ... a naked guy who was on all fours on the floor getting his ass seen to, decided that he had to get up and "welcome the new guy" !

I later realised that he was off his face on something, but he did seem to be a genuinely nice guy !!

One of the guys there had a particularly nice body (and dick) ... but there was an older guy who was a bit too full of himself ... and the couple who were hosting were a bit too camp for my enjoyment ...

I didn't stay that long in the end, as they were heading off to the older guy's house (something about having run out of drugs) ...

It wouldn't put me off trying it again, but it wasn't the most enjoyable of sessions ...

same hotel ...

I was staying in a hotel ... and having a look on various apps for a guy ...

And I started chatting to a guy who was in the same hotel as me ... a few floors below ...

I went down to his room ... and we had an enjoyable session ... but he was just back from the gym ... and was a bit smelly ...

It turned out that he was a Flight Attendant ... and had an early departure the next morning ...

asian guy who stayed over ...

I was trying to juggle meeting up with friends ... and meeting up with a date ...

I arranged to meet the date around 10pm - so I thought that would give me plenty of time to have dinner with my friends beforehand ...

In the end I had to confess to my friends that I had to meet a "date" and do a runner ... leaving them to pay the bill !

The date with reasonably nice ... and he came back to my place, and we had a enjoyable session ...

I never get a lot of sleep when a guy stays over (for the first few times) ... but I felt that I couldn't kick him out in the early hours of the morning ...

He has contacted me since then, but I'm not too interested.

strange wfh encounters

I was recently "working from home" - and obviously checking my dating apps for potential encounters ...

A guy contacted me who had a very sparse profile ... but he send a couple of pictures, and he seemed pleasant enough ...

When he arrived it was clear that he wasn't really comfortable - as he wasn't interested in kissing ... usually a clear sign that a bloke is deeply closeted, or has a girlfiend !

We made it into bed, and fumbled around a bit ... but soon after he decided he needed to leave ... without either of us climaxing.


Later that morning, I was chatting to another guy ... who came over, and we had a much more productive session !  However, I'm not sure how much he enjoyed it, so I suspect that he won't be coming over again.

back to the gym / steamroom

After some months away, I recently rejoined one of the big chains of gyms ... and this time went for a higher level of membership to try some of their better locations.

The first time I visited my new "home" gym, I stopped off in the steamroom (located within the men's changing area) before going for a shower ...

I was barely in there, before the guy next to me started playing with himself ...

I had forgotten how much I enjoy being surround by glistening naked men with their dicks on display !

uncomfortably obvious infidelity ...

After hosting a guy who just wanted to perform oral sex ... I was recently chatting to him online again, and he wanted me to visit him and deliver some liquids !

Whilst I know that some/many of the guys that I meet aren't single ... I reckon that if they have open relationships, or if they are cheating ... it's their issue to deal with ... I'm single, and I'm not cheating on anybody !

However, this guy had photos of him and his boyfriend all around his apartment ... and it was a bit freaky.

Guess I'm definitely in the "hear no evil, see no evil" camp ...


PS  I did still manage to deliver the requested liquids!

three of three ...

After a couple of sessions with this guy, i was beginning to really enjoy them ...

The only trouble was that he would arrive late at night, and not actually stay that long.

After this third session ... we were exchanging messages about a possible fourth ... when I put my foot down about not doing a late night wham bam ...

Will have to wait and see whether a fourth ever materialises !

prior to departure ...

I was recently at home packing for a late afternoon flight ... with various dating apps running to keep me amusing during the tedious process !

Started chatting to guy closeby who was keen to come over and get a mouthful ...

So he did !

Quite quick, but quite pleasant.

I left for the airport shortly afterwards, nicely relaxed.