04 July 2007

how to say no ?

in the steam room at the gym yesterday, a guy started showing off his erection - we were the only ones there ... but i wasn't interested, so i tried looking away to demonstrate my indifference !

however, that didn't seem to stop him, he kept showing and rubbing his hardon ...

i didn't want to leave for the showers in case he followed me ... so what is the best way to say no ?

8 comments:

Monty said...

Sometimes, if you turning away and showing your indifference doesn't work, you may have to just say, "sorry mate, I'm not interested".

GB said...

Actually m8, I think that if you make a point of leaving, he's unlikely to follow. I reckon that's another way of saying "not interested".

GB xxx

close encounters said...

GB i waited until he had calmed down before i left, and even then he looked up in expectation ... but i'll defer to your greater experience of such situations !

cuteCTguy said...

I would say - Dont make eye contact!!

close encounters said...

cuteCTguy not making eye contact was the first thing i did - even to the extent of looking in the corner, far away from him ... but he just kept on stroking !

cuteCTguy said...

yuk.. did you feel dirty? Its times like that that I am tempted to report that person to front desk... then I remember that sometimes its not all that bad - especially if they are eye candy. :-) (clearly in my past life).

close encounters said...

don't think i felt dirty, just a bit uncomfortable ... i'm definitely not going to report a guy for doing that - it might put off the more attractive guys from doing something similar !

Sir Wobin said...

Being silent adds to the tension since you're not actually "saying" no. Tension adds to the excitement and encourages them.

Doesn't take much to say "please put that away."