in the steam room at the gym yesterday, a guy started showing off his erection - we were the only ones there ... but i wasn't interested, so i tried looking away to demonstrate my indifference !
however, that didn't seem to stop him, he kept showing and rubbing his hardon ...
i didn't want to leave for the showers in case he followed me ... so what is the best way to say no ?
8 comments:
Sometimes, if you turning away and showing your indifference doesn't work, you may have to just say, "sorry mate, I'm not interested".
Actually m8, I think that if you make a point of leaving, he's unlikely to follow. I reckon that's another way of saying "not interested".
GB xxx
GB i waited until he had calmed down before i left, and even then he looked up in expectation ... but i'll defer to your greater experience of such situations !
I would say - Dont make eye contact!!
cuteCTguy not making eye contact was the first thing i did - even to the extent of looking in the corner, far away from him ... but he just kept on stroking !
yuk.. did you feel dirty? Its times like that that I am tempted to report that person to front desk... then I remember that sometimes its not all that bad - especially if they are eye candy. :-) (clearly in my past life).
don't think i felt dirty, just a bit uncomfortable ... i'm definitely not going to report a guy for doing that - it might put off the more attractive guys from doing something similar !
Being silent adds to the tension since you're not actually "saying" no. Tension adds to the excitement and encourages them.
Doesn't take much to say "please put that away."
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