saying no ... again

sometimes my straight friends think that gay life is all instant hookups, without any work involved ... and whilst i admit that i'm sure men picking up women have to do more work ... i think heteros underestimate the amount of time it takes to find a suitable guy on the apps !

i wonder if my blog give the same, false impression ?

not only is there the amount of time trying to meet a guy ... but sometimes you meet a guy, and the encounter just goes wrong ... or sometimes they just aren't what you thought they were !

i recently agreed to meet up with a guy who was staying in a hotel right by my gym ...

as soon as he opened his bedroom door (in his underwear), i realised that it wasn't going to work ...

he was quite different to his photos.  he wasn't bad looking, but just not what i was expecting.  probably not my type - but if he had used more representative photos, it might have managed my expectations !

i stood by the door as he chatted away.  he seemed a bit shocked when i said that i wasn't going to stay.

sometimes it just doens't work, and you have to say no.

 

California bound

i hooked up with this guy about six months ago ... and we've kept in touch on Grindr ...

a couple of times previously he's suggested coming over, if i would pay for his taxi home (when the tube trains had finished for the night) ... but that felt a bit too much like paying for sex ... so i always declined

recently though he contacted me again, and didn't mention about paying for his taxi ... so i agreed for him to come over ...

it turns out that he's currently working in the gym chain that i use ... it was quite fun having somebody in their red uniform in my bedroom !

after a quick shower (he'd just finished work) ... we both got naked ...

it was fun ... not quite a relaxed as i would have liked, but still fun ...

we chatted a bit afterwards ... and he seems a bit less cocky that last time !

 

Assisted JO

i was recently in the notorious gym steam room that i've written about before ...

the steam was so thick that i couldn't see what was going on over the far side ... but i could hear the sounds ... which was quite horny !

the guy beside seemed shy ... but interested ... and didn't want to get his dick out ... but after i showed some interest ... he started playing with mine ... and i got to play with him through his towel ...

he was a bit rough with my dick, so i didn't let him keep hold of it for long ... but he seemed keen to play with my balls whilst i pleasured myself ...

and before long i exploded.  sadly he didn't seem interested in doing the same.

 

the persistent guy

in one of my regular gyms, there's a guy who is a bit strange ...

he spends huge amounts of time in the steam ... often going back in even after he's already shot his load ...

and he doesn't seem to like to get his own cum on himself, so he puts a little towel on his chest when he's about to shoot ...

i really don't find his behaviour attractive ... and i try to avoid him ... but ...

the other day steam room pickings were slim, and i was about to leave without action ... but he was sitting by the steam room door ...

and as i paused at the door before leaving ... he reached for me ...

and i couldn't help myself ... and before long i exploded !

i really shouldn't waste a good cumshot on a guy i don't enjoy.

 

Silent Cumming

i wouldn't describe myself as a "screamer" but i do enjoy expressing myself during sexual contact, and that includes vocally !  and i also enjoy a guy to make a bit of noise ... including letting me know when he's about to shoot ...

but the other day i was back the in the notorious cruisy gym ... and one thing led to another in the very steamy steam room ...

but the trouble was that there was a straight guy over the other side ... or at least a guy who wasn't interested in man on man action ...

so i couldn't make any noise ...

so the first thing the guy beside me (who i'd already been playing with) knew about my ejaculation ... was when he noticed white stuff on his leg !

he didn't seem to mind !!

 

Relaxing trip to the clap clinic

most of my previous trips to my local STD clinic have been worrying times ... either due symptoms i have experienced or, during my annual checkup, the concern that something will be found, despite my careful approach to encounters !

the other day i went for my second dose of HPV vaccine ... so i didn't have anything to worry about ... although the injection did turn out to be a little uncomfortable

when i was at the clinic a few months ago, there was a female patient who was FaceTiming her baby from the waiting room ... which seemed odd !

this time, nothing so strange ... just a few nervous looking people ...