i'd chatted to this guy for a couple of week on Scruff ... and after a bit, i figured out that he wanted a proper date before we did anything more intimate ...
so we met up for a couple of drinks - and he seemed like a reasonably interesting guy
physically he was smaller than i expected - but he was definitely attractive
he appeared keen to meet another time at my place (he couldn't host) for some naked activities
the trouble was that he didn't seem prepared / able to find time to actually meet
and then when it seemed like we finally might make it happen - he wanted more details about what i wanted to do when we met !
i couldn't work out if he just wasn't that interested in me ... or maybe he doesn't often actually get naked with guys and was nervous ... or maybe he was a bit too self centred to find time for anything beyond his own interests
eventually i told him that we just needed to accept that it wasn't going to happen
he seemed shocked that i was pulling the plug. but i really can't be bothered with guys who don't get on with things !
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