it didn't take much online with this guy to agree to meet up for a coffee ...
maybe it wasn't a good omen that the place we agreed to meet (his suggestion) was actually closed for refurbishment ! but we quickly agreed on a new place ... and headed off ...
he described himself as "out" but discreet ... which i didn't really understand ... and the 2nd cafe that he wanted to go to was a basement place - so not too many people to see us ...
he was pleasant enough to chat to ... he spoke a lot, which i guess is better than somebody who doesn't speak enough ! he was chinese - and I suspect our politics are very different ... but i tried to restrain myself !
at the end of the date, he was going to use the toilets - and said that i didn't have to wait for him ... but i thought that was a bit odd ... so i insisted i would ...
outside we started to say goodbye ... and whilst i was pretty sure he wasn't interested in coming back to my place - i thought i better ask (rather than regret it later) ... but he wasn't !
a few hours later he messaged me to confirm that whilst he enjoyed the date, i wasn't really his type. decent of him to let me know.
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