first time in a steam room ...

this was the first gym that i'd been to with a steam room ... and so i thought i should check it out ... as i walked in, the 2 guys in there looked like they had been interrupted ...

soon after i sat down, a guy walked in - he was completed naked and had an enormous uncut dick ... think he was a bit surprised that the 3 of us had towels ...

he sat down beside me, so i was able to check him out a bit more ... and after a short time i went to get a cold shower ... and the guy chose the cubicle beside me ...

after some eyeing each other up ... we both got dressed and met outside ... and went to his place, which was closeby ... fantastic flat, especially after my previous experience !

it was my first experience of being with a guy who had seen so much of me beforehand ... which was quite liberating / relaxing ...

the guy was a bit older than i normally go for, but with such a gorgeous dick i thought he was worth trying ... and boy did he prove me right ... so expert at having fun - he really knew how to keep a guy happy ! and he seemed to enjoy himself too ...

it was all over a bit too soon - but i guess better short and sweet, than drag it out too much ...

not sure what it will be like when i bump into him in the gym again ... he's a nice bloke, but quite camp - i'd rather not be too obvious about it ...

the mostly english guy ...

after a couple of weeks without action [holidays etc.] ... i was about to logoff gaydar, when a guy contacted me ... his pic looked good, and he seemed like a decent enough guy ...

so i headed over straight away ...

he had said that his pics were recent, but on meeting him i had my doubts - he seemed to have put on quite a bit of weight, or else the pics were from a particularly good angle ...

he apologised for the state of his flat - it really was quite dirty and a complete mess ...

it had been a long time since i'd been in a single bed with another person ... but that wasn't the real problem ... somehow duvet covers didn't seem to be part of his requirements !

i've never quite understood guys who turn the lights off when with another person ... i've assumed that it's either that they don't like the sight of their own body, or the person that they're with ... not sure which it was [if either] in this case ...

anyway, we had some fun ... the guy was an expert rimmer ... and amusingly, when it came to the climax, the guy turned on the light to watch !

afterwards i sat back down on his bed ... and we chatted, for a good while ... he was a nice enough guy ... but he seemed a bit immature ... and a bit too camp for my liking ...

Inspiration ...

i'm not one to look at others and think they have the perfect relationship ... but occasionally ...

i was on holiday recently and in the same B&B were a gay couple ... they seemed like really decent guys ... and they went off snowboarding together each day ... and when the weather was crap, they stayed in bed having sex all day - not too loudly, but not quietly either !

they just seemed like a really nice guys, and a really good couple ... and it made me think what i might be missing out on, not having a partner ...

5th time with the same guy ...

i chat to this guy reasonably often on gaydar ... the last couple of times i have challenged him about something, and he has responded positively ...

i last met him over a month ago ... and we decide to meet again ...

i was a bit late arriving, and he seemed keen to get straight down to business ...

it was interesting that he seemed to have considered my questioning his lack of interest in kissing - he seemed to compensate by being more tactile ...

after some fun, we take a break ... and we start chatting ... we seem to chat more each time, and this time it is some fairly personal stuff ...

after some more fun ... we are chatting again, this time it's some reasonably heavy stuff ... eventually he signals it's time to leave ... i can't believe how late it is by the time i leave - we probably spent more time chatting than anything else ...

he's almost becoming a mate, with fun ... even though it's quite limited !

the agressive guy ...

i had chatted online to this guy on and off for a few weeks ... and we had exchanged text messages a few times ... i wasn't sure whether he was messing me around, but we didn't manage to get it together ...

eventually, after some protracted exchanges, i finally managed to visit him the other day ...

after taking phone directions for the final part, i knocked his door, and he called me in - it wasn't locked ...

his room was partly dark ... and he had gaydar open on my laptop ...

he showed me a few of the guys he had met recently - haven't had that happen before !

we got down to things fairly quickly ... and he seemed quite agressive ... a bit of biting - not sure that really does anything for me ... and he was obsessed with a deep BJ - so much so that i was gagging ... i really wasn't enjoying it much ...

i can't remember many occasions when i actually wanted to get it over and done with ... but this was one ...

i got him to jack himself off ... and he produced a very healthy load - which instantly sent me over the edge ...

after we cleaned up, he again went back to his laptop, and started showing me pics that guys had sent him of themselves ... and kept saying which ones were really nice people - something i certainly wouldn't say about him ... but maybe it's just that his type of sex isn't for me ...

the really tired mixed race guy ...

a couple of days ago i had almost given up after a while looking for some fun ... when a guy opened a chat window ... he seemd decent, and sent a couple of pics - he looked really hot ...

i arranged to go round, and after a slight delay i ended up getting a cab part of the way - seems really decadent, but the guy was in a bit of a rush to get off to meet some friends ...

we met on a street corner - i really hate don't like hanging around, makes me feel like a prostitute or something ... but at least the guy showed up this time !

we went round the corner to his place ... a lovely flat over a couple of floors - his flatmates were out, so we had the place to ourselves ...

i don't think the guy had been with another guy for quite some time ... and he was one of these guys who was more interested in receiving than giving - i think i should start restricting my activites to guys who enjoy both ...

he was also carrying a bit more weight than his pics suggested ... but he was really smooth - which i really enjoy - so i didn't object. he also really enjoyed cuddling, which i also enjoy ...

the weird thing was, he kept stopping - not sure if he was afraid that he would climax, or whether he was feeling weird about me, or what we were doing ...

whatever, we weren't at it for that long, before he climaxed ... which of course set me off !

he seemed quite chatty aftewards, asking me what i was doing for the rest of the day - and actually seemed interested, rather than just going through the motions ...

anyway, he seems like a nice guy - hope he starts enjoying himself a bit more ...

the idiot / nervous guy ...

the website that shall not be named provided another interesting encounter a few days ago ... was chatting to this guy ... he seemed decent enough ... and i arranged to go over and have some fun ...

normally i make sure that i have a mobile number before leaving, in case i get lost, or there are complications ... but this time the guy didn't want to give it out [claimed he didn't have either a landline or a mobile] ...

i thought that i'd take a risk, since he wasn't too far away, and he did give exact directions ...

so i got round, rang his buzzer ... no answer. rang again, no answer ...

i didn't want to waste the 15 min walk to get to his, just because he was in the bathroom ... so i thought that i'd give him a minute.

the amusing thing was that an obviously gay guy went into the appartment block whilst i was waiting - and i think he was probably up for it. but i don't do completely random meets - or not normally !

my third attempt - a guy comes on the intercom claiming i'd got the wrong flat ... but the weird thing was that he didn't seem that nervous. either he was a complete time wasting idiot, or else he got nervous about meeting up with me, and decided to bullshit ... or maybe he didn't like what he saw on the video screen ...

whichever scenario was the case, what a shitty thing to do ... not having the balls to say no, or say he'd changed his mind ...

even in the early days when i sometimes bottled it, i always apologised afterwards ...

can you tell when a guy has ejaculated ?

whenever i have had fun with a guy ... when i'm walking home afterwards ... girls always seem to look at me more ...

can they tell that i've just ejaculated ? it can't be smell - it's sometimes raining, and they look at me from too far away ...

is there a glint in my eyes ? does my skin gleam ? do i smile ?

the south african guy ...

i had chatted to this guy a couple of weeks ago ... but didn't manage to get it together ...

this time it all seemed to happen very quickly ... i was online ... we chatted briefly ... and i went round to his place ...

he and his boyfriend both occasionally have fun outside the relationship - but they seem to be quite happy with it ...

the guy had gorgeously smooth skin ... and a lovely thick dick, with a Prince Albert - first i'd seen ... and it didn't seem to worry him at all with his foreskin rubbing on it ...

feeling below his balls, he seemed to have really dry flaky skin ... not sure if this is some sort of STD ... or whether it was just dry skin. a bit too late to worry about it now - guess i should look it up and see if i need to be tested for something ...

with a porn DVD, it wasn't long before we both came ...

he seemed like a really nice guy ... and his flat was great ! he said he had been worried about having a guy back, in case he got robbed ... not surprised with such a great flat !!

a date with what i thought was an english guy ...

so once again [this is beginning to sound like groundhog day], i had been chatting to this guy online - he had good pics, and his profile sounded good ...

the first time i had tried to contact him, he rushed off ... but i tried again ... and he sounded more interested ... and eventually we chatted for a good couple of hours online ...

he asked interesting questions ... and he sounded very genuine ...

we made plans to meet up for a drink a few days later ...

he arrived a little late ... and looking a bit washed out ... i had a made a bit of an effort by actually wearing a shirt [i'm not good on the taking care of my appearance front] - he looked a little bit like he had just crawled out of bed ... and as ever, not quite as young as his profile pics had suggested !

but, we chatted, and he turned out to be a really interesting guy ... good fun, interesting, and challenging ...

he asked me lots of questions - i tried not to talk too much [i have a tendancy] ... but he seemed slightly uncomfortable when i asked him too much !

he was a little bit camp in the pub [not too much] ... and when we left, he seemed a bit more camp - but not as much as the english guy a couple of weeks ago ...

it was strange - i didn't immediately want to jump his bones - which is unusual ... most guys turn me on straight away ! but he seems a really nice guy ... hopefully we will meet again ... will be interesting to see how things develop ...

the really mixed race guy ...

i'd been chatting to this guy online for a while ... really quite a long while ... he seemed really nice - overused word, but applicable in this case ...

we eventually sorted out a day - to meet for a drink ... but the day beforehand, when i checked that he was still on for a drink, he suggested going to his flat as his flatmate would be out ...

after meeting a friend for dinner beforehand ... i eventually managed to get away, and got a cab around to his place [for some reason it felt a bit slutty getting a cab somewhere for sex - maybe because i try and avoid this over-priced transport if at all possible] ... i phoned him from outside in order to find his front door - he sounded decent ...

lovely looking guy ... i went in ... took the offered glass of water ... he put on a porn DVD ... i never actually checked that he want to do stuff ... it just seemed to start ...

he had said that he wanted a suited guy ... and he seemed to know what he wanted - as in he sort of manoeuvered me into the positions ... but once again, another guy who when asked what he particularly finds hot, can't or won't answer ...

after the usual preliminaries ... our trousers come off, and his t-shirt [but not our socks] - he really has an amazingly slim body - not very big cock, but the whole package is awesome ... his face isn't the most attractive ever, but his body makes up for anything - not that there is much to make up for ! he has a lovely voice/accent - silkily smooth ...

he likes being sucked off - and i'm able to take all of his cock in my mouth ... and he returns the favour ... he also does this amazing sucking of my balls, and around my balls - it was absolutely mind blowing ! eventually he wants me to cum in his mouth ... and as i blow an enormous load, i almost feel like i am gonna piss [i don't remember experiencing this before], but thankfully i don't ...

he shoots load as i cum in his face ... squatting down he shoots on the floor - shame it wasn't somewhere i could use it ...

after cleaning up [he looks funny scurrying around in just his socks], we chat a bit [and i realise that he does a good line in arm waving!] - he was a bit worried that we might be interrupted - so i head off ... with him saying that he would catch up with me online later - an easy way of saying that he wasn't interested in a repeat event ?

the next day i send him a message - to which he sends a pleasant reply ...

repeat with the half african guy ...

i'd met this guy a few times before ... it was fun, but he was one of those bi guys who doesn't kiss - which really is not something i like ...

we chatted online for a bit - and managed to sort out the details ...

i went to see him that evening ... he has a lovely uncut dick - which seems to be constantly hard ... we spend a while messing around in his bed [he's a bit conventional] ... he seems to love looking at my dick ... after a while we both shoot a load - i luv the look of his white cum on his black skin ...

his dick feels lovely when it's soft ... nice and thick ... but it doesn't take long before he's hard again ... and after some more playing with each other, we're both shooting again ...

afterwards we chat for a while ... and we talk about his job - funny that this is the first time that's he actually said much about it ...

i'm not sure about seeing him again - whilst he definitely has his good points, the lack of kissing is really frustrating ...

date with the english guy ...

after chatting to a guy online for a while ... we agreed to meet for a drink in a local pub ...

he was a strange mixture of interesting and conventional ... i thought we were getting on well, but he made a comment about me not asking him questions ... which i think said more about his need to talk rather than about my lack of inquisitiveness [i'm usually accused of the opposite] ...

i was thinking that i'd like to meet him again [he made it clear before we met that sex was not on the cards] ... but as we're walking back from the pub to the main road ... i realise that he is quite camp ... and i find it awkward walking down the street with a camp guy ...

we part, and he tells me to give him a call ... not mentioning that he might call me ...

i don't really know how to tell him that i don't want to meet again ... maybe because i'm not completely sure that i don't want to ?

he has left tracks on my profile ... but hasn't messaged me ...

the south east asian guy ...

once again, i had chatted online with this guy for quite a while - his photos looked good, and he sounded like fun ...

we met in a bar and had a slightly awkward drink ... he was nice, but conversation didn't flow particularly easily ... partly due to his heavily accented english ...

trouble was that i hadn't checked beforehand that if we liked each other that we could go back to his place ... so we left the pub, and walked aimlessly around the streets for a while ...

i haven't messed around with a guy outdoors for ages - it's so sleazy, and the constant worry of getting caught means that you can't really get lost in the event ...

well, we found somewhere, and had a reasonably enjoyable wank ...

shame - he was a really good looking guy [gorgeously tight ass] ... it would have been fun to have had something more relaxing ...

the american mixed race guy ....

tuesday evening ... feeling like some fun ... logged onto gaydar ... after various chats, this good looking young guy wanted to come round, as his flatmates were at home ... but we agreed to wait until the following day, when he could accommodate ...

wednesday morning, walked over to his ... and there was no answer from the doorbell ... rang him up, yep, i'd got the right house, and he'd come and open the door ... a minute later (always seems like longer - never know what neighbours are twitching at their curtains), still no answer ... ring the doorbell again ... eventually he comes down ...

ok, so those photos on your profile - how old are they ? i don't say anthing, but they must be at least 6 years old ... but he's still a fairly good looking guy ... just quite different to his profile pics. we go up to his bedroom ... i'm not sure if anything is going to happen, as he gets under his duvet fully dressed ... so i take it easy ... and we chat for a while - he has a bit of a "talking at you" habit, rather than a proper interactive conversation ... but still, he seems like a nice guy ...

the issue of when we last were with another guy comes up - not sure if we are both answering the same question (his/my accents can be a little hard to understand sometimes) - and he says his last was in May ! i must have got that wrong, surely ! i claim it was a few weeks ago - didn't want to seem too slutty !!

i make a few moves closer to him, and after about half an hour ... we are starting to have some interaction ... eventually clothes slowly start coming off ... and we're down to our boxers ... so we play with each other for quite a while ... and he has this thing about pulling the duvet over our heads ! i've never had this before - makes me wonder is he embarassed about his own body (a bit chunky, but not extreme), or does he prefer not to see mine (slightly less chunky than his, i think) ... it's a bit strange ! and it actually gets quite stuffy under the duvet - i keep having to come up for air !

eventually our boxers come off, although it's mostly body contact that seems to get him off ... he isn't forthcoming with what else does it for him, which i always find a bit frustrating - it's so much easier to please a guy if you get some indications ! after a bit of sucking, and lots more body contact ... he shoots a load ... and i'm not far behind - although my jetstream hits his pillow, (despite my attempt at controlling it) oops !

after cleaning up, and getting dressed, we lie on his bed together for a while (tv still on) ... i ask him about some slight scars on his hand (it's almost becoming a theme) - turns out they are from a family argument !

eventually it's time for me to leave, and he says for me to call him ... i don't mention that he could always try calling me !