awesome session with a foreign soldier

One of the vaguely interesting aspects of travelling, is seeing what apps are most popular in different parts of the world !

I was recently in eastern europe, and it turns out that Hornet is where most of the guys hang out.  Thankfully I have a wide selections of apps installed on my phone, so there's usually something for every occasion !!

My first attempt at meeting a guy failed, when just before he was due to come over he said that he needed a bit of money to help with his study ... and whilst it really wasn't a lot of money ... and whilst I don't have a moral objection to people paying for sex ... I was annoyed about how he went about it ... and I haven't yet paid for sex ... so I told him to take a hike.

However the next attempt (in another city) was much more fruitful ...

His english was barely functional, but with the help of Google Translate, we managed to sort out arrangements for him to come to my hotel ...

We started off with a shower together ... and he turned to be the best sexual encounter that I've had in a long time!  I tend to acquire techniques from different encounters ... but he seemed to have acquired them all, and was able to deploy them in rapid order.  He was so good that I wondered whether he was in fact a professional (and I still have a nagging thought) !

He had a beautifully natural body - although he was clearly very strong/fit, he didn't have that overly developed gym bunny / bodybuilder look.  From the photos he had of himself, and from what I could gather from his broken english, I think he was a soldier.

He seemed like a genuinely nice guy, but after a couple of hours he need to leave ... so we both climaxed (he's the 2nd guy I've ever met who gets horniest when rimming) ... and there was no question of payment !

We were due to meet the following night, but he said that a friend had been taken to hospital and he wouldn't be able to come over.  I still see him on Hornet quite a lot - so maybe he is a professional sex worker ?!

another session with the guy who lives nearby

I sometimes meet up with a guy who lives really closeby ... they are usually quite quick sessions ... and sometimes not very memorable - looking at the messages on my phone, I think I failed to blog an encounter back in January !

I met up with him recently ... it was quite pleasant ... but he is slighly paranoid about not making too much noise, so his neighbours won't hear ... which is a bit dull !!

Maybe next time I can persuade him to come over to my place ...

High and Horny / Party and Play

I'm getting really bored of online profiles with H&H / HH (this term seems to have taken over from PnP / chem session) ... why do so many gay guys take drugs !

I'm so clueless about drugs that when a couple of guys I met up with recently started using a pipe - I didn't even know what they were taking !  Asking friends afterwards, it was suggested that they were probably using crystal meths.

It was a strange scenario - one really fit / hot guy ... and an older, rather unattractive guy ... who seemed to be supplying the cocaine and the crystal meths ... no surprise there !

They were really closeby, and it was vaguely enjoyable for a while ... but it felt like a risky encounter ... who know when they might turn crazy, or what sort of unprotected sex they had previously engaged in.

So I left after about 20 minutes ... without even ejaculating !

another session with the short young guy

hard to believe that it was September when I last met up with this guy ... he lives nearby, and I sometimes see him on the way to the tube station ...

he really is a sweet guy ... but as I said before, the sessions are too short for my liking ... and his mouth does taste of nicotine - but at least the rest of him doesn't !

Over and out ...

After previously enjoyable dates / sessions with the cute (but flaky) guy ... I had two dates with him where we didn't have sex ... he was stressed out over some exams ... but it still wasn't a good sign ...

I asked him afterwards over text message if it was over ... and he denied it ... but we clearly were !


Lessons learned:

1) if they start off being flaky (even if they get better for a while), they will probably revert to type
2) you need more than just good sex to establish a relationship
3) people who act like twenty-somethings are probably too young !

4th time with a guy ...

After three previous dates ... we went to the cinema (we were the only guys in a cinema full of women) which was good fun ... and back to my place ...

Only one climax this time ... this seems to be going in the wrong direction !

No further damage !!

3rd / 8th time with a guy ...

After a couple of enjoyable dates / sessions previously ... we met up again ...

This time we only had two sexual climaxes ... but still very enjoyable.

No further damage to my apartment !

2nd time / 6th time with a guy ...

A week after I first met this guy ... we arrange to meet again ... and once more he nearly cancels (this could get irritating) !

But we do finally meet ... first for a quick drink (we both have soft drinks this time) ... and then back to my place ...

Again, both the sessions before we go to sleep, as well as the one the next morning are very enjoyable ...

One fact which I discovered on the previous meeting was that the sounds of sexual activity make him excited ... which is a new erogenous activity for me !

Sadly I can't manufacture the same sounds as last time ... but thankfully he doesn't do any further damage to my bedroom wall ...

The next morning we sit at my dining table to eat breakfast ... all very civilised !

lay-by encounter ...

Whilst most of my friends at this stage know that I meet guys for fun ... I've never admitted to any of them, that I occasionally meet guys in less salubrious locations !

Even GB expressed surprise one time when I mentioned to him that I do enjoy the occasional cruising encounter ...

I was recently on holiday with a straight friend, and one day he wanted a relaxed day off, so I took the car and explored some different parts of the island ...

One of the areas I stopped at was a little lay-by which was mentioned on a useful website, as a place that guys meet ...

And as I arrived, the driver of a car who was already there, took a keen interest ... and shortly after, approached my car ... and motioned for us to walk into the trees ...

As we picked our way through a huge number of condom wrappers ... we were soon hidden from any unsuspecting motorists who might stop to stretch their legs !

The guy was a bit older than me, but not much, and knew how to give good head ... and it was a really quite enjoyable session (despite him never taking off his sunglasses) ... which resulted in him ejaculating at the sight of me cumming (without any manual stimulation of his dick at that point) ... not something I think I've seen before !

I'm sure that there are many serious discussions about why gay guys indulge in this kind of (relatively risky) behaviour ... but for me, it's partly nostalgia (harking back to the days when I was closeted and this was my only outlet) ... and partly because it feels a bit risky, and I get a thrill from that ...

1st time / 2nd time / 3rd time ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years ago ... and we were supposed to meet up, but he cancelled ... and we never managed to arrange another date ...

Seeing his sweet face again on Jack'd, I thought I would try one more time ... and we arranged to meet for a date in town ...

In a worrying sign of history repeating itself, he nearly cancelled again ... but he did agree to meet a bit later than previously arranged !

We started off with a drink (standing outside a straight bar) ... and he suggested going to a quieter bar ... so we went to the only gay bar that I ever go to (about once a year) ... and found a quiet section near the back ...

A gay couple who started snogging nearby was a good excuse to start kissing him ... and after one drink there (him of soft drinks, me on pints), he agreed to come back to my place ...

The two climaxes that night, and the one the next morning were all very enjoyable ... him unfortunately kicking and damaging the wall in my bedroom was less so !

coffee shop date with a posh guy ...

I meet all sorts of guys for fun and dates ... but rarely have I met a guy as posh as this one ...

I was going to meet him near his place ... and the fact that he chose to meet in a nice coffee shop was a good starting point ...

But when he opened his mouth, and I heard the plums ... I was a little surprised !

He was a nice guy, we had a really good chat ... and time flew by ... but I had to head off to an event ... which was a shame, as I suspect that he might have been up for some fun ...

I'm not sure that I would want to date this guy ... but I would definitely like to get him out of his clothes !

smoker ... thrown in the shower ...

I had arranged to meet this guy after he finished work ... and for him to come around to my flat ...

On my way home from the gym I was checking my phone and it turned out that he was ready early, so we met up in the street on the way to my place ...

He was chewing gum (often a sign of a smoker) ... and as we got into my flat, and I started to remove his clothes, I realised that he was a bit smelly after a day in the office ... so I threw him in the shower !

To his credit, he didn't protest ... and it definitely made the encounter much more enjoyable ... and with it being a hot day, sex became a bit of a sweaty exertion - but it was fresh sweat, so not smelly ...

I suspect that he might be coupled, as despite him working locally I had never seen him on Grindr before ... and as soon as he left, he blocked me !

Maybe he just didn't enjoy the encounter ... but considering how much cum he produced, i suspect he did find it pleasurable ...

walking date ... with online afters ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years previously ... but we had never met up ...

It was good to finally meet him ... we arrange to rendez-vous at a local station ... and from there we walked around for a while ... and made our way to another station ... him to head home, and me to go to meet friends ...

He was reasonably attractive ... but possibly a bit too hairy for my liking ... and he mentioned a few times about a problem that he is currently experiencing, which means that he isn't currently looking for a relationship !

Over the next couple of weeks, we chatted online ... and it resulted in him producing a couple of decent ejaculations ... which he was kind enough to share video clips of ...

It has all gone quiet now ... which is perhaps for the best.

Hairy and smelly ...

I was about to leave the city centre ... and was almost at the tube station, when a guy contacted me ...

He was at the upper end of my age range, but I was horny, and he looked reasonably attractive ...

I went around to his nearby hotel, and straight up to his room ...

He looked ok, and so we started to get down to business ...

He was quite hairy - not something that I really enjoy - but the main problem was that his crotch was quite smelly ...

It made oral sex really unpleasant !

It wasn't a very enjoyable encounter, as he also decided that he didn't want to ejaculate ... who knows, maybe I was odorous too !

Anyway, this has really put me off hairy people ... I am actively avoiding them at present ...

sex party ...

I think I've only been to a group session once before ... probably about eight years ago ...

The thing I remember most about that session ... was bumping into a guy from it, at a polite party a couple of months later ...

Recently I was chatting to a guy on Grindr who lived locally ... there were already about 5 guys there ... and he suggested that I come over ...

Since it was closeby, I thought I should go and investigate ... but when I rang the doorbell and didn't get a response, I nearly gave up and went home ... but after walking around the block, he was back on Grindr telling me to try again ...

The most memorable part of this session, was that as I entered the room where it was all happening ... a naked guy who was on all fours on the floor getting his ass seen to, decided that he had to get up and "welcome the new guy" !

I later realised that he was off his face on something, but he did seem to be a genuinely nice guy !!

One of the guys there had a particularly nice body (and dick) ... but there was an older guy who was a bit too full of himself ... and the couple who were hosting were a bit too camp for my enjoyment ...

I didn't stay that long in the end, as they were heading off to the older guy's house (something about having run out of drugs) ...

It wouldn't put me off trying it again, but it wasn't the most enjoyable of sessions ...