a date in a coffee shop

I recently went on a date with a guy who I'd originally chatted to about 9 months ago on Jack'd.

We started chatting again, and agreed to meet up for a coffee.

When I arrived at the coffee shop, he turned out to be a bit older and less attractive than his pics ... to the extent that I wasn't quite sure that it was him ... but he recognised me.

He had a strange habit of looking me up and down ... clearly checking me out, but I couldn't work out whether in a good way or a bad way !

We chatted for about 45 minutes - he was reasonably interesting ... and we had a few things in common ... but I didn't really warm to him.  There really wasn't enough of a spark to make me want to see him again.

Looking back at recent dates, I'm starting to think that maybe I'm expecting too much from a first date - if the bloke is reasonably interesting, should I try another date and see whether the spark ignites later on?  I'm not wholly convinced, as I've felt an immediate excitement on meeting previous guys that I've dated ...

Maybe I'm just getting jaded, and need time to develop a fire ...

steamroom (repeat) encounter

i recently found myself in the steam room of a local gym ... with a bloke who looked vaguely familiar - not sure if we've messed around together in the steam room, or maybe i've seen his profile online ...

he was lying down when i entered, and we immediately started eyeing each other up ...

after some hesitation ... i moved closer ... and we started to touch each other ...

he had a lovely body, and great dick ... and we even managed a couple of quick snogs !

he didn't want to shoot though - maybe he was saving himself for somebody else ...

he went off to have a shower ... and i followed him shortly afterwards ...

since he was the only guy in the showers ... i chose the cubicle next to him ... and finished myself off !

a brief (repeat) encounter

i was recently on Grindr and was contacted by a guy with a minimalist profile ...

it turned out to be a bloke that i'd met a few months ago ...

i agreed to head over to his place straight away ... he mentioned that he had poppers and didn't seem interested in coming over to mine !

we got down to business fairly quickly ... it was fairly enjoyable, but it wasn't overly intimate !

after about 25 minutes we both climaxed.

quick fun

I'd chatted to this on an off for about a month ...

His profile said that he wasn't interested in meeting up for sex ... but after a few weeks, he suggested that he might ...

A few weeks later still and we finally arranged to meet up ...

His facepic had looked quite cute ... but when we actually met, he wasn't. He was also really camp, which i find very unsexy.

We still managed to get each other off ... and at least he had one redeeming feature !

Overall, not one to repeat.

date in a supermarket

I'd chatted to this guy for a few weeks ...

And we met up for a date ... in a local (up market) supermarket !

He wasn't quite as cute as his profile facepic ... but he seemed nice enough ...

The only trouble was that we both seemed a bit tired ... and conversation dried up after about an hour ...

So I thought that it was time to call a halt to proceedings ... but he seemed a bit surprised !

Afterward we exchanged a couple of messages ... but neither of us suggested meeting up again ...

date in a bar

I'd chatted to this guy for a while, and we arranged to meet up for a date ...

We met at the tube station, and went to a bar about 10 minutes walk away that I'd previously suggested ...

When I first saw him, I feared that he was rather camp ... and so it transpired ...

We had an enjoyable chat, and he was reasonably attractive ... but he was really not my type ...

And whilst I would have enjoyed a night with him ... it would have been unfair ...

So I went home alone !

Not the last time ...

Having said recently that I thought we'd probably had sex for the last time ... it turned out that this was not the case !

I recently met up with my mate to go to an exhibition ... and I was in need of hugs, so we went back to his place ...

He seemed to enjoy the fact that I feeling tired, and wasn't gagging for it ... and we spent a couple of hours in bed ...

We finished off with some watersports ... something I hadn't tried before ... it didn't really excite me much, and there's no way that I would want to be on the receiving end !

An enjoyable afternoon.

understall encounter ...

Looking back at previous posts, I don't think I've ever admitted to having had fun in a public toilet ... so I can't remember the last time that it happened ...

But the other evening, on my way home I was a bit drunk following some after work drinks ... and I stopped into my local cottage / WC to urinate ...

The guy in the stall next to me moved his foot to show that he was interested ... and before long, I was wanking him off ... to completion !

Back in the days when I wasn't out, this used to be a regular occurrence ... these days it hardly happens at all ...

a very brief foreign encounter ...

Whilst overseas on holiday for a week recently ... I hadn't managed to make full contact with any of the locals ...

However, just before heading to the airport, a guy messaged me, keen to meet up ...

I told him that we would only have 10 minutes, but he still wanted to come to my hotel room ...

We met in the lobby, and went straight upstairs ... he was very cute, and very fit ...

We quickly got rid of some clothes, and after some kissing and fumbling ... we were in my bedroom's bathroom ... unloading ...

Probably the quickest encounter I've ever had ... but still enjoyable ...

And I didn't miss my flight !

A date in a coffee shop ...

I'd first chatted to this guy whilst on holiday almost 2 years ago ... he lived in London, and we nearly up soon afterwards ... but it fell through ...

However we started chatting online again recently, and arranged to finally meet up ...

When we did, it was a bit of a disappointment ... he was a bit camp, and a bit too interested in gay stuff ... however he was nice enough ...

Whilst he was very cute, and I could easily have enjoyed some time in the bedroom together, we didn't!

another good foreign encounter ...

After a pleasant encounter whilst on holiday a few months ago ... I followed it up with another enjoyable encounter in another country where gay sex is illegal !

I'd been on holiday for over a week and was very horny ... all of the websites were blocked, but some of the iPhone apps did work reasonably well ... including gayromeo.

I arranged to meet up with a nice looking guy who lived close to where I was staying ...

We met outside his place and he looked fairly hot, and he seemed up for it, so we went up to his flat ...

Neither of us had a lot of time, but it didn't feel rushed, and we made the most of the hour together ...

Afterwards we had a bit of a chat about gay life in a country where it is officially illegal ... and he told me that there's even a gay club ... it's just a case of being discreet.

However, I really don't think I could live in a country where I couldn't show any affection at all in public.

A 4th time with 3 of 3 ...

After an exciting time with this guy a couple of weeks earlier ... we met up before Christmas for a final session in 2012 ...

He came over to my place, and as I walked to the tube station to meet him, I discovered that he was already hard, and already had his dick out !

He tried to get me to do the same ... but I didn't fancy bumping into somebody I knew !!

We went back to my place ... and had an enjoyable evening ...

He stayed the night ... but we unfortunately didn't have time/energy for any activities the next morning.

possibly the last time ...

After the last encounter with my mate, I tried to convince myself that I needed to stop messing around with him ... however I recently failed with that resolution ...

We'd spent a lot of the day together doing various stuff ... and I'd spent the last couple of months mentioning how much he had pissed me off ... and we were both horny ...

One thing led to another ... but it really wasn't very satisfactory for either of us ... so maybe this really will turn out to be the last hurrah ...

A 3rd time with 3 of 3 ...

After two previous meetings, the guy seemed keen to meet up ... and I suggested meeting in town to do something (before enjoying each other in the bedroom) ... but he didn't seem keen ... so I ended up going over to his place ...

He was clearly quite horny, and was sucking me off before we even got into his flat !  He also seemed to have a thing for the outdoors as, despite the cold, we went out onto his balcony so that he could continue !!

After returning to his bedroom, we enjoyed each other to a suitable climax.

A 2nd time with 3 of 3 ...

I've been exchanging text messages with the 3rd guy that I went on a date with recently ...

He seemed like a nice guy, and was eager to meet up again !  He kept asking if I had met anybody whilst I was on holiday - I tried to avoid answering that question !!

He ended up coming over to my place and we had an enjoyable time together.  He didn't seem to be the most adventurous of types, but he still seemed to enjoy the occasion as well.

Afterwards we had a good chat ... although I'm not sure that we have a huge amount in common.

Time will tell.