saying no ... again

sometimes my straight friends think that gay life is all instant hookups, without any work involved ... and whilst i admit that i'm sure men picking up women have to do more work ... i think heteros underestimate the amount of time it takes to find a suitable guy on the apps !

i wonder if my blog give the same, false impression ?

not only is there the amount of time trying to meet a guy ... but sometimes you meet a guy, and the encounter just goes wrong ... or sometimes they just aren't what you thought they were !

i recently agreed to meet up with a guy who was staying in a hotel right by my gym ...

as soon as he opened his bedroom door (in his underwear), i realised that it wasn't going to work ...

he was quite different to his photos.  he wasn't bad looking, but just not what i was expecting.  probably not my type - but if he had used more representative photos, it might have managed my expectations !

i stood by the door as he chatted away.  he seemed a bit shocked when i said that i wasn't going to stay.

sometimes it just doens't work, and you have to say no.

 

California bound

i hooked up with this guy about six months ago ... and we've kept in touch on Grindr ...

a couple of times previously he's suggested coming over, if i would pay for his taxi home (when the tube trains had finished for the night) ... but that felt a bit too much like paying for sex ... so i always declined

recently though he contacted me again, and didn't mention about paying for his taxi ... so i agreed for him to come over ...

it turns out that he's currently working in the gym chain that i use ... it was quite fun having somebody in their red uniform in my bedroom !

after a quick shower (he'd just finished work) ... we both got naked ...

it was fun ... not quite a relaxed as i would have liked, but still fun ...

we chatted a bit afterwards ... and he seems a bit less cocky that last time !

 

Assisted JO

i was recently in the notorious gym steam room that i've written about before ...

the steam was so thick that i couldn't see what was going on over the far side ... but i could hear the sounds ... which was quite horny !

the guy beside seemed shy ... but interested ... and didn't want to get his dick out ... but after i showed some interest ... he started playing with mine ... and i got to play with him through his towel ...

he was a bit rough with my dick, so i didn't let him keep hold of it for long ... but he seemed keen to play with my balls whilst i pleasured myself ...

and before long i exploded.  sadly he didn't seem interested in doing the same.

 

the persistent guy

in one of my regular gyms, there's a guy who is a bit strange ...

he spends huge amounts of time in the steam ... often going back in even after he's already shot his load ...

and he doesn't seem to like to get his own cum on himself, so he puts a little towel on his chest when he's about to shoot ...

i really don't find his behaviour attractive ... and i try to avoid him ... but ...

the other day steam room pickings were slim, and i was about to leave without action ... but he was sitting by the steam room door ...

and as i paused at the door before leaving ... he reached for me ...

and i couldn't help myself ... and before long i exploded !

i really shouldn't waste a good cumshot on a guy i don't enjoy.

 

Silent Cumming

i wouldn't describe myself as a "screamer" but i do enjoy expressing myself during sexual contact, and that includes vocally !  and i also enjoy a guy to make a bit of noise ... including letting me know when he's about to shoot ...

but the other day i was back the in the notorious cruisy gym ... and one thing led to another in the very steamy steam room ...

but the trouble was that there was a straight guy over the other side ... or at least a guy who wasn't interested in man on man action ...

so i couldn't make any noise ...

so the first thing the guy beside me (who i'd already been playing with) knew about my ejaculation ... was when he noticed white stuff on his leg !

he didn't seem to mind !!

 

Relaxing trip to the clap clinic

most of my previous trips to my local STD clinic have been worrying times ... either due symptoms i have experienced or, during my annual checkup, the concern that something will be found, despite my careful approach to encounters !

the other day i went for my second dose of HPV vaccine ... so i didn't have anything to worry about ... although the injection did turn out to be a little uncomfortable

when i was at the clinic a few months ago, there was a female patient who was FaceTiming her baby from the waiting room ... which seemed odd !

this time, nothing so strange ... just a few nervous looking people ...

 

Unexpected Sucking

as i mentioned recently, one of my regular gyms is currently being refurbished ... and as part of that, there are temporary showers installed ...

one of the consequences is that guys don't dry themselves in the shower cubicles (too small, too damp, and nowhere to hang your towel) ... instead they stand in the "lobby" outside the showers ...

the other day there was just one other guy having a shower, and he finished before me ...

as i got out and grabbed my towel, i noticed that he was checking out my dick ... which made it grow ... which made him look more ...

next thing i know he's touching it ... and then sucking it ... in the shower lobby !

sadly some voices got closer, so he stopped sucking

not the happy ending i could have done with ... but a nice surprise !

 

warning signs

one of the gyms in the chain that i belong to used to be a notorious mecca for gay guys ... but the company worked hard to straighten it out ... by removing one of the steam rooms ... putting a big glass front on the other one ... and posting signs warning that the area is "monitored" !

the equipment isn't as good as other gyms, so i haven't visited it much ... but i thought i really should check it out to compare the steam room experience ... especially as one of my regular gyms is currently being refurbished, and the steam room isn't operational !

a couple of weeks ago i tried the notorious gym ... but whilst there were obviously gay guys in the steam, it just didn't seem to happen ... maybe i didn't meet their requirements ...

the other day i tried again, and this time it definitely did happen !

one guy was keen to suck me ... but it was a rather unsatisfactory blow job - he just wasn't putting enough suction into it !

later on, the same guy was lying face down ... and clearly wanted his ass played with ... so i did ...

and soon afterwards he was sucking me again ... and i decided it was time he got a present ... so i shot my load on his chest ... which seemed to inspire another guy to do the same ... and possibly a third - i couldn't quite see !

with another two guys shooting off together on the other side ... it was one of the best steam room encounters i've had in a while ...

i may have to go back !

 

just say no

i had chatted to this guy on Grindr ... he seemed nice enough ... possibly a bit too old for me ...

he lived close to my gym, so we agreed to try and hook up later that day when i was nearby ...

as i was finishing up in the gym, i messaged him again, and he said to come over for a quick session ...

we had previously agreed to have some naked BJ fun ... so i was looking forward to a quick "blow and go" ...

he turned out to be a lovely looking guy, with a great body ...

but as we were preparing, it turned out that he didn't want to remove his t-shirt ... he said that he had spent time getting ready to go out ... and i suspect he didn't want to mess up his hair !

part of what i enjoy about getting a BJ is being able to run my hands over a guy ... and a t-shirt doesn't really allow that to happen ... so i called a halt to proceedings ... and started getting dressed again

we parted on reasonable terms ... and he hasn't blocked me on Grindr ... so hopefully we will get the chance to do it properly another time !

i told a straight mate afterwards ... and he was gobsmacked that i would look a gift horse in the mouth ... so to speak !

 

confirmation

there's a guy in my gym that i first chatted to a couple of years ago ... he seemed like a nice guy ... and appeared interested in me ... but after a while he seemed a bit moody, and seemed to lose interest in me ...

recently he's been a bit more friendly again ... maybe because i've been less interested in him !

he's definitely gay ... and frequents the steam room ... and uses the "gay" showers ... but i've never seen him actually get up to anything ...

the other day there was a guy wandering around showing off his dick, and clearly looking for some shower cubicle action ... and i saw him go into my "friends" cubicle !

finally, confirmation that he does actually have a libido ... and that he's probably more interested in chubbier guys !!

 

efficient action

usually my steam room encounters involve lots of toing and froing, as i try and work out if the other guys are up for fun ... and wait for the straights to leave ... and try and avoid the guys who don't turn me on ...

but the other day i had the most efficient steam room encounter ever ...

i walked in, and there was just one other guy ... and he was fully naked ...

and within a minute we were both playing with ourselves ... and shortly thereafter with each other ...

and within a few minutes we had both shot our loads !

steam room darkness

usually low level light is a good thing in a steam room ... it means that you don't have to worry about guys walking in and seeing what you're up to ... and it allows you to imagine that the guy you're interacting with is better looking / younger / thinner than he actually is !

but sometimes it's a bad thing ...

there are some beautiful black guys who i've had fun with in the steam room ... but the trouble is that if they aren't really close ... it can be hard to see if they are playing with themselves / up for fun !

the other day, i missed out on an opportunity with a black guy, because i just couldn't be sure that he was up for it ...

next time i will just have to get closer !

 

disturbed in the cottage

this is my 8th blog post labelled toilet ...

i keep an eye on Squirt - mostly for my local gyms ... but a new local cottage showed up recently ... so i thought i should check it out ...

first time i visited, the other guy wasn't my type ... and nothing happened ...

second time i visited ... the other guy was quite attractive ... and we were starting to enjoy each other ...

but a member of the public arrived to have a piss ... damn !

even more hypocrisy

i've written before about my failure to live up to my desire not to hook up in gym showers ...

but it happened again the other day ...

it was quiet in the gym ... and the guy was cute ... and i was feeling horny ... and i couldn't stop myself ...

must try harder.

 

popping my cherry

another day ... a different steam room ...

this one is beside the swimming pool ... so it is mixed ... and i had never had any action in it ... despite there being lots of gay guys at this gym ...

until the other day ... i was just wearing a towel ... there was just one guy in there ... wearing swimming trunks ... and a wedding ring ... but adjusting himself ...

before long he was pulling on my dick ... a bit too hard ... so i had to stop him ...

and before long i was starting to cum ... and as soon as i said that ... he whipped out his dick, and shot his load as well !

not a great looking guy ... but it was good to break my duck at this gym !!