Same hotel, higher floor

I recently hooked up with a guy who was staying in a hotel near my office ...

After I arrived and as we were going up to his room, he made some comment about me never having been there ... I didn't think it would sound good to admit that I had actually been to the same hotel about a year earlier !

It was an enjoyable enough encounter, but the guy seemed a bit strange.  Doubt I will see him again.

Barebacking attempt in the steamroom

Looking back at previous posts - there have been 26 entries tagged with gym ... a mixed bag of really enjoyable encounters ... and others ...

I was recently in a gym in an expensive residential part of town, and after a workout, spent some time in the small spa type area of the men's changing room ...

In the steam room there was a slightly older guy who was obviously up for it ...

After messing around with each other ... he moved towards my ass with his dick, and it seemed like he wanted to bareback in the steamroom !

I really struggle to understand guys who bareback ... maybe if you're going to do something that stupid, then doing it in a gym is no more or less crazy ... but it struck me as one of my most bizarre steamroom encounters.

wham, bang, thank you sir

We had been chatting on Fridae for a couple of weeks, and had migrated to WhatsApp ... he looked like a cute guy, and sounded horny ... so I had no expectations of a chaste date !

Whilst he had warned me that he didn't have a lot of time, I hadn't expected such a clinical meet ...

We met up at the tube station and walked back to my place - he was very chatty and friendly, and there didn't seem to be any hesitation about hooking up ...

Once insde my front door, he started stripping off straight away ... and once in bed it was clear that he wanted to get a move on with climaxing !

After we had both erupted, and cleaned up, he started getting dressed but i managed to persuade him to get back into bed for a bit ...

I know that i'm a complete cuddle whore, but most guys seem to enjoy it a bit ... i'm really not sure that he did at all :(

We had a bit of a chat, and he still seemed to be a nice enough guy ... and it wasn't that he was uncomfortable with his sexuality.  He's a medical professional, and I wonder if he's so used to dealing with people as cases that need solving, that he also treats encounters/dates in the same way ?

Date - Encounter

I'd been contacted by this guy on Jack'd who was a lot younger than me, and younger than i normally go for ... but in the interest of broading one's experiences, i continued chatting to him ...

After a few weeks of occasional chats, we agreed to meet up ... fun was definitely on the agenda ... but it was also a sort of date !

He turned out to be very young - his pics had made him look more mature than his age suggested ... but he was really not that mature :(

We went for a walk (via a couple of shops that I need to go to), and had a decent chat ...
 
Nice enough guy, but really the difference in life experience of somebody that young (not that I'm really that old!) was too much - he hadn't really even been into central london, despite living on the fringes.  He kept asking about my favourite films.

He had his first boyfriend at the age of 16 and has always been into older guys.

Once we got back to my place we did pleasure each other, and it was an enjoyable enough encounter ... but i doubt i'll be seeing him again.

How small is too small ...

I'm not a fan of the phrase "size queen" and i don't judge guys on the size of their tackle ... but i recently met a guy who turned out to be really short !

when i'm looking at profiles i don't tend to look at height, as it's not something that has ever really concerned me - i'm average western height, and it's not something that has ever featured as a factor in whether i find a guy attractive ...

but meeting this cute guy made me realise that i feel a bit uncomfortable with a really short guy - i'm not exactly sure why but maybe it felt like i was a creepy adult preying on a child ...

he was mid twenties, but with beautifully soft skin, and being that short he could have passed for a lot younger.

sex was never a possiblity during that meeting - and maybe i would have done it if i had been presented with the choice in the heat of the moment - but afterwards i chose not to try to meet him again, as it just didn't feel right.

gay gene ?

i recently met up with a guy ... we didn't end up having sex ... but we did have an interesting chat !

one of the things he mentioned is that his brother is also gay ... which i thought was quite interesting ...

i know of another family with the same sibling scenario - two gay brothers and a straight sister ...

this guy that i recently met also mentioned what appears to be the other prevalent feature with gay blokes - the lack of a significant father figure ... and this guy said that he too lacked a significant emotional father figure in his childhood.

so, the nature or nuture question remains ... but there's something about two gay brothers which brings a smile to my face !

short and sweet ...

it had been some time since my last encounter ... and i was in an airport lounge ... and once i had wifi up and running i started checking out the various dating apps that i have on my smartphone ...

grindr seemed the busiest with a bloke closeby who's profile mentioned that he was in transit at the same airport ... and who seemed to still be online ...

i started a conversation ... and he soon mentioned how horny he was ... and suggested that since we were in the same lounge, we should sort each other out !

as far as i know gay sex is probably illegal in that country ... and could certainly get us into a sticky situation if we got caught ... but two horny guys is a dangerous combination ...

so before long we found ourselves in a toilet cubicle ... and after a tense moment when somebody tried to open the door ... we sorted each other out without delay !

it really was an intense moment - i had a bit of a headache after a long flight, and shooting with this hot guy in a tense environment really made my head pound ...

we managed to exit without getting caught ... and started chatting on grindr ... and after a while we left the lounge to chat in person ... he seems like a nice guy ...

A film date

I'd tried to meet up with this guy the previous weekend, but he had cancelled as he wasn't well ...

So I had a spare ticket to a film that I wanted to see, and I thought I might as well kill two birds with one stone - and if he wasn't very interesting, then at least I wouldn't have to talk to him !

We'd arranged to meet half an hour before the film started to have a drink, but he arrived really late ... which wasn't a good start.  He also didn't even offer to buy the drinks - which wasn't very impressive either.  He really wasn't my type, and to make it even worse, all the way through the film he was sniffing or coughing !

Afterwards, we had a quick chat about the film and went our separate ways !!

short and not very sweet !

I was recently online and looking for some action ...

It was fairly late, and this guy seemed keen to come over ...

When he arrived he turned out to be a bit of a strange bloke ... telling me how he loved to be fucked by a group of guys ... and a bit full of himself !

Nice enough looking guy, but not good enough to be that cocky !

He didn't want to kiss, which I always find annoying, but we did at least get each other off !!

Baby hit me one more time ...

A bloke contacted who turned out to be into kink !

He wanted to be punished ... and seemed to have fantasies of being hit by his teachers or dad !

I'm not into experiencing pain myself, but if this guy wanted me to slap his ass, then it seemed rude not to oblige !!

His ass looked like it had received a fair bit of abuse over the years ... but he seemed a nice enough guy ...

After pleasuring each other ... and chatting for a while, it turned out that he was partnered ... but i guess his boyfriend doesn't like to slap him !

a date in a coffee shop

I recently went on a date with a guy who I'd originally chatted to about 9 months ago on Jack'd.

We started chatting again, and agreed to meet up for a coffee.

When I arrived at the coffee shop, he turned out to be a bit older and less attractive than his pics ... to the extent that I wasn't quite sure that it was him ... but he recognised me.

He had a strange habit of looking me up and down ... clearly checking me out, but I couldn't work out whether in a good way or a bad way !

We chatted for about 45 minutes - he was reasonably interesting ... and we had a few things in common ... but I didn't really warm to him.  There really wasn't enough of a spark to make me want to see him again.

Looking back at recent dates, I'm starting to think that maybe I'm expecting too much from a first date - if the bloke is reasonably interesting, should I try another date and see whether the spark ignites later on?  I'm not wholly convinced, as I've felt an immediate excitement on meeting previous guys that I've dated ...

Maybe I'm just getting jaded, and need time to develop a fire ...

steamroom (repeat) encounter

i recently found myself in the steam room of a local gym ... with a bloke who looked vaguely familiar - not sure if we've messed around together in the steam room, or maybe i've seen his profile online ...

he was lying down when i entered, and we immediately started eyeing each other up ...

after some hesitation ... i moved closer ... and we started to touch each other ...

he had a lovely body, and great dick ... and we even managed a couple of quick snogs !

he didn't want to shoot though - maybe he was saving himself for somebody else ...

he went off to have a shower ... and i followed him shortly afterwards ...

since he was the only guy in the showers ... i chose the cubicle next to him ... and finished myself off !

a brief (repeat) encounter

i was recently on Grindr and was contacted by a guy with a minimalist profile ...

it turned out to be a bloke that i'd met a few months ago ...

i agreed to head over to his place straight away ... he mentioned that he had poppers and didn't seem interested in coming over to mine !

we got down to business fairly quickly ... it was fairly enjoyable, but it wasn't overly intimate !

after about 25 minutes we both climaxed.

quick fun

I'd chatted to this on an off for about a month ...

His profile said that he wasn't interested in meeting up for sex ... but after a few weeks, he suggested that he might ...

A few weeks later still and we finally arranged to meet up ...

His facepic had looked quite cute ... but when we actually met, he wasn't. He was also really camp, which i find very unsexy.

We still managed to get each other off ... and at least he had one redeeming feature !

Overall, not one to repeat.

date in a supermarket

I'd chatted to this guy for a few weeks ...

And we met up for a date ... in a local (up market) supermarket !

He wasn't quite as cute as his profile facepic ... but he seemed nice enough ...

The only trouble was that we both seemed a bit tired ... and conversation dried up after about an hour ...

So I thought that it was time to call a halt to proceedings ... but he seemed a bit surprised !

Afterward we exchanged a couple of messages ... but neither of us suggested meeting up again ...