date with a fellow countryman ...

for some bizarre reason i don't normally find guys from my homeland very attractive ... maybe that's partly why i like living in a big city with such a diverse range of people ...

anyway, i had been chatting to this guy on grindr for a while, and we agreed that we should go for a drink ... after quite a while of failing to meet, we recently went for coffee ...

he turned out to look quite different to his pics - he had already warned me that he wasn't an amazing looking guy - but his pics did look really good ...

he was true to his word !

but then, i suspect that i didn't look like what he was expecting either ...

anyway, we had an amusing time ... but i don't think he is in any way bf material ... suspect that he is too much into his drugs and constant shagging for my tastes ! maybe we'll meet up again for some stronger drinks next time ...

ever decreasing pleasure ...

i recently met up with a guy that i'd met back in february ... we had tried to meet up a few times in between, but never managed to hook up.

this time i went over to his place - a bit of a trek, but i didn't have anything else on !

it turned out that it wasn't actually his place ... and that he wanted the encounter to take place in the sitting room. something really pisses me off about these sort of situations - not sure if it is the suggestion that we are doing something bad, or if it makes me feel like a schoolkid (in a bad way), but it was a real mood killer for me !

i went through the motions, but it really wasn't very pleasurable, and just like last time it was over very quickly.

fun on the side ...

i was recently chatting to this guy who wanted some light fun ... he kept emphasising that he didn't want anything heavy ...

he looked nice, and i'm always up for some light fun ... so we agreed that he would come over ...

when he arrived he turned out to be every bit a lovely as his pics ... but he was barely in the door when he mentioned his bf! i try not to waste my time with partnered guys - i prefer to spend time with guys who might possibly turn out to have longer term prospects (as well as feeling that i wouldn't want it done to me) ... but this guy was so attractive (and smooth), that i probably would have agreed to it even if i had known beforehand !

after a very enjoyable time, we had a quick chat before he headed off into the night ...

minty mouth ...

i had been chatting to this guy on gaydar and we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

in one of his pics on gaydar he had sunglasses, but when he arrived it turned out that he actually wore glasses for sight correction ! other than that, his pics were reasonably accurate ...

he seemed a bit nervous, and didn't talk very much ... and he was chewing gum (probably to hide the taste of smoke) ... but the gum had a strange effect when he started sucking me ... i got a strange tingling feel ...

it was a reasonably pleasurable session - the tingling feel was a new and bizarre experience !

getting head ...

i don't often meet guys just for a quick blow job ... but i was recently feeling horny, and this bloke on gaydar was looking for a guy to blow ...

his pics were good, so i decided to head over to his place and see what happened ...

in the flesh he wasn't quite as good looking as his pics, but not bad ... he was also a bit hot and sweaty, which i wasn't expecting !  after some pleasantries, we got down to it ... and he was quite good at his chosen profession ...

he wanted me to cum in his mouth, so after enjoying the build up ... i obliged !

after disposing of the evidence, we had a bit of a chat, before i headed off into the afternoon ...

i don't plan on making a habit of it, but it was reasonably enjoyable.

another encounter with an asian guy ...

i was on grindr recently and was chatting to a guy who i'd met a couple of times previously ...

it was fairly late, but i was keen for him to come over, and he agreed ...

we had already agreed to have a quick shower together, which was great - what can be better than soaping up another guy, and being soaped up by him ... we were both hard before long !

once we got into the bedroom and had warmed up, things started to get steamy ! as well as the usual stuff, this guy seemed keen on rimming, which i wasn't about to turn down ! but somehow it didn't have quite the same amazing feeling that other guys have achieved - i wonder if he wasn't delving as deep with his tongue as others ...

eventually after enjoying each other for some time, he produced a seriously impressive ejaculation ... and i followed suit moments later ...

after getting back our breath, we cleaned up, and cuddled under the duvet ... after falling asleep together we woke up after an hour, and he left. it was a great session with a lovely guy ...

the best and the worst ...

after a great session, the following day i was contacted by a guy that i had chatted to a number of times over the last year, but never manged to meet up.

he lives centrally, so it was easy enough to stop by on my way home ...

the warning sign was that he looked really different to his pictures - not nearly as attractive. he had decided that the action should happen in the sitting room, which wasn't exactly the most comfortable, but has been enjoyable before ...

however, this bloke (who was quite possibly high) was not looking for an intimate encounter, he seemed to be more interested in the mechanical motions ... it was really quite unpleasant, but it did end in both of us ejaculating ...

usually these sessions end with suggestions of keeping in touch - this time i didn't both pretending, and neither did he !

four years later ...

i was chatting to this guy on grindr recently, and he looked quite familiar ... after exchanging more pics, and checking the gaydar profile he gave me, he agreed that we had met a long time ago and seemed keen to meet again ...

recently we managed to meet up - it was fairly late, and he had an early start the next day, so it wasn't the longest ever session ... but it was good fun ... he was a good kisser, had a great body, and a lovely dick !

after both of us produced a reasonable amount of ejaculate, we lay in a heap on top of each other - it was lovely !

he couldn't hang around for long, but it was long enough ...

we tried to work out how long it had been since we had previously met ... and concluded that it must have been about four and a half years. having found the post from our original meet - it turns out that our conclusion was about right !

another afternoon with ...

part of the reason i write this blog is so that i can go back and remind myself of previous encounters ... so i was surprised to see that it was way back in february that i last messed around with a guy who has become more of a friend than fuck buddy ...

the scenario was amusingly similar to last time ... we were supposed to be going to see a exhibition, and i went over to his place to collect him. i've done the same thing a couple of times since february, but on those occasions, we had a bit of a cuddle, and then went out and did our pre-planned activity ...

but on this most recent encounter, he seemed a bit more frisky, and wanted more cuddle time ... so we ended up in his bed ... naked ! and whilst we both fiddled around a bit, the primary activity seemed to be cuddling ...

after a few hours, i had an appointment to go to ... so we finished off without a climax !

places ...

when i was a teenager, i used to collect places where i'd had a wank - restaurant toilets, back of an empty bus ... it was a long list ...

one of the places that i used to enjoy was aeroplane toilets ... and i recently had an opportunity for a repeat encounter !

i was on a flight with lots of hot guys, and one particularly fit guy in shorts headed off to the toilets ... which put the thought in my mind that i could do with relieving myself ...

so after a few minutes i headed down to the back of the plane ... but the guy in shorts took a long time in the toilet ... which made me think that maybe he was pulling himself off !

when he came out he looked a bit sheepish ... so i replaced him, and enjoyed pleasuring myself, thinking of him masturbating !

encounter with a fellow countryman ...

i've lived in london for a long time, but i don't think that i've ever had an encounter with a fellow countryman ... not that i've consciously avoided it, just that the opportunity hadn't come up ...

so i was recently online chatting to a guy who seemed keen to come over ... after checking that we had similar interests, we agreed to meet up ...

when he arrived he looked ok, but quite different to his pics - quite a bit heavier, and not so youthful !

he seemed a nice enough guy, and it was only when we were almost in my bedroom that we realised that we hailed from the same country ...

the sex was reasonable - he was very keen and eager, but he was a bit too hot and sweaty for my liking ! he wasn't very well endowed, which i don't mind at all, but he seemed a bit anxious at times ...

we had a bit of an accidental insertion - only marginally, momentarily ... but it reminds me that i haven't been to the clap clinic for well over a year ...

it all ended happily enough ... with a couple of decent sized loads ...

he didn't stay around for too long afterwards ... but we were both so hot, that cuddling wasn't really on the cards anyway !

a strange night ...

i was on Grindr recently, and saw a asian cute guy nearby, so started to chat to him ...

he seemed keen to come over, but it was late, and since i have trouble sleeping with the temptation of a hot guy next to me, i made sure that he would be able to get home afterwards ...

he arrived at my place, a little drunk, not quite as cute as his Grindr pic, but still a nice guy ...

he seemed a bit shy ... i wasn't sure if he was interested in me ... he seemed to be relaxing and engaging with me, but then our conversation went in a strange direction ...

after discussing what country he was from, i mentioned that i had met another guy from his country a few months beforehand ...

London being as big as it is, i've never met somebody who knew somebody else that i've had sex with ... but this was a first! he realised he knew who i had met, and seemed a bit upset, as it's a good friend of his! later he said that he wished i had met him before his friend - he couldn't have sex with me as i'd previously had sex with his friend !

i consider myself reasonable picky, but that seems like a very restrictive approach to life !!

it really was a strange evening ... he seemed up for some good cuddling ... and then became interested in my horniness ... up to the point of my climaxing ! but strenuously kept his horniness wrapped up !!

in the end, i let him stay the night ... which as usual, meant that i kept waking up and cuddling/playing with him ... which meant the next day i was dog tired !

i just about managed to do a day's work ...

date outside a pub ...

i recently went on a date with a friend of a mutual friend ... really nice guy, and easy conversation ... but i'm not sure that he's really potential bf material ...

whilst he is a little bit older than me, it seems like his attitude is that of an older person ...

also, there wasn't any real spark for me (even after a couple of pints) ... but you never know what might come with time ...

a one pint date ...

i recently met a guy from grindr outside a tube station ... i wasn't quite sure if we were going on a date, or meeting for an encounter ...

he suggested going to a pub, so i was happy to agree, and we headed for a local pub that i know ...

his pics on grindr were quite different - a couple were really attractive, and a couple weren't so hot ... in the flesh, he was unfortunately closer to the latter ... and he had a strangely shaped nose, that i wondered might be due to excess ingestion ...

when we met, it was obvious that he was a bit camp, but after a while in the pub, it became clear that he was extremely camp ... to the point where after we had both finished our first drinks, i made my excuses and left ... i just couldn't stand it any more ...

he seemed a bit shocked ... but i made sure that i had bought the first pint, so that i could leave with a clear conscience !

another encounter with an asian guy ...

eight months ago, i had met up with an asian guy, who was very sweet and quite sexy ...

i noticed him on grindr recently, as he has moved into a flat nearby ... we had chatted a few times, but we finally managed to meet up recently ...

he is just as sweet and sexy as he was back in September ... and it was a really enjoyable evening ... good sex and plenty of cuddles afterwards ...

manroulette

i used to engage in phone sex from time to time, especially with a guy that i met on gaydar ...

however, my new laptop has a built-in webcam ... and so i've been using manroulette a bit recently ...

it can be quite hot, but it does take a while to find a guy that is compatible (and who actually has a webcam) ... and they never seem to have sound ...

still, quite useful if you're tired and just want to tug one out !

encounter with a musician ...

i was chatting to a guy on gayromeo who was visiting london, and seemed keen on meeting up ...

i had given him directions, and he arrived at my local tube station, and after some confusion, i went and met him, and we came back to my place ...

he was reasonably attractive - particularly without his glasses - and we had a enjoyable time ...

afterwards there was plenty of cuddling, and plenty of chat - he seems like an interesting guy ...

going to a gay bar ...

whilst on holiday in eastern europe i met a guy from grindr ... and he was keen to go to a gay bar ...

we headed over to the local gay bar, and it was quite a shock ...

first the front door was locked, so we had to be buzz to get let in ... then we discovered that the place was empty ... apart from the barman, and the topless pole dancer ...

we sat down for a drink and a chat ... and after a while the pole dancer came over to talk to us ... i was a bit worried that we would be charged for his attention ... but we weren't !

after a while, a couple of other guys arrived ... and eventually one of them headed off to the dark room out the back with the pole dancer ... whilst his mate sat right outside the dark room ...

it all seemed rather sad and guilt laden !

cruising in eastern europe ...

i was on holiday recently in eastern europe ... and obviously horny ... so looking for sex ...

gaydar isn't very popular over there, and grindr isn't very big either ... however gayromeo has a huge following ...

the only problem is that guys don't seem quite so keen on meeting up, just for sex ... and since i was only there for a few days, i didn't want to pretend that i was looking for anything more !

i left eastern europe sexually frustrated, after the temptation of so many hot guys !

another encounter with a local bloke ... after a long break

i hadn't met the guy who lives locally for some time ... but he contacted me on Grindr recently and suggested that we meet up ...

on the designated day, he came over to mine, and it was great to see him again - he has such a lovely body, and i love having fun with him. the only downside was that his breath wasn't the freshest, so kissing wasn't as enjoyable as it could have been !

bedroom activities were good, and afterwards we had a bit of cuddling time - he fell asleep in my arms, and started gently snoring ! however, he couldn't stay for very long, but at least i got a reasonable amount of cuddle time ...

i guess it must have been a good session, as my hamstrings were sore for the following few days !

llgff

i always enjoy going to the london lesbian and gay film festival ... but this year it was disappointing ...

usually the festival lasts about two weeks, and includes a range of british, european, north & south american and asian films ... this year is was a mere six days, with the obvious lack of diversity ...

apparently the funding from the BFI was halved - a depressing way to celebrate 25 years of the festival.

sounds like it's time to Save the London Lesbian and Gay Film Festival

another encounter with the bloke from the pub ...

about a week after getting it on with the guy from the pub ... we agreed that he would come over to my place ...

it was a strange encounter - he seemed a bit stressed, or a bit rushed ... i suspect that he is looking for more than i am out of it ...

anyway, the sex wasn't brilliant, but i still like being in bed with him !

he didn't stay long afterwards ...

encounter with the guy from the pub ...

I'd been in contact with the guy that I'd been on a date with, but we hadn't been able to meet up ... eventually we agreed on an evening, and he wanted me to stay over ...

He is a really nice guy, but his negativity was obvious again !

He has a great body though, and is a reasonably good kisser, and we had a nice time in the bedroom ...

The only trouble was that he snored like an express train ! I had a serious lack of sleep - even after rolling him onto his front ... and I never sleep a huge amount lying next to a hot guy, as I just can't keep my hands off them !

a date in a pub ...

i went for a date with a guy that i had chatted to on Grindr recently ... his written english wasn't that great, but he seemed like a nice guy, and his pics looked good !

in the pub he seemed a bit too camp for my liking, but he was a really nice guy ...

the other downside was that he was a bit negative - which seemed over the top for the first date !

so, after walking him home, we had a quick kiss in the street, and agreed to meet again ...

encounter with an asian guy ...

i had chatted to this bloke on grindr a few weeks before - he didn't live in london, and we hadn't managed to meet up before he left ...

next time he was in town, he messaged me on grindr, and i agreed to go over to his hotel ... i still don't feel hugely comfortable walking past reception and heading straight up to a hotel room ... but maybe that's part of the thrill !

he wasn't as young as his pics, but he seemed like a nice enough guy ... so we started to get down to it ...

it was pleasant enough, but it seemed to be over too quickly ...

i'm struggling to remember any of the details ... so i guess it wasn't amazingly good !

short encounter with an "Indian" guy

the other day i was on grindr, and was contacted by a guy ... he was closeby, and he sent a nice facepic ... and said that he was looking for "cuddles" ...

well, i'm never one to turn down cuddles ... so i agreed for him to cover over to my place ...

i was going out to meet a friend that evening, so wouldn't have long with this guy ... but he turned up fairly quickly ... and once we got inside my flat he was keen to get on with things ...

he was a nice enough guy, but his breath wasn't very fresh, and he smelled a little bit ... i didn't find him hugely attractive ...

he was ethnically south asian, and whilst naked, asked me if i liked "Indian" guys ... seemed like a stupid question - i obviously didn't object to them, or he wouldn't be naked in my bed ! he also had an annoying habit of calling me "baby" !

but, one thing led to another, and soon he said that he wanted to come on me ... i was expecting him to wank off by hand on me ... but in fact he rubbed himself against me until he came ! it meant that i didn't get to actually see his cumshot (i love seeing them), but it was a new experience, and relatively pleasant ! it didn't take long for me to join him in climaxing ...

an afternoon with ...

i hadn't met this guy since before christmas - he's always so damn busy ! we were supposed to go and see an exhibition, but i arranged to meet him at his place first ... partly in the hopes of getting some cuddles in before we left !

i arrived over to his place, and after he finished off some work he was doing, we started to leave ... but a pre-departure cuddle got him horny ... and so we ended up in his bedroom !

i made it clear that i wasn't happy with a repeat of the previous encounter ... and he seemed to accept that he couldn't just push me away after 5 minutes ... he was much less hot & cold compared to the previous occasion. it was quite an enjoyable few hours ... lots of cuddling, lots of intimacy, and a good climactic ending !

a french encounter ...

sometimes on grindr my gps location gets screwed up, and so i start chatting by accident to guys who are further away ... the other day it happened again ... but the guy seemed quite nice (if a little older than i normally go for) and was keen to meet up ...

a few days later we eventually sorted it out, and i went over to his place ... he was indeed a nice bloke, and was wearing shorts which allowed easy access to his ample assets !

before too long we were in the bedroom enjoying each other ... it was good, and he seemed to really enjoy the male body, which was great ! he did though seem keener on the rougher side of sex, so i had to tell him a few times to cool it !!

we both seemed to enjoy the sex, but he never actually climaxed ... and afterwards he had a post coital cigarette, which seemed ironic !

after some time in the bed together, i was ready to cum again ... but he still failed to ejaculate !

it was an enjoyable encounter ... but after he got dressed, he looked much camper than when in either shorts, or naked !!

encounter with an arab guy ...

a bloke contacted me on grindr whose english was not great ... but he seemed like a nice enough guy, and had a cute pic ... so i agreed to meet up ... but it took us a while to arrange ...

eventually it happened, and he was indeed a nice bloke ... but his english was really quite poor - but i'm used to communicating with people without great english, so i managed to deal with it !

the sex was not that great, but we still enjoyed ourselves. but afterwards we had a couple of hours of awesome cuddling !

he was a really chatty guy, and asked loads and loads of questions - he'd only been in london for a couple of months, and had only met a few guys before, so his knowledge of gay sex / safe sex / STDs was shockingly poor !

the rather sad side of our discussions, was that he could not imagine ever coming out to his parents or having a boyfriend ...

it was quite late when he was leaving, and he kept saying that it was going to take him a long time to get home on the bus, as he didn't have enough money to pay for the tube. it almost felt like he was asking me to pay for a travelcard - but i felt uncomfortable about giving him money, almost as if i would have paid him for sex !

just say no (2) ...

some time ago i wrote about finding it hard to say no ... well four years later, and i still don't find it much easier - i occasionally still end up in encounters with guys that i don't really fancy !

after chatting on grindr, i recently met a guy at the tube station, with a view to going back to my place ... but i didn't really find him very attractive ... so after chatting for a while (he was a nice enough guy, but i just didn't fancy him), when he suggested heading to my place, i declined ...

he was very disappointed, and asked me to reconsider ... but i held my ground ...

it's not fun upsetting a nice guy ... but it was strangely liberating ...

a proper date ...

i was chatting to a guy on grindr recently ... he seemed like a nice bloke, and fairly quickly he suggested meeting up for a beer. most guys on grindr suggest meeting up for sex, so this was a pleasant surprise ...

we met up near his place, and he turned out to be a lovely guy - we got on really well, and enjoyed a couple of drinks ... but i was meeting a friend for dinner ... so he suggested going back to his place later that evening !

i finally made it there quite late, but he was just about still awake ... and we started to enjoy each other ... we were having a good time ... and eventually he climaxed ... but before i had a chance to follow suit, he turned a bit strange ... said he was really tired, and more or less asked me to leave!

this wouldn't be surprising if we had just met up for a shag ... but it seemed odd for a bloke who had seemed like such a nice guy ! ah well, another experience of humanity i guess ...

a guy with old pics ...

i had chatted to a bloke on gaydar who seemed keen to have some fun ... his pics looked good, if a bit grainy ...

he came over to my place, and it was clear that his pics had been quite old - he was significantly older and heavier than his pics ...

we got down to having fun ... but it was not that great - it was somehow not very intimate (maybe neither of us fancied each other) ... and after climaxing, he didn't want to cuddle :-(

not an encounter that will be repeated !

foreign encounter ...

after my abortive hotel encounter ... it was after midnight, but there was another guy who was interested in meeting up, so i went over to his place ...

he had given me the address, but when i got to the location, there was an alleyway, but no sign of the bloke ... after the exchange of a few more messages on grindr ... i opened the gate, and nervously went down the alleyway, expecting the bloke to appear in one of the doorways ...

the first door i came to was being buzzed open, so i assumed that it was him, so i entered ...

there was clearly somebody at the top of the narrow staircase waiting for me ... so i climbed upwards ...

he had already warned me that his "brother" was asleep in the apartment, so our encounter would take place in the corridor outside ! luckily it was the very top of the building, so we wouldn't be disturbed ...

the bloke was lovely - he was only wearing a towel dressing gown, and he had a great body, and sizeable equipment. i was nervous about taking off my clothes in the corridor, in case i needed to make a rapid escape, but i gradually relaxed, and started undressing ...

he was a reasonable kisser, and wasn't too bad at sucking - but seemed keener of receiving rather than giving on that score ! he seemed genuinely to enjoy being with a man - rather than some blokes who just want sex, and don't actually like being with a man !!

we had an enjoyable encounter - especially considering the amount of cum that we both produced !

foreign hotel encounter ...

i was abroad for new year ... and was using the usual channels to search for a bloke for some fun ...

grindr seemed to be the most useful, with the exact distance displayed ... and so after quite a while trying to find a man, agreed to meet up with a guy ...

he came over to my hotel ... he was younger than i normally go for ... and he seemed a bit out of it - i suspect that he was a bit drugged up ... and when we got to my room, he said he was really tired, and that i was the third bloke that he had met that evening !

it all felt a bit weird - i'm not sure if he was trying to get money from me, or if he was just screwed up. anyway, it wasn't happening, so he left without either of us climaxing !