date in a cafe

it didn't take much online with this guy to agree to meet up for a coffee ...

maybe it wasn't a good omen that the place we agreed to meet (his suggestion) was actually closed for refurbishment !  but we quickly agreed on a new place ... and headed off ...

he described himself as "out" but discreet ... which i didn't really understand ... and the 2nd cafe that he wanted to go to was a basement place - so not too many people to see us ...

he was pleasant enough to chat to ... he spoke a lot, which i guess is better than somebody who doesn't speak enough !  he was chinese - and I suspect our politics are very different ... but i tried to restrain myself !

at the end of the date, he was going to use the toilets - and said that i didn't have to wait for him ... but i thought that was a bit odd ... so i insisted i would ...

outside we started to say goodbye ... and whilst i was pretty sure he wasn't interested in coming back to my place - i thought i better ask (rather than regret it later) ... but he wasn't !

a few hours later he messaged me to confirm that whilst he enjoyed the date, i wasn't really his type.  decent of him to let me know.

using somebody else's photos

i was contaced recently by a guy who wanted me to visit him and facefuck him ...

his profile wasn't very informative, but he sent a couple of pics that looked good ...

when i turned up, he had the lights off in the hallway ... but even in the darkness, i could see that he didn't look anything like the photos he had just sent.

since i was horny, and had walked 20 minutes to get to his place in the freezing cold ... i went into the bedroom, and after a while, shot a load in his mouth ... which he then went into the bathroom to get rid of !

i was going to message him afterwards to tell him that he really shouldn't use another person's pics ... but it looks like he has already deleted his profile !

giving and receiving

it's not unusual for me to take two trips to the gym in one day ... but usually one gym has a male steamroom, and one doesn't ...

however the other day, both of my trips were to gyms with male steam rooms ... and each steam room had a guy who was up for it !

the first guy really wanted me to shoot on him ... which i did ... and for which he seemed very grateful !!

the second guy wanted his ass played with ... which i did ... and which resulted in him shooting on me ... for which he seemed very grateful !

usually there's more than one guy in the steam room ... but maybe it was a slow steam room day ... because each of these encounters we were alone, and undisturbed ... which was just as well, as i don't think i could have rapidly extracted my digit from the second guy :)

four shots

there's often more than one guy in the steam room at a time - but usually there's some interaction between some of them ...

however the other day i was in a very steamy steam room ... with four of us just looking after ourselves !

i was the first to come ... followed by the guy beside me ... followed by the guy (with an enormous dick) the far side of him ...

i assume the fourth guy shot as well ... but there was so much steam, it was hard to see !

even more Hep-B injections

back in june i went for my vaguely annual STD check ... which thankfully came back clear ... but said that i needed a Hepatitis-B booster ... which was a bit annoying, as I went through a series of injections a few years ago ... actually about 6 years ago - doesn't time fly !

the other day i finally went back to my local clap clinic for some more nurse action ... but despite having asked me to return ... they seemed a bit clueless as to why i was there.  and that receptionist who looks down his down at me / everybody is still there ... although there was another amazingly cute / nice one as well :)

eventually i got to see a nurse who explained that for some people a standard series of Hep-B injections will give them immunity for life, whilst other people need a double dose of injections, whilst for rare individuals it just doesn't work at all !

so i've had my first, and will have the 2nd in a week's time, the 3rd a couple of weeks later, and the 4th (a booster) six months later.  they will do a blood test 6-8 weeks after my booster (4th) injection to see what level my Hep-B antibodies are at ... anything above 10 means that i have immunity.

hopefully it will work this time ... and actually last !

nipple damage

i was recently in my gym steam room ... and the two other guys were both clearly interested in having some fun ... and by chance i was in the middle ...

it really was very enjoyable having two guys' hands on me !

the trouble came when the guy on my left started getting a bit rough with my left nipple ... first of all with his fingers, and then with his teeth !

i told him to stop, but it was too late ... as i write this a few days later, it's still a bit sore !

one of the occupational hasards of steam room action, i guess ...

disabled toilets have their uses

a friend of mine told me ages ago, about a friend of his, who used the disabled toilet in his gym to have sex.  I've never done that ... but I've now used the disabled toilet in an art gallery for fun !

after we stopped seeing each other back in May, I had stayed in touch with this guy - mostly through facebook ... and he kept suggesting that we meet up for a drink ... but i kept avoiding him, as i find flaky guys annoying and depressing ...

but he suggested it again recently, and when explained how he would probably cancel ... he completely denied his flakiness !  i thought i might as well give him another chance ... so we met up for lunch ... and after some mild / overt flirting, went to see some art ...

some of the art was quite sexual ... and in the middle of the exhibition we both went to use the toilets ... and next thing, we were in the disabled toilet having fun !

the encounter was quite useful, as i had forgotten how our conversations are quite limited - we don't have that much in common.  and whilst he's a cute guy - he's not quite as good looking as i remembered him.

maybe we can become friends with benefits ... although i've never managed to pull that one off !

incognito in the steam room

you might think that if you're going to get a physical with a guy in a steam room it's hard to do it anonymously (as opposed to underneath a toilet cubicle) ... but i recently found out that it can be done !

i was in the steam room, and there was a guy with a towel on his head (as well as one around his waist) ... and I assumed it was some sort of facial type thing (not really my thing) !

but after a while I found myself alone with him ... and his towel was clearly tenting :)

after some tentative steps ... i got my hand up his towel, and discovered that his member was indeed engorged ... and nicely prepared with soap / shampoo, ready for manipulation !

sadly i didn't manage to milk him ... but it was a briefly enjoyable / bizarre moment ...

4th time lucky

i was beginning to think that my run of fun in the gym had come to an end ... a couple of guys who were clearly up for some steam room action ... weren't up for action with me !

usually i limit myself to three trips to the steam room (with cool downs in between) ... if something hasn't happened by then ... i have a shower and leave ...

this time, some bloke was blocking my locker ... and I couldn't be bothered asking him to move all his stuff ... so i went back to the steam room for a rare fourth appearance ...

this time there was another guy there who was clearly up for action, and a guy who had been coy earlier started to get involved as well ...

the new guy turned out to be ridiculously good at masturbating me !  to the point where he managed to get me off in just a couple of minutes !!  it's rare for a guy to be able to provide the right stimulation for me ... but this guy had the pressure / rhythm / angle just right ...

after i had ejaculated he didn't let go of my dick ... which made my whole body twitch / spasm ... which was sort of fun !

who said that gyms were boring ?!

are you ok with us ...

sometimes in the steam room there are guys who seem to enjoy watching other guys get in on, but don't actually partake ...

in those situations, i like to ask if they are "ok with it" ... which sometimes results in them joining in !

the other day I had a rather surprising outcome ...

there were just three of us in the steam room - all sandwiched into the corner ... #2 guy in the corner wasn't taking an active interest ... but the way #3 guy was looking at his crotch, i guessed that #2 guy was gay and ok ...

so i asked #2 if he was "ok with us" ... but he seemed confused !

it suddenly became clear that he was neither gay, nor aware that #3 guy and i were about to get it on !!

i've chatted to #2 before in the steam room, and he's a really friendly guy ... but this time he mentioned his finnish girlfriend ... so maybe he eventually worked it out !

it all ended fine ... but it is one of the dangers / excitements of action in a straight gym steam room !

funeral of a guy whose dick you've sucked

one of my schoolfriends died recently after a five year illness ... and thankfully i was able to attend his funeral with a bunch of my classmates.

although I haven't had much to do with him since we finished school, he was one of my best friends all through secondary school.

he was also the first guy that i messed around with ... one very drunken night in the summer whilst i was at university.  i don't think he had much sex at the time, and if you're that drunk and horny, and somebody offers to suck your dick ... then i guess you don't really care what gender they are !

he was happily married with a kid ... and it never happened again ... but it was really weird attending the funeral without saying a word to anybody about what had happened !

do you want to come to my place

some of the guys that i mess around with at the gym aren't guys that i would meet up with for an "encounter"

when it's dark in the steam room ... you can use your imagination to pretend that you find them attractive ...

but in the cold light of the elevator down to the street ... when they suddenly blurt out "do you want to come to my place - I live locally" ... i'm confronted by my double standards !

i politely declined.

crawling around the undergrowth

i was recently away on holiday with a friend ... and since we were sharing hotel rooms the opportunities for "fun" were quite limited ...

after about a week, I was getting seriously horny, and so when a cute guy wanted to meet up (and he coudn't host either), i suggested that we meet up at the beach ...

the trouble was there was quite a bright moon, and that the only cover was some bushes / trees at the back of the beach, near a cycle path !

we managed to climb in, but I had visions of us being killed by snakes / alligators ...

thankfully neither of those happened ... but it was a rather rushed, and not hugely satisfying encounter !

STD haven ?

i had seen this guy online who seemed to live nearby ... and whilst he looked hot ... he was on PrEP, and seemed to engage in unsafe sex.

one evening i was feeling particularly horny, and thought that as long as i didn't partake in unsafe sex, i would be ok ... so i messaged him, and he agreed to come over - possibly after having sex with another guy (it wasn't clear) !

it was a reasonably enjoyable encounter, and he did try to initiate unsafe sex, but i was strong, and didn't give in !

a couple of days afterwards i noticed loads of little tiny wart like things on my hands.  it made me wonder if there was a connection.

thankfully they disappeared in about a week, without any treatment.

what counts as cheating ?

i was recently enjoying myself in the gym steam room ... where there was a guy who appeared to be gay, but didn't partake ... so i guess he might be partnered ...

which made me think ... what counts as cheating ?

if you watch other guys wanking off, but don't do it yourself ?
if you wank yourself off (whilst watching other guys) but don't touch them ?
if you let another guy touch your nipples, but don't let him touch your dick ?
if a guy asks you to turn around so he can see your ass ... so he can wank off (but not close enough to shoot on you) ?
if a guy asks you to part your cheeks so he can see your asshole ?

where do you draw the line ?!