recycling

the other day it was late, and i had been on Grindr for a while - but it hadn't quite worked out with a couple of guys that were possible meets ...

this guy contacted me ... and after i sent him my facepics, he said that we had met before - but i didn't recognise him from his facepics.

he came over - and decided that he had definitely been to my flat before - told me that he remembered it being untidy !

we got down to things fairly quickly ... and it turned into one of the best sessions that i've had for a long time !!

he was a bit bossy - he stopped me from touching myself ... and it was sort of fun - because i was a lot stronger than him, so there was no way he could force me to do anything ... but it was amusing that he kept trying.

i always produce a lot of precum (when the encounter is good) - but this time i produced crazily large amount ... almost as if i had shot a mini load, that then dribbled out ... i've not experienced that before.

he arrived wearing a cock ring - which was sort of strange, as he said he had been out drinking with friends after work ... not sure when he put it on !  apparently it gives him a more intense orgasm.

he was mixed race, and his parents spend part of the year in Asia, and partly over here - apparently he is out to his Mum, but not his Dad.  he wasn't really camp, but i find it hard to imagine that either his dad doesn't realise, or his mum hasn't told his dad !

altogether a very pleasant experience.

lunchtime

i was at home on Grindr around lunchtime ... and was contacted by a nearby guy ...

turns out that he was horny and looking for some fun !

he arrived over, and was fairly good looking (similar to his photos) ... and we got down to business.

it was a bit rushed, but fairly pleasant ... maybe we can meet again with a little bit more time.

i suspect that he's probably partnered - that he only seems to meet at lunchtime!

is it wrong ?

a couple of times recently i've been in the gym ... and there's been a guy looking for action that i don't really fancy ...

when i'm really horny ... a couple of times i've encouraged him, or got myself off - by looking directly at his dick ... by focusing on his dick, i don't have to admit that the rest of the guy isn't very attractive !

is it wrong ?!

carribean holiday

i was recently on holiday for 10 days on a Carribean island that doesn't have very good interent access !

it meant that trying to meet guys using apps was difficult ... and was further complicated by quite a few of the guys wanting to be paid.

i did meet a nice guy - first of all we met for a chat ... and he ended up coming back to my place.

despite seeming quite horny ... he said he didn't have time to have sex.

we tried to meet again a week later when i was back in town on my last night - but we didn't manage to.

hotel action

the other day i was getting ready to leave my gym, and Grindr pinged ...

it was a guy in a nearby hotel ... looking for action ...

his facepics looked good, and he was very close ... so i thought i could go and sort him out and get to the cinema before my film started.

he really just wanted to suck me off ... but i convinced him to get himself off as well ...

the hotel room was a bit hot - which encouraged a good ripe man smell to develop !

he got what he was looking for - i produced a load in his mouth, which made him shoot his own load ... and he went into the bathroom to spit out my cum.

and i made it to the cinema just in time for my film !

hotel bar date

i had chatted to this guy a good few times - over the space of quite a few months ...

eventually we met - he was staying in a hotel fairly near me ... so we agreed to meet in the hotel bar for a drink.

he looked quite cute ... and i had a reasonably pleasant time chatting to him ... but he was a bit too full of himself.

he didn't seem to be interested in fun ... so after a drink, we said goodbye.

a Tindr date

a good few weeks ago, i started chatting to a guy on Tindr ... the trouble with Tindr (compared with dedicated gay dating apps) is that you don't get a lot of informaiton about what the guy is into when it comes to sex ...

we moved the discussion from Tindr to WhatsApp ... and we agreed to meet up at a bar ...

i came up with a trendy bar (that a friend of mine suggested) ... and we met there - but it was a bit too trendy, so we went down the street to a proper british boozer !

he was a nice guy, and really easy to chat to.

he was supposed to be staying the night at a friend's place - but i convinced him to stay the night at my place ... although he insisted there wouldn't be any action !

we went to bed in our underwear ... there was a bit of kissing and cuddling - and he clearly was aroused ... but we didn't have any sex.

afterwards he stopped communicating ... but a couple of weeks later, he reappared on WhatsApp and said that there had been a death in his family, and he had been back to Asia for the funeral.

the wall breaker

in the old days i never told anybody about my sex life ... but these days, one of my best mates gets to hear some of the details !

whenever i talk about the guy that i occasionally see - he always refers to him as the guy who broke your wall !

a few weeks ago he spent the night at my place ... and we even had croissants for breakfast the next day ...

i don't know whether there is any long term future there.

one thing that is annoying is that he never suggests meeting up - it's always me that has to chase him !


 

not sharing

they say that "sharing is caring" ... so is not sharing, not caring ?

i was in the gym recently ... and the guy in the shower beside me was getting horny - the glass partition in these showers is virtually see through !

we were both stroking away - sometimes right up against the glass ... and before long he was shooting his load ... but he didn't do it against the glass partition.

how selfish ! 

upstairs / downstairs ... toilets

i can't remember how it found it ... but i got added to a group on kik which discusses toilet encounters across London !

there's one in a shopping centre near where i used to work that gets talked about a lot ... it's also close to one of the gyms that i go to ... so the other day, i thought i would check it out ...

first i tried the toilet in the basement ... there were three urinals ... and there were guys waiting to use them ... as some of the occupants were spending a lot of time there !

the trouble was you didn't know if the guys in the queue were also up for it ... so it just didn't seem to work :(

a few days later, i went back again, and went to use the other set of toilets upstairs ...

these were closer to the shops / offices ... and seemed to have more straight guys using them ...

whilst the idea sounds hot ... in practice it was just too risky for my tastes ... and i left both toilets without depositing a load !

 

no 23rd hour

a few months ago i had a very enjoyable post gym encounter with a guy ...

i hadn't seen him at the gym for a while ... but the other day he showed up again ...

we kissed / touched briefly in the steam room ... but it was nearly closing time ... so i suggested that he come back to my place ...

he didn't reply ... and whilst he was happy to chat away in the changing room after we had showered ... as he left he said - see you again here soon ...

post encounter towel / towels

after the Jekyll and Hyde guy had finished, he had a quick shower ... and i gave him a clean towel to dry off with ...

and then when the Oh my Gosh guy had finished ... the towel was still lying around ... so i gave it to him to dry off with after he had showered !

i did feel a bit guilty ... but it seemed like a waste of water to wash the towel after just a single use ... and the 2nd guy didn't make any comment ...

do you give you encounters a clean towel each time ??

oh my gosh

i've had a profile on Blued for quite a while, but don't often use it ... but recently i've started trying a bit more ... and i got chatting to a guy who seemed interesting ...

he lived about an hour away from me (and couldn't accomm) ... so i was a bit concerned about him coming all the way over, in case we decided that we weren't both up for it ... but he seemed keen ... so i agreed to it !

i met him at my local station ... and whilst he wasn't quite as good looking as his pics, he was good enough to invite back to my place :)

he was a funny mixture of camp and masculine ... one of his phrases was "you naughty man" - usually in response to me just touching him !

after a coffee - we moved into my bedroom and things started to happen ... but it came to a juddering halt, after he got me to suck his dick, and then said "oh no, not the first time i meet a guy" when i asked him to suck mine ... wtf !

fair enough if you aren't into sucking - but you sure as hell don't get the other guy to suck yours first ... and i mean push your dick into his face !

after a few minutes (where i considered throwing him out) ... i calmed down and started things up again ... and he did manage to return the favour on the felattio front ...

it was a reasonably enjoyable encounter ... and we both came at the same time, which was good ... and unlike my last encounter

afterwards we had a bit of cuddling (which is always fun) ... but one of the phrases that he kept using was "oh my gosh" (in a slightly camp way) ... which started to get really annoying !

for that, and other reasons ... he won't be getting another invite to my bed !!

i need to pee

the other day i was in the steam room ... there was one guy in there already ... he didn't show any obvious signs of being interested in fun ...

after i touched myself a couple of times (through my towel) ... his hands moved towards his crotch ...

i still wasn't sure if he was interested ... so i was still being careful about touching myself too much ...

eventually he reached down to wipe his face with his towel ... and i saw his hard dick poking out ... busted !

i moved closer ... and we started to enjoy each other ...

i suspect that he may be closeted ... the classic sign being that he was fixated on seeing / touching my dick !!

he got close to shooting a load ... but i think he had been in the steam room too long - he was dripping with sweat (more than usual amounts) ... and in in the end he left without shooting ... saying "i need to pee".

Jeykll and Hyde

i once went on a couple of dates with a guy (who is now a friend) ... and when we got back to my place (finally, after the 2nd or 3rd date) ... without warning, he turned in a couple and absolute bottom !

i had a similar experience the other day ... this young guy who seemed fairly straight acting (and who turns out to be trying to get a girlfriend) ... once inside my flat ... pouted his ass and demanded to be penetrated !!

we had chatted before but not managed to meet up, as he works near where i live, but he lives the other side of the city ... however, this time we did ...

under questioning in advance, he admitted that he doesn't often kiss guys (a sure sign of a guy who isn't comfortable with his sexuality) ... but despite my dislike of guys who don't kiss, i thought it might be fun to meet ... which it was !

we got down to business fairly quickly after he arrived ... it also turned out that he didn't like sucking dick, which was a shame ... but eventually i coulnd't hold back, and i came ... which freaked him out, as some/most of it went on him ...

not too long afterwards he shot his load too.

i assumed that he would leave straight away ... but he came back to bed ... and almost cuddled !

soon afterwards he was hard again, and started playing with himself ... and i provided what assistance i could (which included putting pressure on his neck - which he liked) ... although it went on for so long, that i think i drifted off at some point !  i woke up again, to rejoin the fun ... and in time for his second load :)

afterwards he had a shower, and i got to ask him about himself ... which is when i found out that he believes that he can stop having sex with men once he gets a girlfriend !