another good foreign encounter ...

After a pleasant encounter whilst on holiday a few months ago ... I followed it up with another enjoyable encounter in another country where gay sex is illegal !

I'd been on holiday for over a week and was very horny ... all of the websites were blocked, but some of the iPhone apps did work reasonably well ... including gayromeo.

I arranged to meet up with a nice looking guy who lived close to where I was staying ...

We met outside his place and he looked fairly hot, and he seemed up for it, so we went up to his flat ...

Neither of us had a lot of time, but it didn't feel rushed, and we made the most of the hour together ...

Afterwards we had a bit of a chat about gay life in a country where it is officially illegal ... and he told me that there's even a gay club ... it's just a case of being discreet.

However, I really don't think I could live in a country where I couldn't show any affection at all in public.

A 4th time with 3 of 3 ...

After an exciting time with this guy a couple of weeks earlier ... we met up before Christmas for a final session in 2012 ...

He came over to my place, and as I walked to the tube station to meet him, I discovered that he was already hard, and already had his dick out !

He tried to get me to do the same ... but I didn't fancy bumping into somebody I knew !!

We went back to my place ... and had an enjoyable evening ...

He stayed the night ... but we unfortunately didn't have time/energy for any activities the next morning.

possibly the last time ...

After the last encounter with my mate, I tried to convince myself that I needed to stop messing around with him ... however I recently failed with that resolution ...

We'd spent a lot of the day together doing various stuff ... and I'd spent the last couple of months mentioning how much he had pissed me off ... and we were both horny ...

One thing led to another ... but it really wasn't very satisfactory for either of us ... so maybe this really will turn out to be the last hurrah ...

A 3rd time with 3 of 3 ...

After two previous meetings, the guy seemed keen to meet up ... and I suggested meeting in town to do something (before enjoying each other in the bedroom) ... but he didn't seem keen ... so I ended up going over to his place ...

He was clearly quite horny, and was sucking me off before we even got into his flat !  He also seemed to have a thing for the outdoors as, despite the cold, we went out onto his balcony so that he could continue !!

After returning to his bedroom, we enjoyed each other to a suitable climax.

A 2nd time with 3 of 3 ...

I've been exchanging text messages with the 3rd guy that I went on a date with recently ...

He seemed like a nice guy, and was eager to meet up again !  He kept asking if I had met anybody whilst I was on holiday - I tried to avoid answering that question !!

He ended up coming over to my place and we had an enjoyable time together.  He didn't seem to be the most adventurous of types, but he still seemed to enjoy the occasion as well.

Afterwards we had a good chat ... although I'm not sure that we have a huge amount in common.

Time will tell.

foreign encounter of the pleasant kind ...

i was on holiday recently and inevitably got horny ... whilst gay sex is apparently illegal in the country, judging by the amount of guys on different websites, the law is clearly ignored !

the most popular website in this country appears to be Manjam - not one that I use very often ... and unfortunately it's blocked by the main hotel wifi provider :(

however guys do use the other apps and websites, and i eventually agreed to meet a guy who seemed very keen ...

i had been worried about guys coming over to my hotel room, but i thought this guy was worth the risk ... he turned out to be a bit older than his pics, and not quite as hot, but still damn good.  one of the hardest abs that i've ever seen ... and generally a beautifully lean body ..

he seemed fairly turned on initially, but said that he'd already had a couple of wanks that day, so he wouldn't be ejaculating - which was disappointing !  however, it had been a couple of weeks for me, so it didn't stop me covering him ;)

afterwards we had a bit of a chat and some pleasant cuddling.

3 of 3 ...

After two previous dates that week, I finished off by meeting a guy for a coffee in town ...

It turned out that I had kept the best until last !

He was a really nice guy, and we had plenty to chat about ...

As the cafe was shutting, I asked if he wanted to come back to my place ... and he agreed !

We had a very pleasant evening together ... and I'm pretty sure that I will be seeing him again ...

2 of 3 ...

After the date earlier in the week, I agreed to meet a guy ... we tried to go to the cinema together but he couldn't make it on time, so we met afterwards ...

It was a bit strange meeting outside the cinema, but after a bit of confusion we found each other - I get really embarrassed going up to somebody and asking them if they are Joe Bloggs !

He was a little strange - I couldn't work out if he was a bit slow or if the medication he mentioned that he was taking had a big effect on him.  But he was nice enough, and quite affectionate ;)

Things went a bit haywire when I discovered that he was only 18 - oh shit !!  After telling him that he couldn't come back to my place he got a bit upset and started snogging me in the street.

1 of 3 ...

After recently going on my first proper date in 8 months, I recently found myself with a busy week !

The first date was reasonably pleasant, we went for a couple of drinks in a pub in a part of London that I don't often visit ... He was a nice enough guy, but was a bit wet :(

He was very cute though, and I could easily have had fun with him, but unfortunately he couldn't accommodate !

I haven't heard from him since, so guess this one isn't going anywhere !!

you wait a year, then 3 come along at once ...

after two recent encounters with my mate ... i recently ended up back in his bed !

recent encounters have been pleasant affairs ... but i guess that in the back of my mind is the encounter a couple of years ago that was particularly unpleasant ...

well, the recent incident was disconcertingly similar ... initially he was interested in fun ... but he gradually went cold ... and i ended up sorting myself out !

i don't know if he is trying to mess with my head, or if he is just strange - it's not something that i have experienced with anybody else.  i really need to stop allowing myself to get into such positions - i must stop messing around with this guy.

multiracial steam room ...

i used to regularly have fun in my gym's steam room ... but unfortunately my local gym removed the steam room from the men's changing room ... but there are still a few gyms around with men only steam rooms ...

recently i was in one that looked like it had potential ... firstly a fit white guy and a fit black guy started playing with each other ... then the white guy left ...

a few minutes later i had a latino guy on one side and the black guy on the other ... both playing with themselves ... and me playing with the latino guy ...

unfortunately we got disturbed, and i had to leave before the situation climaxed ...

An outdoor encounter

I don't remember having fun outdoor since a reasonably pleasant incident with my ex ... but recently i was off visiting a country house with my mate with whom i occasionally have fun ...

one thing led to another, and we ended up pleasuring each other in the bushes far from prying eyes ...

it was reasonably enjoyable, but his obsession with not being seen did detract somewhat from the encounter !

a smooth evening ...

i had seen this guy on gaydar before and the other day he contacted me on grindr ... and after swapping facepics, he seemed keen to meet up ...

we swapped mobile numbers, but it was quite strange, as i already had his details in own my own phone !  i arrived at his place, and it did seem vaguely familiar ... but it could have been a long time ago that i visited him ... my memory is good, but not perfect !!

we had an enjoyable session ... he was a bit older than the guys that i normally meet, but he was a nice, and i think we provided each other with a mutually enjoyable experience.

afterwards we cuddled and chatted for about an hour.

forgive give, it's been 8 months since my last ...

a friend recently introduced me to a new app for meeting guys ... and since it's relatively new (and is still gaining a following), you get to see guys all over london (rather than a thousand guys within 1km!) ...

so it was that i ended up chatting to a guy who lives near the southbank in the centre of town ... and i somehow ended up going on a date with him!  i've been quite bad lately, and tend to meet guys for fun, rather actually going for a proper date - it looks like it's been about 8 months since my last date.

we both arrived at the pub around the same time, and the fact that he recognised me better than i did him suggested that my pics were more acurrate than his!  his profile pics were really cute, but i suspect a good few years old - he wasn't nearly as hot in person compared to his pics :(

after the initial disappointment, we sat down for a drink, and he turned out to be a really interesting guy - we had a lot of similar interests, and he had plenty of challenging takes on the world!  after a couple of pints, we went for a meal nearby.

all very pleasant, but the killer is that i just didn't fancy him.

One year later ...

I knew it had been quite a while since we had last messed around ... but it was only when I was looking for my previous post that I discovered that it was a full year !

In a similar scenario to last July, we had spent the day together doing various stuff around town (as we do from time to time), and we ended up back at his place (which doesn't often happen) ... and at the end of the evening, we ended up in bed ...

He wanted full on sex, but for some reason I didn't - very unusual for me.  I find him hugely attractive, and I absolutely know that there is no relationship prospect, but for some reason, my head said no!  So we messed around, and it was a bit strange, because the more I put up the barriers, the more he wanted it ...

We ended up climaxing, but it was all a bit odd.  Hopefully it won't sour our friendship ...