so many of my "steam room" post start with a description of waiting for the straight guys to leave before the Men who have Sex with Men get left alone to do their worst ...
but sometimes, even when it's only the gays left ... it still doesn't work !
the other day i was in the steam with four other guys who were definitely into guys ... but for some reason it just wasn't working ...
sometimes it's a question of layout - if the guys who are turned on by each other aren't seated beside each other ... then it just doesn't happen ...
sometimes it's a question of timing - if one (or more) of the guys aren't up for it ... then they can act as an anti catalyst ... and then it just doesn't happen ...
it felt like such a waste ... but after a while i just removed myself from the steam, and left without exploding
13 December 2018
11 December 2018
handshake
i've had some odd encounters in the steam room over the years ...
one of my favourite memories is of the bloke who was being hurried along by his straight mates ...
the other day i had a different experience ...
i'm sure i've seen the guy before - he's a nice enough guy, but he's overweight, and not really my type ... but when you're feeling horny ...
it was just the two of us left in the steam room ... but he was nervous and kept covering up ...
eventually we both shot our loads ... although his was so small that i missed it !
afterwards we chatted for a couple of minutes whilst cleaning up and calming down ...
as he left the steam room, he said "maybe seen you tomorrow" ... and extended his hand to shake mine ... which was still covered in cum !
one of my favourite memories is of the bloke who was being hurried along by his straight mates ...
the other day i had a different experience ...
i'm sure i've seen the guy before - he's a nice enough guy, but he's overweight, and not really my type ... but when you're feeling horny ...
it was just the two of us left in the steam room ... but he was nervous and kept covering up ...
eventually we both shot our loads ... although his was so small that i missed it !
afterwards we chatted for a couple of minutes whilst cleaning up and calming down ...
as he left the steam room, he said "maybe seen you tomorrow" ... and extended his hand to shake mine ... which was still covered in cum !
09 December 2018
covering up
it's fairly common to have to suddenly stop pleasuring oneself in the steam room, and cover up with your towel as somebody approaches or walks past ...
the other day i had a slightly different experience ... as another guy was playing with my dick ... when he noticed that somebody was coming ...
he let go of my dick, and moved my own towel to cover it !
i've never had a guy protect my modesty before !!
we tried again in the sauna later on, but it wasn't discreet enough for him ...
maybe we will manage it next time
the other day i had a slightly different experience ... as another guy was playing with my dick ... when he noticed that somebody was coming ...
he let go of my dick, and moved my own towel to cover it !
i've never had a guy protect my modesty before !!
we tried again in the sauna later on, but it wasn't discreet enough for him ...
maybe we will manage it next time
07 December 2018
a decade later
i met a guy years ago for a date ... and we ended up in his flat ... but his flatmate (also his ex) was asleep upstairs, so we had to be quiet ... so ended up shooting in the kitchen !
it was all very odd ... and i've bumped into him a few times since - i suspect he still lives in the same place ... and i've seen him on Grindr ... but i've never actually met up with him again
but the other day i was in one of my local gyms ... which has a jacuzzi in the men's locker room ... and saw him standing in it naked ... which was a nice surprise !
i smiled at him ... and went into the steam ... and before long he followed me in ...
and we got to work on each other ...
he's obviously older than the last time i had my hands on him ... and has developed little man breasts ... but otherwise he is still in great shape ... and has a beautiful uncut dick
it didn't take long before i was expressing my pleasure in liquid form ... but he didn't seem up for shooting ...
maybe i can persuade him to cum next time !
it was all very odd ... and i've bumped into him a few times since - i suspect he still lives in the same place ... and i've seen him on Grindr ... but i've never actually met up with him again
but the other day i was in one of my local gyms ... which has a jacuzzi in the men's locker room ... and saw him standing in it naked ... which was a nice surprise !
i smiled at him ... and went into the steam ... and before long he followed me in ...
and we got to work on each other ...
he's obviously older than the last time i had my hands on him ... and has developed little man breasts ... but otherwise he is still in great shape ... and has a beautiful uncut dick
it didn't take long before i was expressing my pleasure in liquid form ... but he didn't seem up for shooting ...
maybe i can persuade him to cum next time !
06 December 2018
London Adult shops - Amex Shop Small offer
For the last few years American Express has been running a scheme in the first half of December to encourage customers to use their cards in smaller shops. What they offer is a five quid statement credit when you spend 10 pounds or more - what is a damn fine offer! This year it runs until Sunday 16th December
Last year i used the offer as a spur to do a tour of some of London’s sex shops - quite a few of which are included ! I meant to write up my findings - but failed. This year I’ve revisited my findings, and have actually managed to put pen to paper ...
First it’s worth saying that even though I live in one of the most gay friendly cities on the planet, my heart still raced as i entered a sex shop for the first time in ages. You’d think that I would have lost the fear by now, but maybe entering a sex shop brings back memories of buying porn mags during my closeted years !
Anyway, onto the adult shops … if you’re only going to visit one sex shop in London, i would recommend heading over to Angel tube station, and going to a place called Regulation. Firstly it’s very discreet - down a side street, and without big windows for people to look in and see you trying to select the right dildo for you. They operate a buzzer entry system, presumably to keep out the hen parties. Or if somebody happens to be coming out they will hold the door for you. Secondly the staff have been very friendly the couple of times that i’ve been there. In some other shops staff can get be a bit full of themselves, but not here. And thirdly the shop has more space than others, and so it feels more relaxed and less hemmed in. There’s a decent range of gear, but maybe not quite as much as in some others - it’s still my top choice though.
However they are moving to a new place in Soho, which opens on 21st December, and the Islington branch will apparently close a few days beforehand so they can move their stock across. So don’t delay, and get yourself over to Angel.
My second choice is Clone Zone in Earls Court. It’s more discreet than other shops, as they don’t have windows for everybody to see you. The staff are also fairly friendly - although i wonder how many customers actually respond when asked if they need help (with their dildo selection). This shop is more tightly packed than Regulation, but it means they hold a good selection for a fairly small place. There’s also a basement that you should go and have a look at !
My third recommendation is Soho Original Books on Brewer St. It does have big windows, so people can see you inside, but there’s a certain "plausible deniability” about being in a shop with “Books” in the name! This place is a mix of male and female sex objects, but probably more towards the gay side. The basement is mostly dvds and magazines and some other stuff. The place has a slightly seedy feel - but in a reassuring sort of a way!
Also in Soho is Clone Zone on Old Compton St. It’s not very discreet, with big windows, so don’t go there first if you’re nervous. It’s a bit tightly packed so isn’t one of my favourites. It also had a basement section which is definitely worth a visit.
If you’re checking out the shops in the Amex promotion, and come across one called Closet Case on Brewer St, don’t get excited. It turns out to be a posh clothes shop!
There’s also a could of gay sex shops in Soho which are not part of the Amex Shop Small offer, as far as I can see - notably one starting with P, and it’s sister shop P Red.
Over by Old Street tube there’s a shop called Gear at 75 Great Eastern St. Last year when i visited the premises it was called Expectations - but it’s now owned by a german company and been rebranded. The whole shop is in the basement - but it’s quite open and visible from the street - so again don’t go here first if you’re getting used to whole gay sex shop lark. A lot of the store is given over to clothing, but they have a decent amount of sex objects, including some more extreme items. However quite a lot of their objects are kept in glass cabinets, which may keep out shoplifters, but isn’t really helpful for potential buyers. They also have a urinal on full display. And maybe taking a leaf out of the current fad for bike shops to have a cafe, they also have a proper coffee machine - although i wasn’t offered one during my relatively short visit! The shop is located in an area with lots of offices, and it felt slightly odd visiting it at 5pm - but i’m sure at other times it would be fine!
One shop that it included in Amex Shop Small is Fetch in Clapham High St - but sadly I haven’t yet managed to check it out. I’ll update this post if I manage to do so before Amex Shop Small finishes.
Another place that’s included in Amex SS is Gay’s the Word on Marchmond Street, north of Russell Sq tube station. It’s a fairly small, and a little squashed book shop aimed at gay people.
One place that I visited last year was Harmony, who have branches on both Oxford St and Charing Cross Road. I found the shop pretty grim - it seemed to be aimed at the hen party, jokey side of the customer base.
Hopefully something here will be useful. Let me know if there are any others that I should go and take a look at.
Last year i used the offer as a spur to do a tour of some of London’s sex shops - quite a few of which are included ! I meant to write up my findings - but failed. This year I’ve revisited my findings, and have actually managed to put pen to paper ...
First it’s worth saying that even though I live in one of the most gay friendly cities on the planet, my heart still raced as i entered a sex shop for the first time in ages. You’d think that I would have lost the fear by now, but maybe entering a sex shop brings back memories of buying porn mags during my closeted years !
Anyway, onto the adult shops … if you’re only going to visit one sex shop in London, i would recommend heading over to Angel tube station, and going to a place called Regulation. Firstly it’s very discreet - down a side street, and without big windows for people to look in and see you trying to select the right dildo for you. They operate a buzzer entry system, presumably to keep out the hen parties. Or if somebody happens to be coming out they will hold the door for you. Secondly the staff have been very friendly the couple of times that i’ve been there. In some other shops staff can get be a bit full of themselves, but not here. And thirdly the shop has more space than others, and so it feels more relaxed and less hemmed in. There’s a decent range of gear, but maybe not quite as much as in some others - it’s still my top choice though.
However they are moving to a new place in Soho, which opens on 21st December, and the Islington branch will apparently close a few days beforehand so they can move their stock across. So don’t delay, and get yourself over to Angel.
My second choice is Clone Zone in Earls Court. It’s more discreet than other shops, as they don’t have windows for everybody to see you. The staff are also fairly friendly - although i wonder how many customers actually respond when asked if they need help (with their dildo selection). This shop is more tightly packed than Regulation, but it means they hold a good selection for a fairly small place. There’s also a basement that you should go and have a look at !
My third recommendation is Soho Original Books on Brewer St. It does have big windows, so people can see you inside, but there’s a certain "plausible deniability” about being in a shop with “Books” in the name! This place is a mix of male and female sex objects, but probably more towards the gay side. The basement is mostly dvds and magazines and some other stuff. The place has a slightly seedy feel - but in a reassuring sort of a way!
Also in Soho is Clone Zone on Old Compton St. It’s not very discreet, with big windows, so don’t go there first if you’re nervous. It’s a bit tightly packed so isn’t one of my favourites. It also had a basement section which is definitely worth a visit.
If you’re checking out the shops in the Amex promotion, and come across one called Closet Case on Brewer St, don’t get excited. It turns out to be a posh clothes shop!
There’s also a could of gay sex shops in Soho which are not part of the Amex Shop Small offer, as far as I can see - notably one starting with P, and it’s sister shop P Red.
Over by Old Street tube there’s a shop called Gear at 75 Great Eastern St. Last year when i visited the premises it was called Expectations - but it’s now owned by a german company and been rebranded. The whole shop is in the basement - but it’s quite open and visible from the street - so again don’t go here first if you’re getting used to whole gay sex shop lark. A lot of the store is given over to clothing, but they have a decent amount of sex objects, including some more extreme items. However quite a lot of their objects are kept in glass cabinets, which may keep out shoplifters, but isn’t really helpful for potential buyers. They also have a urinal on full display. And maybe taking a leaf out of the current fad for bike shops to have a cafe, they also have a proper coffee machine - although i wasn’t offered one during my relatively short visit! The shop is located in an area with lots of offices, and it felt slightly odd visiting it at 5pm - but i’m sure at other times it would be fine!
One shop that it included in Amex Shop Small is Fetch in Clapham High St - but sadly I haven’t yet managed to check it out. I’ll update this post if I manage to do so before Amex Shop Small finishes.
Another place that’s included in Amex SS is Gay’s the Word on Marchmond Street, north of Russell Sq tube station. It’s a fairly small, and a little squashed book shop aimed at gay people.
One place that I visited last year was Harmony, who have branches on both Oxford St and Charing Cross Road. I found the shop pretty grim - it seemed to be aimed at the hen party, jokey side of the customer base.
Hopefully something here will be useful. Let me know if there are any others that I should go and take a look at.
05 December 2018
changed his mind
it was a common enough steam room situation ... a few different guys ... some interested in others ... who were interested in others ...
and nothing much happened !
in the end it was just me and another guy that i see there from time to time ... a friend refers to him as the staring guy
and we were both horny ... so we started to get off ... but the staring guy seemed to change his mind ...
however i was past the point of no return ... so he couldn't stop me !
i made sure that my cumshot didn't hit him ... but he really needed to decide sooner if he didn't want it to happen
and nothing much happened !
in the end it was just me and another guy that i see there from time to time ... a friend refers to him as the staring guy
and we were both horny ... so we started to get off ... but the staring guy seemed to change his mind ...
however i was past the point of no return ... so he couldn't stop me !
i made sure that my cumshot didn't hit him ... but he really needed to decide sooner if he didn't want it to happen
03 December 2018
not quite right
before i left to go on holiday i had been chatting to this guy on Tinder ... and whilst i was away we arranged to meet up for a date a couple of days after i got back ...
i suggested an art gallery - as i find it useful to have something to ease the pressure / focus ... and it can be interesting to hear their take on the art ...
in theory i should have found this guy appealing ... he was relatively attractive, had beautifully smooth skin, was tall and slim ... but for some reason it just didn't work
i was fairly sure straight away that it wasn't going to work ... but persevered ... and even went for a coffee with him afterwards ... but i just couldn't get excited
he was probably a bit camper than i usually go for ... and a little younger ... and didn't really have very much interesting to say ...
and i disagreed with his taste in art ... but then i disagree with many people !
i suggested an art gallery - as i find it useful to have something to ease the pressure / focus ... and it can be interesting to hear their take on the art ...
in theory i should have found this guy appealing ... he was relatively attractive, had beautifully smooth skin, was tall and slim ... but for some reason it just didn't work
i was fairly sure straight away that it wasn't going to work ... but persevered ... and even went for a coffee with him afterwards ... but i just couldn't get excited
he was probably a bit camper than i usually go for ... and a little younger ... and didn't really have very much interesting to say ...
and i disagreed with his taste in art ... but then i disagree with many people !
01 December 2018
first time back
after a few weeks away, it's always good to get home ... and enjoy the gym chain that i'm a member of !
the first couple of steam room visits that i made didn't produce any results ...
but on the third occasion i came up trumps (with a small T)
it wasn't the most exciting encounter ever (i seem to say that a lot recently) - but it was still enjoyable
good to be home.
the first couple of steam room visits that i made didn't produce any results ...
but on the third occasion i came up trumps (with a small T)
it wasn't the most exciting encounter ever (i seem to say that a lot recently) - but it was still enjoyable
good to be home.
29 November 2018
office building
after a couple of weeks on holiday with a friend ... i was really in the need for some action !
after my friend left i was travelling on my own ... and whilst a couple of opportunities presented themsleves, they didn't quite work out
then a guy suggested coming to his office building !
it was late at night, and he promised that we wouldn't get interrupted ... so i agreed
he let me in, and we walked past his desk, and to a gym area on the same floor !
before long he was sucking me off ... and i was giving him verbal abuse ... which is what he wanted !!
he seemed to enjoy it ... and i definitely did, as i produced a pretty impressive load for him
afterwards he thanked me on Grindr ... which is always a good sign of a job well done !
after my friend left i was travelling on my own ... and whilst a couple of opportunities presented themsleves, they didn't quite work out
then a guy suggested coming to his office building !
it was late at night, and he promised that we wouldn't get interrupted ... so i agreed
he let me in, and we walked past his desk, and to a gym area on the same floor !
before long he was sucking me off ... and i was giving him verbal abuse ... which is what he wanted !!
he seemed to enjoy it ... and i definitely did, as i produced a pretty impressive load for him
afterwards he thanked me on Grindr ... which is always a good sign of a job well done !
27 November 2018
a repeat encounter
just a few days after meeting the guy who wanted me to cum inside him ... we met up again ...
it was the night before i was heading off on holiday ... so i didn't have much time ...
he wanted me to go over to his place ... and since he lived fairly closeby, i did ...
i often enjoy visiting different places - i guess i'm nosey to see how other guys live ...
this place wasn't very attractive ... and the guy hadn't improved over the last encounter either !
it wasn't a great time ... but at least i got to unload before heading off on holiday !!
it was the night before i was heading off on holiday ... so i didn't have much time ...
he wanted me to go over to his place ... and since he lived fairly closeby, i did ...
i often enjoy visiting different places - i guess i'm nosey to see how other guys live ...
this place wasn't very attractive ... and the guy hadn't improved over the last encounter either !
it wasn't a great time ... but at least i got to unload before heading off on holiday !!
25 November 2018
come inside
i had a guy over to my place who was odd !
his Grindr messages were so insistent that i almost cancelled ... as he came across as a weirdo
however when he arrived over (he lives nearby) he seemed fairly normal !
he was keen to bottom ... and i was happy to facilitate ... but he really wanted me to cum whilst inside him (using condom) ...
but for some reason it wasn't happening ... maybe i didn't find him attractive enough, i'm not sure why ...
we both produce decent sized loads ... but i did feel a bit like i let him down !
his Grindr messages were so insistent that i almost cancelled ... as he came across as a weirdo
however when he arrived over (he lives nearby) he seemed fairly normal !
he was keen to bottom ... and i was happy to facilitate ... but he really wanted me to cum whilst inside him (using condom) ...
but for some reason it wasn't happening ... maybe i didn't find him attractive enough, i'm not sure why ...
we both produce decent sized loads ... but i did feel a bit like i let him down !
24 November 2018
Five in the steam
usually steam room encounters involve a couple of gay guys waiting for the straight guy to leave ...
althought there's the notable exception of the notorious gym steam room ... but that's unusual ...
however, i was recently in a (non notorious) steam room ... and there were five guys there all up for fun ...
i don't remember it being a particularly good encounter ... but it's always fun to see lots of other hard dicks !
althought there's the notable exception of the notorious gym steam room ... but that's unusual ...
however, i was recently in a (non notorious) steam room ... and there were five guys there all up for fun ...
i don't remember it being a particularly good encounter ... but it's always fun to see lots of other hard dicks !
23 November 2018
steam snog
steam room encounters at the gym are often fairly transactional / rushed / unsensuous affairs ...
but i recently had a fairly pleasant encounter that included a snog ...
the only trouble was that he didn't taste so good ... so i couldn't continue it for too long ...
but it definitely added to the volume that i produced !
but i recently had a fairly pleasant encounter that included a snog ...
the only trouble was that he didn't taste so good ... so i couldn't continue it for too long ...
but it definitely added to the volume that i produced !
22 November 2018
Hitting solid
As you may have noticed ... i've been very slack updating my blog of late ... so the next half dozen posts are written from notes that i scribbled down (electronically speaking) at the time of the encounter ... so apologies for the vagueness as i finally flesh them out ... so to speak ...
I had a guy over to my place ... nice enough guy ... and once we got naked, he seemed keen for me to play with his ass ...
the trouble was that it wasn't long before i hit something fairly substantial !
i'm not too precious about these things ... i accept that if you play with an ass, your fingers won't come out smelling like roses ... but this was a big item ...
maybe he wasn't expecting to get fingered ... or maybe he just didn't care ... either way, not the most enjoyable of events !
I had a guy over to my place ... nice enough guy ... and once we got naked, he seemed keen for me to play with his ass ...
the trouble was that it wasn't long before i hit something fairly substantial !
i'm not too precious about these things ... i accept that if you play with an ass, your fingers won't come out smelling like roses ... but this was a big item ...
maybe he wasn't expecting to get fingered ... or maybe he just didn't care ... either way, not the most enjoyable of events !
02 October 2018
wash it off
i usually enter the steam room with some body lotion in my hand (which my gyms provide) ... to more easily work myself into a rigid state ...
the other day i had just arrived in the steam ... found it empty ... and excited myself ... when a bloke came in who was clearly up for some action ...
after playing with my equipment he suggested that i go and wash off the lotion, so he could suck me ...
i'm always happy to be sucked ... so i agreed to his proposal
when i arrived back into the steam a few minutes later ... the prospective sucker was still alone ... so i didn't even bother sitting down - just went straight over and let him at it ...
he started off by examining my dick ... presumably to check for obvious signs of disease ! thankfully he didn't find any, so he admitted it to his mouth ...
it wasn't the best BJ ever - not enough suction for me - but it was reasonably good ...
he made it clear that he didn't want me to cum in his mouth ... and as he got closer ... he stood up and wanted to kiss me ...
he wanted to see me cum first ... and as soon as i started ... he followed !
not the most attractive bloke ever - but an enjoyable experience nonetheless.
the other day i had just arrived in the steam ... found it empty ... and excited myself ... when a bloke came in who was clearly up for some action ...
after playing with my equipment he suggested that i go and wash off the lotion, so he could suck me ...
i'm always happy to be sucked ... so i agreed to his proposal
when i arrived back into the steam a few minutes later ... the prospective sucker was still alone ... so i didn't even bother sitting down - just went straight over and let him at it ...
he started off by examining my dick ... presumably to check for obvious signs of disease ! thankfully he didn't find any, so he admitted it to his mouth ...
it wasn't the best BJ ever - not enough suction for me - but it was reasonably good ...
he made it clear that he didn't want me to cum in his mouth ... and as he got closer ... he stood up and wanted to kiss me ...
he wanted to see me cum first ... and as soon as i started ... he followed !
not the most attractive bloke ever - but an enjoyable experience nonetheless.
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