incognito in the steam room

you might think that if you're going to get a physical with a guy in a steam room it's hard to do it anonymously (as opposed to underneath a toilet cubicle) ... but i recently found out that it can be done !

i was in the steam room, and there was a guy with a towel on his head (as well as one around his waist) ... and I assumed it was some sort of facial type thing (not really my thing) !

but after a while I found myself alone with him ... and his towel was clearly tenting :)

after some tentative steps ... i got my hand up his towel, and discovered that his member was indeed engorged ... and nicely prepared with soap / shampoo, ready for manipulation !

sadly i didn't manage to milk him ... but it was a briefly enjoyable / bizarre moment ...

4th time lucky

i was beginning to think that my run of fun in the gym had come to an end ... a couple of guys who were clearly up for some steam room action ... weren't up for action with me !

usually i limit myself to three trips to the steam room (with cool downs in between) ... if something hasn't happened by then ... i have a shower and leave ...

this time, some bloke was blocking my locker ... and I couldn't be bothered asking him to move all his stuff ... so i went back to the steam room for a rare fourth appearance ...

this time there was another guy there who was clearly up for action, and a guy who had been coy earlier started to get involved as well ...

the new guy turned out to be ridiculously good at masturbating me !  to the point where he managed to get me off in just a couple of minutes !!  it's rare for a guy to be able to provide the right stimulation for me ... but this guy had the pressure / rhythm / angle just right ...

after i had ejaculated he didn't let go of my dick ... which made my whole body twitch / spasm ... which was sort of fun !

who said that gyms were boring ?!

are you ok with us ...

sometimes in the steam room there are guys who seem to enjoy watching other guys get in on, but don't actually partake ...

in those situations, i like to ask if they are "ok with it" ... which sometimes results in them joining in !

the other day I had a rather surprising outcome ...

there were just three of us in the steam room - all sandwiched into the corner ... #2 guy in the corner wasn't taking an active interest ... but the way #3 guy was looking at his crotch, i guessed that #2 guy was gay and ok ...

so i asked #2 if he was "ok with us" ... but he seemed confused !

it suddenly became clear that he was neither gay, nor aware that #3 guy and i were about to get it on !!

i've chatted to #2 before in the steam room, and he's a really friendly guy ... but this time he mentioned his finnish girlfriend ... so maybe he eventually worked it out !

it all ended fine ... but it is one of the dangers / excitements of action in a straight gym steam room !

funeral of a guy whose dick you've sucked

one of my schoolfriends died recently after a five year illness ... and thankfully i was able to attend his funeral with a bunch of my classmates.

although I haven't had much to do with him since we finished school, he was one of my best friends all through secondary school.

he was also the first guy that i messed around with ... one very drunken night in the summer whilst i was at university.  i don't think he had much sex at the time, and if you're that drunk and horny, and somebody offers to suck your dick ... then i guess you don't really care what gender they are !

he was happily married with a kid ... and it never happened again ... but it was really weird attending the funeral without saying a word to anybody about what had happened !

do you want to come to my place

some of the guys that i mess around with at the gym aren't guys that i would meet up with for an "encounter"

when it's dark in the steam room ... you can use your imagination to pretend that you find them attractive ...

but in the cold light of the elevator down to the street ... when they suddenly blurt out "do you want to come to my place - I live locally" ... i'm confronted by my double standards !

i politely declined.

crawling around the undergrowth

i was recently away on holiday with a friend ... and since we were sharing hotel rooms the opportunities for "fun" were quite limited ...

after about a week, I was getting seriously horny, and so when a cute guy wanted to meet up (and he coudn't host either), i suggested that we meet up at the beach ...

the trouble was there was quite a bright moon, and that the only cover was some bushes / trees at the back of the beach, near a cycle path !

we managed to climb in, but I had visions of us being killed by snakes / alligators ...

thankfully neither of those happened ... but it was a rather rushed, and not hugely satisfying encounter !

STD haven ?

i had seen this guy online who seemed to live nearby ... and whilst he looked hot ... he was on PrEP, and seemed to engage in unsafe sex.

one evening i was feeling particularly horny, and thought that as long as i didn't partake in unsafe sex, i would be ok ... so i messaged him, and he agreed to come over - possibly after having sex with another guy (it wasn't clear) !

it was a reasonably enjoyable encounter, and he did try to initiate unsafe sex, but i was strong, and didn't give in !

a couple of days afterwards i noticed loads of little tiny wart like things on my hands.  it made me wonder if there was a connection.

thankfully they disappeared in about a week, without any treatment.

what counts as cheating ?

i was recently enjoying myself in the gym steam room ... where there was a guy who appeared to be gay, but didn't partake ... so i guess he might be partnered ...

which made me think ... what counts as cheating ?

if you watch other guys wanking off, but don't do it yourself ?
if you wank yourself off (whilst watching other guys) but don't touch them ?
if you let another guy touch your nipples, but don't let him touch your dick ?
if a guy asks you to turn around so he can see your ass ... so he can wank off (but not close enough to shoot on you) ?
if a guy asks you to part your cheeks so he can see your asshole ?

where do you draw the line ?!

22 hours later

the Label gym will soon overtake the tag date on my blog ... oh dear !

but sometimes a gym encounter can turn into a seriously enjoyable time !!

i was recently in the gym, and saw this really beautiful black guy in the changing room - clearly happy for people to enjoy looking at his body, as he put lotion on his beautifully smooth skin ... walked around fully naked ...

a few days later I saw him in the steam room ... clearly up for some action ... and whilst we enjoyed each other briefly, neither of us got off ...

so when we chatted in the changing room afterwards, I suggested that we meet up sometime ... I didn't realise that he took that to mean straight away ... but after waiting in the lounge for him to finish dressing, it was clear that was what he intended !

which was fine with me - we went back to my place ... and had a very enjoyable session ... and he stayed the night ... and we had some more fun the next day too.

High and annoying

I had been chatting to a guy online about meeting up ... we had previously chatted about 9 months ago, but had never actually met up ...

He seemed quite nervous, and probably hadn't met that many guys, as he was quite recently out of a relationship with a woman.  He dropped into the online chat a question about drugs ... and as usual I replied that I didn't really use them, but I was fine with him doing so.  Normally it's not really an issue when I meet up with a guy - but I'm not really a fan.

I went over to his place, and he was quite a bit heavier than his photos suggested ... but I was horny, and he was keen, so I thought I might as well just get on with it !

He was a nice enough guy ... but I think the drugs he had taken (he said that it was some sort of legal high) put him on edge ... he seemed quite nervous and not fully with it (asked the same question again within a few minutes).

Anyway, after a while we sorted each other out.

Before we had even cum, he suggested meeting again ... but I doubt we will.

Steamroom gaydar

Sometimes it's really obvious when a guy is up for it ... the best indication is when they are in the steamroom fully naked, and looking around - often sitting on top of their towel ...

Another easy spot is when he has his towel meeting at his crotch for easy access - and he starts to touch himself ...

But there was a guy the other day who entered the steamroom ... sat down the far end ... and had his towel wrapped so tightly around himself that he couldn't possibly access his goods !

I looked over at him (he was really fit), and touched myself through my towel - you never know when a member of gym staff will be using the steamroom, so I'm quite careful - with zero expectation that he was going to react ...

Next thing I know, he stands up and unwraps his towel - I think I gasped as his beautiful dick flopped out - and rearranged it so he can access his dick more easily ... and shortly after, he moved over to my end of the steamroom !

Before too long, I manipulated him into shooting a nice load :)

Just goes to show, you never know who will be up for it in the steamroom!

Trying out V

A few years ago I bought some Viagra (through a reputable high street pharmacy chain) ... as I wanted to see what it was like.

It has sat in my bedside drawer for ages ... and I recently got it out to see what the expiry date was!  Impressively, it still has another couple of years to go, but I thought I really should use it ...

The instructions say that you should take it an hour beforehand, and not on a ful stomach (for maximum impact) ...

I took half a pill ... and waited ... and within 45 minutes, as soon as I got horny, I could feel that it just didn't go down !

The instructions said that I might feel flushed, and get a blocked nose - and I got both of those.

In the end, I didn't actually meet the guy I was expecting - so I didn't get to use it in anger, so to speak !

But a week later, I took the other half of the pill ... and did meet up with a guy.  I didn't feel quite as flushed, or as nasally as before (maybe next time it will be a bit less again).

Both times I thought I was producuing more precum than usual ... and the guy I met was shocked by how much I was leaking!

I'm lookig forward to using the other three pills :)

Rugby and fun ...

In case you haven't noticed, it's Rugby World Cup time ... and I took a trip to another city in the UK to watch my country play one of the minnows of the tournament !

Sadly I hadn't managed to persuade any of my family / friends to come on this trip ... but that meant that I was able to look into having some fun after the match ...

One of the guys I chatted to online seemed keen to meet, and lived really close to the stadium ... so we arranged to rendez-vous in the street nearby ...

After some confusion I went to the agreed spot ... and he found me ... I'm not sure I would have recognised him from his photos ... but at least it means that my photos must be reasonably representative !

After getting back to his place, and slowly removing each other's clothes ... it turned out that this guy's dick had the biggest head that I think I've ever seen !  Whilst his dick was generously sized, the head was just enormous !!

After a while we both climaxed.  Quite an enjoyable addition to the rugby win.

Bad timing

I was in the steamroom with a couple of guys recently ... and things started to happen ... but the temperature was so damn high, that I had to get out for a few minutes ...

When I returned #2 guy had left ... and #3 guy was cleaning up having just shot a load ... I really enjoy watching a guy shoot, so missing an eruption is always disappointing !

I asked #3 guy if #2 guy had cum as well - and apparently he had ... double disapointment !

So I sorted myself out, as I watched #3 guy clean up his cum ... so he got to see me shoot ... before he left for a shower.

Shortly afterwards #2 guy arrived back into the steamroom, as I was about to leave ... and it turned out that he hadn't cum !

What a waste of good cumshots ...

Steamroom halitosis

Sometimes in the steamroom, when I'm getting it on with a guy, they are keen to kiss ...

And usually I'm very happy to partake ... but recently I was enjoying a nice guy, and we started to kiss ... but he had fairly manky breath !

If this happened elsewhere, I would have told him to go and clean his teeth ... but it's not really something you can do in the steamroom ...

So we sorted each other out without any further kissing !